Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

I lost my wife 15 years back,when i was just 36. My daughters were 4 an d1 year old at that time. I did not marry again. It was a great journey. Some how I brought them up .Now they are college going and they are happy. Forced controlling of my desires has its own effects. I feel to have relationship with some one whome i can trust.how I can I ? Now I am old .Is it right to think about second marriage?

2007-06-07 16:01:50 · 14 answers · asked by shree 3 in Singles & Dating

and a few months ago, I found out that he had racked up thousands of dollars in charges on the card. I was furious, and we had a serious discussion about it, and I thought the issue was resolved. I just happened to check the statement out online tonight, and he did the same thing again! I know the obvious answer is to take the card away from him, which is an easy thing to do, but my issue is more a betrayal of trust rather than just the money. Advice??

2007-06-07 15:59:15 · 40 answers · asked by atlgirl79 1 in Singles & Dating

for who she is and not just for the sex?

2007-06-07 15:57:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-07 15:57:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, I like to talk to my friends on Myspace and my brother throws a big fit! He's 16 and has some problems. He's like " Sara, when r u going to be off?" and keeps bothering me! My mom goes with what he says and he's on the computer more than me! I want my own computer. What do I do? Iam getting really sick of it!

2007-06-07 15:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf calls me beautiful all the time..and all i say is Thank you.

I don't know what else to say.

Help me.

what else could I say?

2007-06-07 15:56:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my question is will my maiden name change now? confusing, i know. thanks in advance!

2007-06-07 15:56:19 · 4 answers · asked by lizdylan2003 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-07 15:55:03 · 34 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband cheated countless times. We have been divorced for 3 years and he wants to remarry. I'm not sure if I can trust him ever again, but I've noticed that he's changed and grown up a bit.

2007-06-07 15:54:11 · 21 answers · asked by lovelylinda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Like we both like each other a lot but we are both afraid to kiss each other and we both don't know why. I mean we are ready and stuff. So yeah please help!!!

2007-06-07 15:53:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating 2 girls at the same time for the past 4 years. I see one of them on the weekdays and the other on the weekends. One cooks for me and one does my laundry. I love the benefits since I don't have to do housework but somehow I feel that this is not right. They love me very much and I love them both. Is this natural for me to feel that this is wrong?

2007-06-07 15:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and I caught him looking at me a few times and I don't know if he likes me. I don't know what to do!

2007-06-07 15:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many guys would consider going out with a girl who already had kids. Would you even consider dating her because I know it's probably tough being with someone who has kids and not by you. Because I have 3kids and 2 babydaddy's and I'm done with them they give me less hope on a good man and they always throw at me that no guy is going to consider dating me with 3 kids. I want to hear from a guys point of view, and be honest!

2007-06-07 15:51:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was outside helping my mom with something and i decided to stay out for a min after. she was already in the house and i heard something so i looked around the yards. i thought i saw someone standing at the edge of my property. i don't want to tell my parents because i doubt they will believe me. they are accusing my sister of doing drugs because she's in a band with friends. i know they would think i'm making this up. and i don't want to call the cops because i know the person out there will run as soon as he or she knows that theres cops around. but i'm scared and i'm to the point where i want to cry. what do i do? :(

2007-06-07 15:50:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Their is a guy that i really like and i told him about another guy and i was crying and he said sorry and now he has been ignoring me since september and i want to email him and try to get things right what should i say or do or both when i talk or see him next? P.S I am 13

2007-06-07 15:48:06 · 24 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we have been living together almost the whole time - but I think it's falling apart. I'm only 20, and he's 27, and while I never thought that would be an issue I think it's becoming one now.

I feel like I've missed out on his best years, and now he's simply not willing to try anymore. It annoys me because I still have so much I want to do, and I feel like he's already done it all without me, so I'm never going to get my chance.

We're living in a small 1 bed unit, and signed the lease until April next year. His dad has paid for and arranged a yacht in October for us for a week. I feel like I'm trapped.

I know he would be absolutely shattered if I left him, because I know he loves me, but he is always working (his own business) or playing sport (5/7 days), and so when he has spare time he wants to relax on his computer or in front of the tv - never with me. I feel like I deserve more.

Please help.

2007-06-07 15:47:19 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I will try & make my story short & as clear as possible. I'm 36 yrs old & I've dated a man same age as myself for 5 years. Last march of 06 he left me after I found out he had called a woman who was in the same room as I was, I also suspected something strange so after she got a phone call at 12 am I asked to use her phone, I checked recent calls & sure enough it was my ex. When I questioned him about it, he had no answer. After awhile he left me with no explanation. I've tried staying away, believe me? he would text me, I wouldn't answer than I would break recently we spoke as friends again & today we actually met. We made love & it was great but the only thing he wasn't as affectionate as he use to be. My question is can it be possible that he still has feelings for me, I can't ask him cause when I would in the past he would get upset.Can a man really just have sex with someone & not care 4 the person he's with even though we dated for 5 yrs. I don't know what to do I still luv him

2007-06-07 15:43:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's my question...my Fiance is 15 years younger than me (I'm 39) and I really haven't told my dad just yet......How do I tell not only him but the rest of my families? Don't want to freak them out, but their love and support is a great value to me......

2007-06-07 15:43:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A man, drunk hit a utility pole in my yard going roughly 40mph. He almost flipped, lost the contents of his truck on my lawn along with one of his tires and rim and then drove off. I called 911 and they arrested him. He blew a 1.5. My kids, 4&5, could have been in my yard playing.

2007-06-07 15:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by ~Charity~ 6 in Family

Like someone that she works with? And they are not "rich".

2007-06-07 15:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by Billy C 1 in Weddings

2007-06-07 15:40:58 · 4 answers · asked by hp 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I enjoy that aspect of our relationship when it happens. We have three kids under 4 and use contraception. I work full time. She is a stay at home mom and trust or faithfulness for either of us is not an issue here. I never initiate anymore because she is never in the mood. She is the one that has to be in the mood to have intercourse. Please, don't tell me to help around the house because I already do more than most husbands.

2007-06-07 15:35:38 · 17 answers · asked by wakefullife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out I am pregnant today and I called my mom to share the good news and she didn't know what to say to me. She just kept saying she was busy and would call me later about it. She also said something like "well, if you think you can handle this." I've been married for 7 years and I have two boys, 6 and 3. My marriage is wonderful and we have the money to support 3 kids. Why would she be angry about it? I work on the weekends and she told me that she knew I would do something so I wouldn't have to work anymore. It makes me upset to think that my mother would feel like I had a baby just to get out of working two says a week. This baby was made because my husband and I both wanted it. Has anyone had this happen with them, their family not supportive of their pregnancy? My husband and my kids and I have been very excited to learn the news and then I felt bad when I talked to my mom.

2007-06-07 15:30:10 · 9 answers · asked by foxfirefly81 2 in Family

My father left my mother and me and my brother when I was 3 years old. I am now 15 years old and I want to find him. I have looked online and everything I find that will help you search makes you pay. I want to find him so bad. My mom knows I am looking for him and told me he ran off to Arizona but I don't find him there. Could someone help me please?

2007-06-07 15:25:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Growing up my dad took off when I was 6 years old. I did not see him again until I was 15 and once more when I was 33. Now, I have kids of my own and I want to be the best dad in the world. I have told myself I will not be like my father. My wife and I are separated now for 6 months, I fought to get custody of my kids. I am the domicilary parent. She gets them every other weekend if she can pass a drug test. She has to take a drug test every month to be able to have unsupervised visits.

I always wanted to have kids. I wanted to be some kids father, to be able to take care of and raise good kids. be there for them when the need me. I want to teach good morals and respect to my kids and never leave them.

Did I have kids because I wanted to, or did I have kids to prove to myself that I can be a great dad? This just now hit me when I answered another question.

2007-06-07 15:25:11 · 5 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Family

my sister and I have drifted away but how can I get close to her when shes so busy and has to care for my nephew and really dont get a chance to talk with her any good ideas please

2007-06-07 15:24:27 · 8 answers · asked by lizziemoffles 4 in Family

2007-06-07 15:19:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wonder what do girls think of a guy who tells them he is virgin?
do girls think that guy is a nerd or do girl ever think maybe he think it is important to him to who he gives it to, just not a random girl off the street .. or maybe he had chances but he wants to give to someone special...... or should that guy be hasitating telling a girl that he is a virgin? could this also be applied to a girl? you guys have three days to answer my question so give me your best answers!!! thanks.

2007-06-07 15:14:53 · 6 answers · asked by nick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 15:12:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like this guy at work but my friends say that he's a 32 degree LDS Mormon and that in that group you have to marry another LDS Mormon. So since I like this guy so much what can I do to get him to leave his fraternity?

2007-06-07 15:09:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating