we been going out 4 two years ,and i see him everyday. he askd me out but i don"t know what to say. i still like him. but he cheated on me.
2007-06-07 19:34:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are sexy leave him, if you are not think about it
2007-06-07 19:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Frank D 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You say "GO AWAY - LEAVE AND DON'T LET THE DOOR HIT YA WHERE THE GOOD LORD SPLIT YA!!!"
Do you think you are worth more respect than he gave you?
Do you want to always be wondering if he is cheating again?
If you are old enough for a physical relationship, do you want to get an infection, or worse?
If someone disrespects you enough to cheat, respet yourself enough to get rid of him. There will be may others as time goes on.
Take your non-dating time until then to be the best you can be, to grow as a young woman who is strong and worthy of a caring, respectful relationship.
Have fun!!!
2007-06-08 02:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by panjpetevents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to say "once a cheater, always a cheater", but that isn't always the case. Men, perhaps more so than women, need time to mature. Sometimes we see what we have lost and why we lost it and want it back. The bigger question here is if you are able to fully look beyond what he has done in the past and not look back at it if you do start a relationship with him again. If you are sure of the answer, then base your decision on that. Time will tell.
2007-06-08 02:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OF COURSE NO!!! no matter how much you love your ex bf! DON'T DO THAT!! i think what didn't happen will not happen ... I was with a ex bf for 4 years .. i cheated on him .. he forgot me .. and then because i did it .. he cheated on me .. it is easy when you have the opportunity to do it if they did it before .. of course you're think i'm not going to do it .. but that happen when you get back with an ex bf .. my mom always told no to do it .. my ex bf is now married and he is happy .. and i'm happy i let him met someone else .. when this things happen .. there is always a reason .. life always put ppl in your way and they took them out when is the time to do it .. not all ppl should stay with us for long time .. and when that persons have to come you will know who he is?? .. just don't get back with him .. is better if both give the opporntunity to know someone else !
2007-06-08 02:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Naheidelyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if he changed, the cheating will probably always be in the back of your mind.
Getting back with him might teach him that you're willing to overlook a big indiscretion on his part so he could probably get away with doing it again. Besides, he sounds like he doesn't have a whole lot of loyalty or self control. Is he the best you can do? Aim higher.
2007-06-08 02:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, once a cheat , always a cheat , respect yourself, and find a faithful man, take the advice from me, I went through 10 cheating guys, until I found a faithful guy.
2007-06-08 02:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO Dont get back with a cheater. Once a cheat always a cheat. It is gonna hurt a lot worse when he does it again to you. I went through this with my x girlfreind. She ended up cheating again. Dont do it. You will just get hurt again
2007-06-08 02:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the same thing that happened to me but i knew my bf for 3 years going on 4 and we been together for 1 year on and off and he says that he changed he even put on his mother that he wants to settle down with me made a commitment so i trust him so far but i think you should give him a chance maybe its for the good maybe it will work out for you and him if not then you will be OK just find someone who will never hurt you someone who will always be there for you care for you love you no matter what
2007-06-08 02:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by LIVE LIFE LIKE ITS GOLDEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he had his chance. Tell him to go find the whor# that he was cheating with. If he has done it, he will 99% surely do it again!! They all cry and say they are sorry. It happens so often, that I finally tol mine this: "I know that you are sorry. You are a sorry SOB!" He finally got the message, and I found a great guy that did not cheat!!
2007-06-08 02:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, its really your decision but i wouldn't take him back. Once a cheater always a cheater. Of course it depends. Ask yourself how much you love him? how many times hes cheated? and can you trust him again?.......maybe just give it time. Tell him you need sometime alone. Think things over.
2007-06-08 02:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by bay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will only break your heart... AGAIN! Old habits don't change overnight... or in 4 yrs. You can achieve peace of mind by remaining civil. Stay strong, you deserve better than that. You would only be compromising your self respect and sending him the clear message that he can do whatever he wants and you will sooner or later overlook his lack of respect for you.
2007-06-08 02:40:38 · answer #11 · answered by Mizzshutterbug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋