Family & Relationships - 10 June 2007

long story cut short

Me and my boyfriend have only been together around 2 months. last week was a bad week for us me for my PMT and he kinda took the flack for it. He said he understood and just ignored me. He started being distant wed night and on friday he broke up with me. Telling me he doent no what he wants anymore, he wants to be alone and needs me time. I was devastated. And kept calling friday crying on the phone to him. saturday i tried so hard not to call but i had to and started crying again to him. i wen out sat night to take my mind off things and i told him i was going out. Sunday everything seemed a little easier and it felt like i was coping so much better. So i didnt feel the need to call him. But at 3pm the phone rang!!! It was him calling ME. 4TIMES. Just wanting a general chat i played it cool didngt cry or mention anything about the break up and sounded happy. is he missing me. do you think he will realise he does want me.

Sensible answers please.
xxx

2007-06-10 23:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

rum.I've been hiding it from my wife for years now and she caught me red handed and i told her i don't drink.
How do i get out of this.

2007-06-10 23:54:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your in a bar or a club and a guy comes over to you how would you most like him to start the conversation - offer to buy you a drink, use a cheesy chat up line, pay you a compliment, not approach and wait for you to make the first move or some other way?

2007-06-10 23:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by Spurs10 1 in Singles & Dating

http://360.yahoo.com/profile-3NcJBRU7aKgxrKwGHEIc

2007-06-10 23:18:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I spent £20000 on the house which is still in his name. Does anybody know how I stand. When we got together I sold my house and put all the proceeds into our new marital home which is in his name

2007-06-10 23:11:20 · 13 answers · asked by angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you are as hungry as him, there is nothing left for food,would u give it to that child?
or u will act u don't see anything and keep the bread for yourself?

2007-06-10 23:05:55 · 15 answers · asked by moonrider 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got done watching the movie "The Long Way Home" about a family where the father has just moved back in after leaving for molesting his daughter. He had gone through therapy and such.

My question is this: If your spouse molested one of your children and was caught, would you allow him or her to return home after he or she had completed treatment/jail/etc.? I'm just curious what other people think about the situation put forth in this movie. Anyone know a family who took back the molester?

2007-06-10 22:51:24 · 6 answers · asked by chandasalice 3 in Family

We have family members that wants to come and sleep over at our house. Unfortunately I have a huge problem with them, they don't clean up after themselves (even if you ask them directly) and they are a bit unhigienic as well. They cause a lot of tension between me and my hubby because I don't want them to sleepover. It's fine if they visit for the day, that I can cope with, but other than that I just don't have the patience. And I'm not talking about them leaving dirty mugs somewhere, I'm talking really bad stuff. Any advice/ideas on how we can resolve this? I don't want my hubby to not see them, but I also don't want it to cause so much strain on our relationship.

2007-06-10 22:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by Charmaine V 3 in Family

i finally spoke to my boyfriend who has been distant with me and he said that if it wasn't our difference in religion he would never have been this way with me. He said that his parents would never agree to us together and they are very strict. He said his feelings for me are strong and that a year down the line this would be much harder so better to keep it friendly.

I told him i wanted him in my life and he agreed we should be friends. He spoke to me more than ever before, and as i've been diagnosed with cancer, he even cried over the phone too. I felt it was genuine, i don't know. He also told me that he never cheated, but i know he did because i have evidence but i want to just put that behind me and be friends. Is that a smart idea? or am i playing into his hands?.. i still love him so being a friend is going to be hard. Any tips on how i can make this work? i want to call him now but am holding back.. it is probably best we remain friends. Should i trust him now?

2007-06-10 22:37:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 22:37:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom is the kinda girl who is in and out of alot of realationships. She has been married at least 4 times and everytime she says shes going to have a baby with that man.but then they get a divorce and she promises me she wont get married again. But now shes married AGAIN and she says shes going to have another baby with her husband and i think this time they are serious. shes even went to the doctor a couple of times and everything. im very upset about this because i dont know if this marrage will last long either and then what will happen with this baby. my dad was stuck raising me on my own since i was 2 and i dont want that to happen with my mom or her husband..Do i have a reason to be upset with my mom about this????or should i just be happy for her?

2007-06-10 22:31:35 · 3 answers · asked by Melly 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is 17 and hust got engaged but hes only bin with his girldfriend 5 month, but my mum was engaged when she was 17 what do you think about engagment today ? is it still valued the same?

2007-06-10 22:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've arranged a few dates withe women, but found that most of them keep changing their mind at the last minute. I've chatted away to them on the phone and all seems well, but then after a while they seem to just lose interest. Then they refuse to answer my calls and respond to my texts even though they sounded really enthusiatic only a week or two ago. Why would they do this; it's a complete waste of time for both of us and I'm getting really fed up with it. They're all the same. All I get is a final text saying something like "sorry I won't be there" or just "sorry" (if anything). No explanation. Nothing.

I don't get many women show interest in me, but the ones that do just seem to mess me around. Does this sound familiar to anyone else or am I the only one who has this.

2007-06-10 22:28:40 · 13 answers · asked by Ray S 1 in Singles & Dating

or to young to fall in love

2007-06-10 22:27:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have met 2 guys online who I have fallen in love with and they with me. One is 23 from the US and the other is 21 from Australia. Now the one from the US asked me to marry him and I said yes and this made the other guy made,saying he never wanted to speak to me again.
I have now learned that the other guy got mad because he wants to marry me.
What do I do. As I said I love them both and I dont want to hurt either of them.

2007-06-10 22:23:14 · 16 answers · asked by smehea 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to try a few things with my partner, what do men like in bed? What would turn you on a lot?

2007-06-10 22:21:32 · 22 answers · asked by aihsacak 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 22:15:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know the one thing i would change is marrying a violent man thinking he would change. what a doozey that was. still trying to divorce the plank,but hes being a pillac as usual. yes i would definatly change that one huge mistake,lol. whats your and why?? xx

2007-06-10 22:14:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am the type of girl who has never had a boyfriend, and am completely inexperienced at flirting with boys, even though I am 19!! I avoid all eye contact, and limit my conversations to yes or no answers. Normally, I am a funny and witty person, but whenever I talk to guys I think are attractive or cute, I freeze up. Recently, I started liking one of my good friends, and was surprised to find that he was hitting on me one night. I know that he was trying to make a move on me, but everything he tried, I deflected it. It is not because I was trying to play hard to get. I just don’t know what to do when I am in that type of situation. I know that I should have been excited that he liked me, but instead I was a freaked out. Now I do not know what to do when I am around him. Any suggestions? I want to start something with him, but am so terrified that it will ruin our friendship. What would you do to show that you are still interested, but still play it safe in case he isn’t any more?

2007-06-10 22:02:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

life is so very unfair.we dnt get wht we want n we always want wht we dnt hav.jus dnt knw y????????????

2007-06-10 21:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are MILs are always caustic in their remarks with sharp tongue?
Why do they relish a fight between the son and his wife?
Is it universal ?

2007-06-10 21:48:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend in my life. It is not like i am hideous either. I am attracted to guys, but I am terrified of commitment. My problem is that I can have a crush on a boy, but when i find out that he is actually interested in me as well, i immediately lose interest. Am i going to be single for the rest of my life??? Andd, if i did have the opportunity to get a boyfriend, I would be so embarrassed to tell him that I have never had one before in my life. Would you think there was something wrong with a girl who told you that she has never had a boyfriend before? This is just another excuse I use to block myself from relationships

2007-06-10 21:19:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are all people capable of long term relationships, or are some of us just not the type, can't do it, will self-inflict wounds on a relationship to guranteed that it won't work. What is that.?

2007-06-10 21:18:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is in close touch with his ex girlfriend and she too is willing to be in regular touch with my husband but without the slightest knowledge of her husband.. i cant stop them.. pls give ur views..

2007-06-10 21:16:44 · 43 answers · asked by Shilpa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What eye color are you more attracted to?

2007-06-10 21:15:23 · 14 answers · asked by yolkyolk 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 21:15:09 · 1 answers · asked by rarejewels23 1 in Singles & Dating

Namaste from Switzerland!

I'm getting married next year. And I wanted to wear a traditional indian sari for my big day has my husband to be is half indian.

What should a women wear on that day? What shall we do, and what should we avoid doing....


If you have any links on gowns and hair/make-up it would be very usefull.

Thank you

2007-06-10 21:10:18 · 16 answers · asked by G6k raz l'bol des trolls 7 in Weddings

I had a great friend, he's a christian. We had good times , we talked a lot, in any topic, but some day he asked me about god, but i said, i don't believe in god, he doesn't exist. Anyway, so he dumped me and it's a long time that we haven't spoken. But what is my fault, i don't have faith in god, is that wrong, people can't force me to believe in something that i don't want to believe. What do you suggest, is it my fault?

2007-06-10 20:51:20 · 6 answers · asked by I'm so freakin' gay 1 in Friends

Hi it's the usual ...
I have met this gorgeous boy. We saw each other 4 times last week.. he has texted me emailed me etc. But I saw him last friday and tected him the next day saying I liked him.(he texted back saying he likes me too and we could have something special) and now he has suddenly stopped texting me. I really like this boy and don'y know how to get over it if he stops getting in contact!I wouldnt mind but it's not as if he doesnt have any means of contacting me!
Please reply!

2007-06-10 20:41:21 · 9 answers · asked by stunnin_always 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-10 20:39:36 · 4 answers · asked by Aladdin 2 in Friends