Ok I'm just wondering if you meet a guy and he totally worked out at the gym 3 times a week and what not but was still a little overweight. So when you grab his arm you could totally feel a huge mass meat on it. Do you think this is attractive or not? He is trying... why don't you help give him a push?
Also if you have dated a fat guy. What was the relationship like?
2007-06-15 20:03:26 · 18 answers · asked by Jackel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, never have.
2007-06-15 20:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Speaking as a fat guy myself, as much as I hate to admit it, I must say that the comment by the psychology graduate was SOMEWHAT accurate. I am currently taking medication for a mental illness, and unfortunately, one of the side effects of the medicine is weight gain. Before I took the medication I was skinny as a rail. For me, though, I would rather be happy and fat instead of suffering from my mental illness. However, the thing this psychology student should realize is that not all skinny people are mentally healthy well adjusted people. I know a lot of skinny people who are just plain nasty or psychotic people.
2007-06-15 20:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by z_o_r_r_o 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dated a chubby guy for a year and it was a great experience. He never pressured me about my own weight or how I looked. He never compared me to other girls or made me feel bad about myself for any reason. He accepted me for me and always made me feel worthy and beautiful. I think he understood what it was like to be constantly judged in this society because of the way we look. Maybe he didn't like the way he looked himself and never wanted me to feel the same. Plus, he had an incredible personality. He owned his chubbiness and is an absolutely hilarious person. I think anyone who wouldn't date a guy because of his weight is extremely superficial and missing out on some wonderful guys out there. Just my two cents on the subject...
2007-06-15 20:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fat and/or overweight guys, I wouldn't say are a turn off... Just not what I normally date. Just keep workin' at it, you'll find your girl. Good luck.
I wouldn't be opposed to dating a fat/overweight guy, as long as he was able to fit my needs, and we got along great, I don't know why I wouldn't date him if he was the guy for me. That would just be dumb not to.
2007-06-15 20:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by jennjennthemeanjenn 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, im a heavy set girl- not fat fat, lil overweight. And i've Never dated a fat guy, or a guy that was overweight for that matter. Interestingly enough I have been attracted to bigger men, but they werent interested in me cause i didnt weigh 90lbs. Fat on a person doesnt concern me; its if they are healthy.
2007-06-15 20:08:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
there's a difference between meat and blubber..
i love meaty guys..
my boyfriend is 6'5, 275 lbs.. i don't know if that constiutes him as being fat.. he's a little chubby.. but whatever.. it works for us!! i could never go out with a super skinny guy.. i gotta have the meat on the bones!!
and our relationship is great!!
p.s. i'm 21 years old..
so what is up with all of the thumbs down!?!?!?!?! it's just our opinions!! nobody's saying anything really mean or derogatory.. chill out people..
2007-06-15 20:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by idgaf 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
a lttle over weight is nothing and also i have dated a guy with a wegiht problem. the wieght isnt an issue to me either way ( skinny or fat )
2007-06-15 20:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never dated an overweight guy, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't. I wouldn't say that a "huge mass of weight" is attractive, but it's not a turnoff if he is basically healthy.
2007-06-15 20:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by V Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
f whatever1 else thinks lol if u like him go for it btw u cant tell by a persons weight if the relationship is going to be good or not thats dumb
2007-06-15 20:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by qu3en 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah...
well, his being fat had nothing to do with the relationship...i mean it was never an issue to us...
everytime he hugs me, i actually fell secure..and it feels good to just cuddle together...
2007-06-15 20:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by cindy b 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know im sad and karma will probably get back at me but i do not date fat guys because i and only i think that it is representative of their inner self messy and careless sorry if i offended any one thats what i think and im a psychology graduate
2007-06-15 20:07:25 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 5⤋