Lol dont think im disgusting or anything but ive just got back with my boufriend of a yr and a have 2 months ago and its funny how much he brags about doin work in the bedroom once i first met him and to this day he must know what he's doing but he's all bull..... I give out fake orgasams and act like he's really doing work when all he's really doing is making me wanna just say "STOP now get the HELL off of me!" Lol I mean i love him dont get me wrong and he even asks me what turns me on and i dont tell him what he's doing wrong in a serious way cause i dont want to put down his man hood.... See im 20 yrs old and he's 24 and he's been wayyyyyy experienced in sex before me and i feel he acts like he does not know what he's doing like a lil virgin having sex for the first time...... But im so tired of just being nice to him and letting him believe he's doing work but i dont know how to tell him can someone pleaseeeee help me :)
Thanks
Love Keekee
2007-06-12 22:37:10 · 10 answers · asked by MzHoTtIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No we do it like twice a week we dont live together yet so its not that i give it to him to many times he's the one that be wantin it its just that he just doesnt know what he's doing thanks for the responses guys imma talk to him for sure :)
2007-06-12 22:54:22 · update #1
He isn't the only one not making love right. Tell him the truth, and stop faking orgasms. Lovemaking should be pleasurable to both of you, and you should tell him what you like since he did ask. Hurt his manhood? I don't think so. But if it does, good riddance to someone that only thinks about himself. You have some communication issues, and you need to resolve them in case you get married, to him or anyone else.
2007-06-12 23:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by isurfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Keekee there is no right way to tell him and looks like you just going to have a good talk with him about this problem and see if there are any new sex positions you two can try in the bedroom so you can have pleasure also .
2007-06-13 05:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how the hell is he supposed to know hes doing it wrong if you moan and groan like your having a good ole time? Act how you really feel, and maybe he will put in a little more effort in the bedroom to please you.
2007-06-13 05:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by LifeIsPeachy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just wanna ask..in a month how many times both of you having...sex? coz if it is 5-6 or more times.it is maybe a tired factor...he's just adjusting coz maybe he just thinking the usual thing. try to make him want you! lessen your sex & seduce him & stop then run home. do it for another day...
with that i think, he will realize how important you are to him!!
2007-06-13 05:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend, life is full of trial and errors.
2007-06-13 05:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tom Sayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to straighten his butt up. Tell him that you love him, but you would like for him to try "this" or "that" just to make it more interesting.
2007-06-13 05:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit him until he does it right it alsways works 4 me
2007-06-13 05:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is simple..............tell him the truth. Then he will be more attentive to you, and also he might not blow his own horn as loud.
2007-06-13 05:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him what to do ... men like it when u tell them
2007-06-13 05:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Meems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell wat u want and how to do.
2007-06-13 05:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by ahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋