Family & Relationships - 12 June 2007

My BF goes to clubs but when i wanted to go with my girlfriends he said if u wanna go i wont talk to u ever ,,,
My BF has girlfriends but he made it clear that he is not okay with me having guy friends
my BF acts like he is open minded ( weed addict) but when i though of joining a mixed gym he freaked out
my BF drinks occasionly but he dont want me to hang out with my friends when they drink
and it wasnt that simple he put me throught realllly hard times every time i want to do somthing thats he's not okay with it
so i tols him the ideal solution is that we both change our life style (after i changed mine by circumestances force ) so suddenly he said noo u know what fine do whatever u want and ill do whatever i want
and from that day i dont see him like a man enough for me ...bieng gay is more manly that doing this and try to act like a man ,he doesnt even turn me on now but the problem is other than this he is soo perfect lover and friend but i guess he wants me all for him

2007-06-12 23:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i stop him i want to marry a boy he loves me a lot cares me he ask me to give her 1 year time so he can earn money what can i do how can i stop my father pls help me iam in trouble my mother is un educated lady she wont listen to any how can i stop my father i lives in vijaywada Ap i want to marry after one year withy taht baoy now iam in bsc 2nd year everday peoples are ciomming to my house to see me for marriage please my father told me that if i wont listen to him he will burry me alive...........

2007-06-12 23:33:50 · 6 answers · asked by nausheen_dreemgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I'm pretty sure this guy i likes ; likes me back . The other day he said something on IM about how "We click" . And we flirt a little and we can have serious conversations too . I'm almost positive he likes me but I don't know how to tell him I like him , and I don't want to be wrong about it . How do I say it ?

2007-06-12 23:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by Candace 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 23:32:17 · 45 answers · asked by nicola h 1 in Weddings

There is a guy that I have known for about 6 months. I see him most weekends because we both have friends within the same circle.

When I see him I never get a chance to be with him alone because of our friends but I need to know the signs of how he would flirt.
He's quite shy with girls.

He always talks to me,or stands near me but doesn't really say much, jsut little things not a proper conversation.

When I was at a pub talking to a guy he asked my friend if I fancied that guy, she said 'no i don't think so' because she knows who I do fancy. He said 'Wel you can't blame him for talking to her.'

He doesn't really flirt with anyone, but one night he was quite drunk and he kept looking round in his chair and staring at me, not very subtly, he was really drunk though.

On msn he's much more confident, and says hi everyday, sending me songs I might like and pictures of him at a friends house, he even sent me his coursework once lol.

And once when we were in a group of friends in a park, he started saying a ryhme with my name in it? whats that about

He doesn't really aske me questions though, even though he starts the conversation I feel like i'm keeping it going.

I don't know if I sould let him know how I feel. Sorry for the essay! but it's driving me mad

2007-06-12 23:30:36 · 13 answers · asked by Some random girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyrfriend for 5 years in november, he's been divorced twice before, and sometimes i think, id like to get married, but then i think i don't want to be just another wife of his. and i don't want to go through the actual process. and the idea makes me feel sick in my stomach, not full of pleasure! he said the other day he thinks it's just a front, but i know he doesn't want to get married having been divorced twice already. does that make me weird? or do i have another issue? i can't figure it out.

2007-06-12 23:21:17 · 14 answers · asked by bliggyblob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

omfg....i was naturally beautiful..but all i need were a few things..when i moved..everyone thought i as skinny, hot, and other stuff....but y dont they ever ask me out?? even the ones with no gfs??! i dont want my 8th grade year to be boyfriendless!! what should i do?

2007-06-12 23:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-12 23:05:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i went to the guy im intos shop last sunday....


he had made me a new number plate the other week for my car as a gift and he gave me a front one on sunday. One of his employees who iv'e never seen before but drives a nice audi. I joked with D outside the shop.

Me: "Whose is that car then?"
D: It's barrys
Me: is barry married?
D: No he's got a 25 yr old (barry must be about 45)
Me: ooo I can knock her off i'm younger than that
D: (quite seriously) so you're dropping me now?
To which i was like wtf i didn't realise i was with him to drop him.
Me: awww you jealous now that i'm looking at other men?
D: yes i am

Again with the wtf!! Then he asks where my bra is cos i had a strapless one on????? weird???
otherwise he was tappin me and asking 2 come around as a joke 2 watch me wash my car in a bikini lol




Still what do you think he means by the things he says mostly im interested in the bit i wrote in speech.

Can i have sum opinions please guys thanks

2007-06-12 22:58:35 · 18 answers · asked by snapesbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend's boyfriend loves me. he said that we can be together secretly. i have a boyfriend too. should i tell this to my friend ? i'm afraid that she can get angry and sad if i explain this condition.helllpppp!!!

2007-06-12 22:52:35 · 9 answers · asked by fiammetta 3 in Singles & Dating

like some time i can lost my control and resolt in quarel. what can i do about that ?

2007-06-12 22:51:52 · 13 answers · asked by agany t 1 in Singles & Dating

If a person says so many wrong words to his girlfriend and after that entire he says that he loved her. Is this person is genuine, is he really loves her?

2007-06-12 22:50:18 · 4 answers · asked by shikha s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It read,,.,.,.

NOW if i'm pregnant with my lovers baby, should I lie to my husband and tell him its his.,.,.

I had lots of insults and put downs, I realy enjoyed reading then this morning. I notice that 98 per cent of the answers are from the USA, is it me or are the yanks so so gullable.

2007-06-12 22:41:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should I let my bf take the control over everything?

2007-06-12 22:40:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol dont think im disgusting or anything but ive just got back with my boufriend of a yr and a have 2 months ago and its funny how much he brags about doin work in the bedroom once i first met him and to this day he must know what he's doing but he's all bull..... I give out fake orgasams and act like he's really doing work when all he's really doing is making me wanna just say "STOP now get the HELL off of me!" Lol I mean i love him dont get me wrong and he even asks me what turns me on and i dont tell him what he's doing wrong in a serious way cause i dont want to put down his man hood.... See im 20 yrs old and he's 24 and he's been wayyyyyy experienced in sex before me and i feel he acts like he does not know what he's doing like a lil virgin having sex for the first time...... But im so tired of just being nice to him and letting him believe he's doing work but i dont know how to tell him can someone pleaseeeee help me :)

Thanks

Love Keekee

2007-06-12 22:37:10 · 10 answers · asked by MzHoTtIE 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been with her boyfriend couple of months,she did have a boyfriend before who she was with for 3 years...right cutting it short - her boyfriend is going away for a weekend over his ex girlfriends holiday home with a few mates of his and her mates for a fun" weekend ...he hasn't invited my friend who is meant to be his girlfriend. Ok i thought that is very odd.
To be honest if my boyfriend who ive been with 3 years tried that bullsh*t on me...I'd hang him by his balls! Me n my boyfriend told her she was being a mug....and ask him y hasnt she being invited as she is his girlfriend . But she said i trust him..Grrr ! would u trust ur girlfriend/boyfriend to go off with an ex for a weekend?? Plz don't tell me im the only one who would kill my boyfriend if he asked me if he could! lol

2007-06-12 22:18:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-12 22:18:13 · 1 answers · asked by Hassan A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 22:17:12 · 12 answers · asked by luv 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this isn't from me, it's from my brother but he's making me type it on here...

He's going out with a girl on-line ( they're both 16 ). They love each other very much , but lately they haven't been talking to each other. The girl is really smart and he knows that she needs to get her homework/assignments done. So he was wondering, if he should let her go so she could concentrate on her studies , instead of trying to come online.

2007-06-12 22:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by Miss.Murder 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i'm totally single and bored with doing the samething everyday. I like to try new things and stuff but i really want to do something attractive n a little wild. so any ideas?

2007-06-12 22:14:36 · 14 answers · asked by kaylia j 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-12 22:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Everyone,

Need your help again!! Have met a new guy, we get on really well and have both fallen 4 each other in a big way!

Unfortunately we both booked hols b4 got 2gether and are both away soon....we both live @ home so haven't really had a chance to make the most of each other- if you know what I mean!!

What can I do to really make him wanna *** back to me after his lads holiday...needs to be good guys, I think he is very experimental in the bedroom & want to make sure he comes back for more, lol!!

2007-06-12 22:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by money bank 1 in Singles & Dating

nibbling on the persons neck and ears, suckin on their lips, kissing them, holding them? You dream about different things too, not always sexual?

2007-06-12 22:05:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you loved someone very much(he broke your heart) but you know that he is in a bad situation & if you had to see him in this bad situation.what can you do?

2007-06-12 22:05:28 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Egypt 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend from high school is getting married on Saturday, about 2 hours drive away. I havent really seen anythin of her since we left school 7 years ago, but keep in touch with the odd text on birthdays and xmas. The thing is my fiance and I cant go as we cant afford it, we booked the hotel with the intention of going but cant, Ive cancelled the hotel and now I dont know what to say to my friend. I cant tell her the truth as I dont want people knowing how skint I am. Help please?!
I know honesty is the best policy, but telling the truth in this situation is not good!

2007-06-12 21:58:29 · 33 answers · asked by Happy 2 in Friends

If a girl is with someone but she flirts with someone else but doesn't kiss or touch or sleep with them does that make her a h*e?

2007-06-12 21:51:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I did Scouts for 5 YEARS and Ice Hockey for 3 YEARS but I gave them up. Now I want to try something else but my mum won't let me becuase I am a "Quitter"

Am I really a quitter? Should my mum just let me do the new thing?

2007-06-12 21:43:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am back in touch with my ex gf. Things ended 4 mths ago, her choice. For 2 mths I tried to get her back but she was sure us being apart was right.

She didn't seem ultra interested in meeting me. Only 1 mth ago she didn't want to meet as it wouldn't be fair on the person she was seeing.

After that I told her I had moved on, was dating other women, and happy to be friends. As soon as I did that she unexpectedly rang me up, the first time in months.

I thought that was either because she was jealous/curious I had moved on or because she felt we could be friends because I was dating other people. She is not seeing anyone now!

We met for a drink a wk ago. There is definitely something still there.

I gave her space after that and rang last night. We are meeting for lunch at the weekend.

I want to try to get back with her but know I need to be patient. Tips?? Tips for this lunch.

2007-06-12 21:37:36 · 16 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a brother who is a few years younger than me. We are both in good jobs etc. My mother treats the two of us soo different. Over the years certain things puzzled me - when my wife and i went to parents to stay, i had to lye on floor and wife on bed, whereas brother and GF shares a bed. Also, when i got my first job, my mother insisted that i paid digs of £30 per week, and now my brother and girlfriend are living rent free? My wife and I have been married for 2 and half years and have seen each other 5 years. My mother has only spoken to the wife about 5 times, including the wedding. And within the last year she has only phoned the house 3 times. However i am always the one that phones them. I think if i never contacted them, they wouldnt bother at all. There is a baby on way and i thought my mum would change, she hasnt shown much interest really. Is this just me being the older brother and jealous? or should be mum be more of a parent equally? Should i move on and let her chase?

2007-06-12 21:31:36 · 6 answers · asked by geeboy 1 in Family

Hi, I M BELINDA. I M 45 YEARS OLD. I HAVE TRIED VARIOUS WAYS TO GET MARRIED BECAUSE I DONT WANT TO BE SINGLE. BUT COULDNOT SUCCEED. I HAVE TRIED WEBSITES BUT THAT IS TOO MUCH. I WANT ONLY ONE PARTNER. SOMEONE SEEMS TO BE INTERESTING AND SOMEONE NOT INTERESTING. WHERE SHOULD I FIND ONE. I HAVE MANY CHILDREN OF MY BROTHERS IN MY LIFE. I LOVE THEM AND M HAPPY WITH THEM. I SEEM TO GET EASILY IRRITATED WITH EVERYONE IN MY FAMILY BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT FRIENDLY WITH ME. WHATEVER I DO I DO FOR GOD. PLEASE SUGGEST ME WITH A LIFE PARTNER. THANKS VERY MUCH. HAPPY LIFE PARTNER.

2007-06-12 21:15:55 · 6 answers · asked by fernandes_bell 1 in Marriage & Divorce