Okay so about a week ago my boyfriend pecked another girl on the neck in front of me. I got realllyyyyyy upset and threw the coke I had bought him in the face. He came after me really upset and told me how much he loved me and he was just saying "hey" and I told him it was HIGHLY inappropriate and unacceptable and I said I won't take that crap. He told me he was so sorry and didn't know what the hell he was thinking and that he would never ever do it again and he promised me. What's worse is the girl looks like a man...but she is a huge flirt. Although looks don't matter. Anyways, we are together again and he understands how my trust is broken but he says he loves me (we have been dating for a while) and we both love each other a lot. He's never EVER done anything to make me not trust him before....did I over-react and am I stupid to be with him again?? Honest opinions please...thanks!! :)
2007-06-15 20:22:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all women over react. its a fact of life. i dont think it was wrong to let him back into ur life but if he does it again then id be concerned.
2007-06-15 20:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you did overreact. I can understand you not liking the pecking part but that does not mean his is breaking your trust. When we meet friends we often hug them would that qualify for breach of trust? No, right!?. By what you mention he seems pretty much for you, since after the coke was in his face he still apologised to you cause you were hurt. Dont be head on about these things. Talk to him if you dont like something. I DONT think you are stupid to get back with him.
2007-06-15 20:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by All Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he shouldn't be doing that anyways ur his GF & he shoulda been faithful 2 u but hes not don't get bac together cuz what he did waz wrong hes saying hes sorry hes lying 2 u cuz he jus wants u bac he don't want u 2 leave him 4get him he ain't worth it he broke that trust & its hard 2 gain it bac leave him 4 good u didn't over-react ur not stupid he waz 4 doing that ecspecially in front of u ur not stupid 4 being wit him ur dumb as hell 4 being wit dat fool get rid of his @$$ u did tha rite thing & 2 do a even more of a rite thing break up wit him hope this helps
2007-06-15 20:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
M-MMMMM-mmm-mmm. I once had a bf that I knew he loved me but was passive aggressive. Once he knew he had me, he became an unbearable flirt and I was embarrassed to be with him because he was sooo rude to me. I threatened once to throw a plate of food in his face if he wasted any more of my time. It was the old do you want to be with me or not. I CAN find something else to do. He just ate it up. He just loved those games. Treat you good, treat you bad, treat you good, and on and on. Luckily when someone treats you badly, you get very tired of it and get even and/or kick them to the curb. But what a waste of my good time. You probably over reacted but you definitely taught him a lesson. His behavior was not acceptable. You might want to try to learn to discuss problems. Just see what happens in the future. And don't waste as much time as I did if he turns out to be a jerk.
2007-06-15 20:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer undergo in recommendations ever throwing a drink in somebody's face - yet I do undergo in recommendations that as quickly as i replaced into on my thank you to Edinburgh in 2005, I (by hazard) threw some espresso over the in good condition jacket of the guy sitting next to me on the practice.
2016-10-17 10:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You WAY over-reacted, but you were right to be upset. Probably would have been better to pull him aside a moment later and tell him you want to go home if that's how he's going to behave.
2007-06-15 20:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your trust could have been broken from that if it was just a peck....why did you need to throw a drink and act all crazy? why didn't you act like a lady and just bounce on his ***?
2007-06-15 20:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is doing these things IN FRONT OF YOU, what do you think he is doing behind your back :( i think you need to look into this more, grill his friends and find out what is really happening
2007-06-15 20:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Christina V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once I was at taco bell with a girl and I told her that she is ugly and she threw melted cheese at me but I ducked and it hit some guy
2007-06-15 20:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by eric shin 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do not ever do it again.please be patient with your kind love.say sorry to him and forget about the past.
2007-06-15 20:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by boote k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋