Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

You've found an emotional connection with someone. But, that person is 15 years younger than you, will you do everything in your power to be this person's mate? There is a mutual attraction. But it's not just lust. It's way more than that. Older ladies involved with younger men I sure would like to hear from you. Young men involved with older ladies, need your input, too.

2007-06-07 20:19:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for my friend's dad: Randolph B. Grant. He went to the University of Oregon. Sharkari is almost 18. Send info to: aleahotmama at excite.com (Thanks)

2007-06-07 20:16:36 · 1 answers · asked by Alea S 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

JUST WANTED TO SAY A FEW THINGS TO COUPLES THAT ARE THINKING ABOUT DIVORCE...
I WATCHED DIVORCE COURT THE OTHER DAY AND THERE WAS THIS COUPLE WHO WAS ON IT GETTING A DIVORCE OVER MILK....SERIOUSLY! THE WIFE HATED THE FACT THAT HER HUSBAND INSISTED ON DRINKING OUT OF THE MILK CARTON SO THEY WANTED A DIVORCE OVER IT......!!!!
MY POINT BEING TO THOSE THAT MAY BE CONSIDERING A DIVORCE....WHAT ARE THE REAL REASONS AND CAN THEY BE RESOLVED? IF SO THEN TRY ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE WHILE AT THE SAME TIME THNKING ABOUT WHY YOU GOT MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE...

2007-06-07 20:14:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive had a bunch of stupid flings over the last year and a half but nothing serious, but I'm done with that I just want a girlfriend. My myspace would give you a better idea of me www.myspace.com/blakewoodward . check that out and get back to me pleassseeee!

2007-06-07 20:12:56 · 10 answers · asked by blakie 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I live together and he recently started talking about the daughter of one of his co-workers. I have never met her nor has he ever talked about her until recently and it seems like every day he has something else to say about her.
Now he wants to go to a birthday party she is having and how ironic that it's when I have to work. He says he has known her since they were kids and assures me they are nothing more than friends but why do I have this sick feeling about it? Am I just paranoid?

2007-06-07 20:08:36 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for 5 months. We never declared anything specific like we are dating, because
1)I'm not sure if I want in a relationship right now.
2) He doesn't like rigid titles.
Throughout this relationship or whatever it is, I have had several encounters with other guys, making out, sex, flirting...but I don't tell this guy I am seeing about them. In fact, I go out of my way to not tell him. For all he knows we could be exclusive. He has already told me he is not having sex with anyone else.
My problem is when a guy wants to do something with me I have trouble saying no, I like the attention and don't want to hurt the guy's feelings and want him to still be my friend. Today he told me he was happy I didn't mind him looking at porn. If he is concerned about some a tiny thing as that I feel almost certain he will hate me for sleeping with other guys.
ANy advice on what I can do, should I tell him, and if so, how much should I tell?

2007-06-07 20:04:29 · 10 answers · asked by Cruisin'=^_^=Cat 5 in Singles & Dating

i work in restraurant and was closing up im a bus boy im 19 and my boss whos a woman was in the office, i have to go to the office to clock out and exit the building, i went and clocked out and saw her and her husband sitting there, then had to go back cause i forgot to do something so i went back to put away some bread, and walked down to the office to leave and there is my boss half naked having sex with her husband, i quickly walked out, the next day, my boss whos like 35 corners me the next night like 2 or 3 wait staff still there but she corners me in the office and says did you like what you saw, i said what denying the nigh before and she unbutton her shirt and showed me her top off, and stuff her hand down below my waist with my pants on and cupped my dick, and said lets go for it, i left hurry and now when i see her she gives me odd gestures, what do i do

2007-06-07 20:01:26 · 9 answers · asked by palo716@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

when a woman having relationship with a man 6 years younger , do u think she can have furture?

2007-06-07 20:00:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-my dad used to hit me with a belt (he never does that now,but he used to,the unfair thingy was that he never did it to my my elder sister and kid sister.i’m such an unlucky girl.)
-my mom hurts my feelings
-someone once took an incessant picture of me
-my dad slaps me
my gramma said something bad about me and i felt bad and my mom told her not to bother me coz i'm not normal
(this hurt my feelings)
-someone i know(cant tell who)once hit me with a broom
-many kids atschool call me weird and bully me verbally
PS.this morning as I was lying on the bed,with me face buried on the pillow,my
dad whipped my butt with a belt
without any reason.
it didn’t leave any scars or anything but I had done nothing drastic.i wonder why he did it.probably for a joke.we were talking about a picture and I didn’t say anything offensive.and he was smiling as he did it to me.
i'm eleven now and rarely abused,but when i was younger i was abused more harshly.
what do you think?

2007-06-07 19:57:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think talking about it helps me like therapy. But I don't want to dwell on it because i am happier now. What do you think?

2007-06-07 19:55:57 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-07 19:53:34 · 36 answers · asked by namburi s 2 in Friends

I haven't completely broken up yet but I keep thinking of the good times and it kills me, he was so perfect for me personality wise AND physically Everything matched so well but now all of a sudden I’m no good anymore, and it hurts like hell!
Makes me hate myself and my life, don't understand what I’m doing wrong so can't change what I have no clue about... :(

I’m so heart broken PLEASE does ANYBODY understand?
I feel like the whole world is coming down on me, I have no motivation for anything and I can't even eat or sleep, even though it's not final yet (the break up)and no he's not my first love, I’ve already passed that stupid love and heart break story, I’ve known this guys for like 18 months and have been together for a year :(

I need help...how can I deal with this? Why doesn't he love me anymore? What happened? And he doesn't tell me anything when I talk to him either......

God what do i do now?

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2007-06-07 19:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know..dumb question but I am very intrigued of what the answer will be.
(please don't think I am shallow for asking..I just wanna know)

For example...Does everyone in the whole think they are attractive?...When other parties don't think the same...or do people think they are ugly because they compare themselves to beautiful models.

sorry If I am making no sense.

2007-06-07 19:52:34 · 9 answers · asked by lemonsandcake 3 in Singles & Dating

i was hurt a lot....
but i had no choice to give it a go...
but i want to be present there and make my wife realize that i m better than my friend....
what to do?

2007-06-07 19:49:47 · 19 answers · asked by rahul s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

today or should i say yesterday my and my girlfriend had this super huge argument because I was jealous of her and stuff and now she removed me from her myspace and so now I am freaking out and can't sleep, eat, or think because I am taking this pretty harsh

2007-06-07 19:48:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have been hanging out with this younger guy whose not very experienced...and i got a bit intimate with him...and hes not really used to intimacy...now he is kinda distancing himself from me and not acting like he usually does with me...do you think its cuz hes scared about me going further...what should i do

2007-06-07 19:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by Heatha 2 in Singles & Dating

well, im in a long distance relationship. we've been together for a month then he went abroad to study. we haven't seen each other for months now. we also have different nationality..i love him but how will i know that he's cheating?

2007-06-07 19:47:18 · 10 answers · asked by jini 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance have been dating for 4 and a half years.not always perfect but madly in love. In january we got engaged and it seemed like everything went down hill. Once engaged it seemed like she was telling me that she was not happy and I found myself becoming comfortable like she would always be there. We started fighting alot around march and it seemed like we could not even go out and have fun without fighting. She went on a trip and came back and we split up after because she said she needed space and time to think. I was relucent but agreed. Come to find out during the break she had been talking with my room mate and ended up sleeping with him. I still love her and was willing to make the sacrifices to make everything work and so was she but now all she says is she cant come back because of everything that has happenned in the past bw us. Right now she wont talk to me and she is isolating herself from everyone including frineds and she acts like everything is ok and happy

2007-06-07 19:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine, aren't supportive at all, always make me feel like ****, tell me i wont amount to anything, tell me im good for nothing, tell me i Will be jobless and homeless one day, but I still love those assholes.


heres the question

(I'm curious about other families), What kind of Family do you have?What do you think of yours? what can you say about them??

2007-06-07 19:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by Evolon 2 in Friends

2007-06-07 19:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-07 19:44:11 · 7 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 19:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by kalon_1 1 in Singles & Dating

Serious people

2007-06-07 19:41:25 · 13 answers · asked by Rossana 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a new friend who recently revealed to me that he is a male prostitute. He said he "sells" his body to gay people everytime his family "urgently" needs money. Like him, I too am poor. So, I can't tell him to stop doing it simply because I can't help him either. During one of our conversations, he asked me to help him find clients. He said he just wanted to raise enough money to start a small business. It came to me as a shock ... and so will my friends, relatives, and family be if they learned I'm selling somebody else's body! I have gay friends ... but they too would be shocked! I cannot imagine myself doing that job! I pity the guy, though, and honestly appreciate what he would do if only to help his family! Becoming a male prostitute never crossed my mind even if my family needed money (but maybe because I never had the looks he had!). I am hesitant to help him ... but my nature challenges me to do something for a change ... for something new! What shall I do?

2007-06-07 19:41:03 · 4 answers · asked by troyrj 1 in Friends

2007-06-07 19:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by Cherno C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About a month ago i broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years as i cought her cheating. Immediatley i threw her out. Three days later i started dating anouther girl. Found out she cheated with more then one person. She was never my girlfriend just a piece. Not a big loss. But my question would be this. Is it better to take time off after a bad break up or should a person just jump right into the dating game again? At this point in my life i feel like i will never find a faithful girl. I just seem to attract the utmost of losers when it comes to women. So from experience is it better just to jump the next person or is it better to wait a while before you start dating again?

2007-06-07 19:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 19:35:03 · 8 answers · asked by meganandrews2003@yahoo.com 2 in Weddings

we been going out 4 two years ,and i see him everyday. he askd me out but i don"t know what to say. i still like him. but he cheated on me.

2007-06-07 19:34:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 26 yrs old, married to a 38 yr old guy for 2 yrs now and had a son. recently, i met a guy of same age in my work who's also married for 2months now, wherein his wife went back to taiwan for work. we're attracted to each other and i thought ours is just a mere flirting. as i have observed, my feelings for this guy is becoming deeper each day. i must admit that i have problems with my husband because he's jobless right now. should i pursue these growing feelings i have for the other guy since i feel happy and problem free whenever i see him? please help... kinda confuse. thanks!

2007-06-07 19:29:03 · 30 answers · asked by SASSYXXXGIRL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

last year i went out with him...and i still like him...ALOT!
today he called me but i was asleep....i tryed to call back but no answer....

2007-06-07 19:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by js15552003 1 in Singles & Dating