Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

I'm going out tonight with some friends, and have invited another guy who knows everyone, but someone who I only met last weekend. He's also the brother of a good friend of mine. I really fancy him, & from his texts I think he likes me too.

But, I've had a messy break-up 3 weeks ago with my horrid ex, who reduced me to a nervous wreck. He's also part of the group of friends (but won't be out tonight).

I'm concerned.

a) Is it too soon to pull someone else?
b) Is it a bit risky doing it with someone who is connected to my group of friends?
c) I have been suffering depression from childhood trauma, that was excentuated by being with a moron who bullied me. I'm feeing much more upbeat & back to the old me, but am worried my friends might alert this man to the problems I've been experiencing & he will run 4 the hills.

I'm pretty sure he fancies me, he's been text flirting. If he makes advances on me tonight, shall I just go for it? I'm excited for 1st time in months

2007-06-07 23:54:13 · 19 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Singles & Dating

Horrible rumors about you?

2007-06-07 23:53:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

marriage I came to know that my husband had an affair with a girl for nearly 4 /5 yrs i felt really cheated but he said that it his dead past and he doesnt want to even talk or remember of it he told me nobody knew abt it except him and his friends but few days before i heard abt his affair from one of his cousin i felt why does he lie to me .I also got curious about knowing the kind of girl he fell in love with I asked him abt this and he told me that he was never intensly involved with this gril and he was the one to say no to her as he was interested in his career I felt a bit relieved to knw tht i was the first person he fell in love with and he was not serious abt tht girl when i told him this he said tht i should not make conclusions on his past reationship and should stick to the fact tht it has ended i told him how does it harm him if i do make conclusions and it gives me peace he said tht if i take it this way i will raise the isssue again and again and he wants to finish it

2007-06-07 23:43:33 · 12 answers · asked by kamya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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I need your help please!?

Please help me?

ok i know this sounds weird but my 23 yr old uncle
split up with his 22yr old girlfriend they have a 4yr old child. his girlfriend used to take me everywhere but they split last yr and now she barely talks to me! i miss her so much that i cry! she only lives round the corner from me! what should i do?

2007-06-07 23:41:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well to me this is wrong, her *** should still be sitting in jail, if that was anyone of us do u honestly think we would be home now getting food flowers and so on Hell no! Well all i know i was hit by a drunk driver and lost everything even my baby, but at least his *** stayed in jail. This crap pissed me off. And this is a true saying---- money talks and bullshit walks, i sure hope some of u agree with me. Thanks all

2007-06-07 23:35:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-07 23:35:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You come home one day early.there is a new mesage on the machine and its from your spouces doctor.the results from earlyer test show your spouce(pick a terminal illness )has only months to live at best.question do you erase mesage and let he\she live out remaining time without the stress and emoition of faceing mortality.or do you tell them so they have a chance to live a little fuller life if not brought down by the fact their dieing.

2007-06-07 23:34:29 · 9 answers · asked by iamwhoiam151 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-07 23:06:30 · 25 answers · asked by Kevinlad 3 in Singles & Dating

I am young. But I met a man on the internet who is 7 years older than
me! But I think I love him. Should I go and meet him?! I need your
advice. Thanks! I meet him here, http://www.freewebs.com/love4olderandyounger ,a nice and free place for Younger Women and Older Men, or Younger Men and Older Women, to interact with each other.

2007-06-07 23:04:28 · 16 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been acting cold towards me lately. He still treats me with respect but things just don't seem the same. He told me two nights ago that he thought about leaving me before. Right now, he doesn't know what he wants in life. I'm scared he'll leave but I won't stop him if he does. He proposed counseling. Is that a sign that he wants to work things out? What sould I do since I no longer know what to think. I love him with my heart and soul, but I won't let him hurt me. Any sugestions and advice is appreciated.

2007-06-07 23:02:23 · 15 answers · asked by K9Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have, and it sucks...

what's the story - plz tell???

2007-06-07 23:02:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sun T 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend secretly recorded us having sex, I only just found out!
This is not like him, and we've always been open with each other. He asked me if he could record us but I was uncomfortable with the idea. 2 weeks later he did it anyways!
I'm scared... He wants us to watch it together but it freaks me out. I probably look horrible in it!
Help!

2007-06-07 22:55:15 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 6 months pregnant and over the past months i have felt my sexual relationship has decreased a little with my partner and this is not from my end. I then recently found some porn on his computer and he admited that he occassionally looks at it, but that it is no reflection on how he feels about me and still desires me just as much. I dont know how to feel?

2007-06-07 22:49:25 · 27 answers · asked by charlotte s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is your absolute favorite eye color? for everyone.

2007-06-07 22:48:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long did you date before he/she proposed?
How long were you engaged before you were married?
How long did you wait to have children?

2007-06-07 22:46:46 · 16 answers · asked by Beeg 5 in Weddings

What are the dangers of a guy form the USA marrying someone from china.

2007-06-07 22:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by stoutturbo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you and ur boyfriend were having problems and because of exams u didn't talk about it. The girl has reason to believe the boy cheated on her, and the boy says he is distant because of their different religions. I'm pretty sure it's the girl thing.. anyway he seemed like he wanted to break it off but was waiting till after my exams.

Exams are over but i have been diagnosed with cancer. He's been calling a lil more than before but still is distant. He kept saying he will come meet me but he is very far so i said no. He passes my house at the weekends so i asked if he would meet me today on his drive home. He said yes but won't tell me what time. He's always been bad with time.

It's not nearly 11 and he hasn't told me what time we are meeting. Would u be so relaxed if u were in this situation? Knowing that i'm not well and that we got things to talk about would u not get down here early to spend time with me?am i being unreasonable? what does this mean?how does he feel?

2007-06-07 22:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Sun T 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and i have never had a boyfriend. Many guys have shown interest to me in the past but i had n't any feelings for them so i reject them.The boy i really like sees me probably only as a friend. Is it o.k. to wait for a really special one ? What's your opinion ?

2007-06-07 22:41:34 · 18 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 22:39:56 · 19 answers · asked by gogo4jesus@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

People clam that racism is over. Yet i live in NJ, probably the most diverse state to live in. Yet when my husband and our best friends go out. We get starred down like we are murderers. I'm no t trying to complain but am i crazy or is everyone starring at us because they don't liek what they see. I mean we are young and i just don't get it. I'm hispanic, my husband is white, his best friend is a black man(Thad) and my best friend is an asian girl(kira). Thad and Kira are dating as well. Why do people stare at us so much haha, i mean i don't even look that spanish. Most people think i'm just a tan white chick. Who knows. It is starting to bother me. I mean my friends don't want to go to certain places cause we get "looks". What are your opionions on this should we just keep ignoring it. It doesn't bother me that bad i don't really care that much but it is really bothering our friends.

2007-06-07 22:39:36 · 5 answers · asked by Beeg 5 in Friends

or ask for his phone no.
why not?

2007-06-07 22:36:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

also did it work out? or did it happen again?

2007-06-07 22:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by evets3423 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As far as I can see around all of the girls have negative idea about sex it seems that they don't like it and guys should always want it from them ,similar to beg. I some time wonder about whether they want sex or not!.why are girls so cold ? futhermore I dont mean thet girls dont like to make relation ship .nevertheless their tendency to make boy friends is not correlated to others trend!

2007-06-07 22:27:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a cousin who is at university. We are good friends. I wanna ask her to hook me up with varsity girls who I can have casual sex with. Will I be out of line if I asked my cousin to set me up with her loose friends? Women, would you be offended if your cousin asked you to hook you up with some of your friends for one night stands?

2007-06-07 22:26:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mum is the most nicest and down to earth person you will ever meet, she is going out with this man who does not know how to treat her properly. they have been going out now for 5 years and all he does is take her for granted. he drinks quite a lot and everytime hes drunk he shouts at her and blames her for everything. he sides with people over her in any kind of dispute and chats other women up infront of her and thinks its funny the next day. he rarely shows her affection (although to be honest i dont know what hes like when they are alone) and never tells her how nice she looks when she wears new clothes or has her hair styled. the thing is she loves him and cannot imagine her life without him in it, she isnt blind to the way he treats her and yet she wonn leav him. me my brother and sister cannot say anything to persuade her to leave him.please someone give me some advice as to how i can make her life better

2007-06-07 22:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is that normal...shes always thretens me that if i keep on with my attitude then shell make me move with my dad!and i dont wanna be with him!

2007-06-07 22:13:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Living with Boyfriend 11 years what am I intitled to at seperation time!

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What is the name of your state? Arizona
i have been living with my boyfriend for 11 years or more and he opened a business up since weve been going out and I have been working there and not recieving a paycheck because supposively my pay was suppose to be going towards a new house we both bought together in 2003. After moving in i find out that he redid the loan in his name only. It was suppose to have both of us on it. At this time we are seperating and I am leaving with nothing as for he has the business and the house. Am I intitled to the pay for working for him since I cant get it from the house that is in his name only? I dont want to leave letting him have everything we have built together but he is not willing to compromise with me on my halve I think I deserve which is 1/2 of the House or my Pay for working at his company since 2000 which suposively went towards the house that he put in his name only???

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2007-06-07 22:13:24 · 2 answers · asked by justsearching4u2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 22:10:49 · 7 answers · asked by julie m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this morning as I was lying on the bed,with my face buried on the pillow,my
dad whipped my butt with a belt
for few times
without any reason.
it didn’t leave any scars or anything but I had done nothing drastic.i wonder why he did it.probably for a joke.we were talking about a picture and I didn’t say anything offensive.and he was smiling as he did it to me.
i just turned eleven.
the last time he whipped me with a belt was when i was younger and in that time he did it to punish me.He never physically punishes my big sister and little sister though.
i wonder why he did it.for a joke?but what kind of a joke is that?

2007-06-07 22:04:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am in love with a man that I have always been in love with. Occurances happened five years ago....we know we can only be truly happy together but we now both have our own families but are not happy with our current situations. Do we go be happy or do we stay on the sake of our kids......would it be selfish to be happy ? PLEASE HELP.....I miss him and love him so much but I am not "in" love with my current partner cause he dont live up to the man I truly love. CONFUSED.

2007-06-07 22:04:00 · 8 answers · asked by Me.Myself.& I 2 in Marriage & Divorce