Family & Relationships - 7 June 2007

Ok theres this guy that has been doing drugs for a very long time.He keeps telling his family that he is going to quit but never does.he does things to hurt the ones that really loves him;Especially his wife I don't think that he's even aware that what he is doing is wrong & hurtfull to his family.What i need to know is how can I help his wife through all of this that is going on.She knows that he loves her dearly but when he does drugs they seem to take over his mind .Should she excuse his behavoir knowing that his brain is fried from the drugs that he has taken?She has tried everything in her power to help him to get some help but he refuses the help.Divorce in not in her plans.She sticks with him for better Or for worse and worse it is.Please help me to help her & her family.Thank you in advance Mrs johnson@n1

2007-06-07 01:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 01:40:28 · 21 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

I am really struggling with this. I love the beautiful weather, but I want people to be comfortable.

2007-06-07 01:39:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-07 01:33:49 · 14 answers · asked by Cheryle B 1 in Weddings

I work at the HR dept.of a bank's back office where about 1500 people are employed.Recently they appointed me to verify employee's details and confirm whether details are accurate or forged. I found some of them were forged and about 350 people were sacked coz of my work.
I personally escorted most of them out of this high security office and I could see the frustration on their faces. Anyway it gave me big thrills and it made me a hero in this workplace.
One night I fired a 48 year old guy. After that i spoke about that guy with my lady partner who's very pretty.She regretted that old guy's plight but congratulated me. After that,since we're alone inside the tiny cubicle,we became very close and had sex which was very intense....and later she told me that she had never had such good sex in years. I think even i didn't have such good sex in my life.May be it could be the heroic feeling that i have after sending bad guys home?Still i enjoy with her big time!!!!

2007-06-07 01:24:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I work at the HR dept.of a bank's back office where about 1500 people are employed.Recently they appointed me to verify employee's details and confirm whether details are accurate or forged. I found some of them were forged and about 350 people were sacked coz of my work.
I personally escorted most of them out of this high security office and I could see the frustration on their faces. Anyway it gave me big thrills and it made me a hero in this workplace.
One night I sent home a 48 year old guy. After that i spoke about that guy with my lady partner who's very pretty.She regretted that old guy's plight but congratulated me. After that,since we're alone inside the tiny cubicle,we became very close and had sex which was very intense....and later she told me that she had never had such good sex in years. I think even i didn't have such good sex in my life.May be it could be the heroic feeling that i have after sending bad guys home?Still i enjoy with her big time!!!!

2007-06-07 01:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me about a true friend.

2007-06-07 01:16:23 · 27 answers · asked by Pradeep s 1 in Friends

2007-06-07 01:15:59 · 4 answers · asked by northville 5 in Family

My girlfriend and I have been together for three years. She has always been a very insecure person and she has been hurt a lot in relationships and in the family. Her insecurities used to affect our relationhsip a little bit as far as jealousy, distrust. Now it's gotten much worse. My actions don't help because i've become resentful and cold at times. She refuses to see a therapist (saying she's tried and has never worked) and she is extremly reluctant to go to couple's counseling. The truth is that we love each other so much and we were so great together. I want to help her because i think she is suffering inside so much. She knows her issues and insecurities are a problem. Is there any other option for her to work through her problems without therapy? any suggestions....of course i would appreciate if no stupid posts but i can't prevent idiots from writing. thanks for the serious ones

2007-06-07 01:12:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mother has been drinking all her life and well when i was 10 i was tooken away from her. she was just diadgnosed with pancreatic cancer and only has a few months to live. my uncle which whom i live with and my father think that i shouldnt see her like this and i should just remember her as how she was when i was growing up. i need help.. should i see her even though her chemo has changed her look drastically and i will remember her like that for the rest of my life? or should i just talk to her on the phone until she dies and remember her that way? idk what to do help please?

2007-06-07 01:09:34 · 11 answers · asked by Carmel Lee 2 in Family

2007-06-07 01:04:45 · 25 answers · asked by Elwood Blues 6 in Marriage & Divorce

just so you can get a pay rise?

2007-06-07 01:04:36 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did it make you feel? How do you think it made you feel?
To everyone: I love you!

2007-06-07 01:04:35 · 13 answers · asked by Sol is Real 2 in Friends

Theres a guy dat loves me & i luv him baq but ders 1 prob....were not allowed 2 b 2gether, shoot not even tlk on da phone. My family dsnt lyk him cuz hes 17(im 14) but hes a really nice guy & is basically my other half (evrytin im missin)....my mom tlkd 2 him on da phone 1 day & said she lyked him but hated him for wat "he did".....we made a big mistake & had sex....it was my decision cuz i really luv dis guy, i jus dnt understand y my family thinks they can take him away from me when they didnt do it wit him...i did :(

2007-06-07 01:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it in the other end. (a.s.s)

2007-06-07 00:59:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just need opinions if it's a good gift to give.. plus on her graduation, i'm planning to give her a bouquet of roses with one plastic one in the middle.. i also need opinions on that.. girls/women answer only please..

2007-06-07 00:58:33 · 7 answers · asked by wwwdotshhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife`s younger sister, who is totally negative, a liar, deviant is jealous of my wife`s and I happy marriage of 40 years and twice she has come close to breaking us up.
What would you do in similar circumstances?

2007-06-07 00:58:24 · 29 answers · asked by Montgomery B 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I was helping my mom in law in the kitchen late at night and when i saw her in her Pajamas (They were normal, nothing provocative)and for some strange reason i had an erection. She saw the bulger on the pants and got a little embarrassed and i quickly walked away afterwards. Is she going to think i am disgusting or perverted? what would you do if you saw your son in law's "tent" in my suitation? i almost feel like avoiding her now :(

2007-06-07 00:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have the urge sometimes to use certain terms when we are in bed together that I might not normally use, but I'm afraid my husband will think I'm a slut.

2007-06-07 00:49:52 · 12 answers · asked by dani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 00:45:28 · 22 answers · asked by sunshine07 3 in Weddings

my other half has been staying down his parents because his grandad died last week all ive done is be nasty we have 3 children so ive got to stay at home so im unable to go the funeral but now ive got it in to my head what if one of his ex gf is there and they start getting cosy what if he doesnt come home because ive been so nasty he has got alot to deal with has he is carring the coffin all the other granchildren have gone with there partners and i havent what must they think of me i dont feel like family

2007-06-07 00:42:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

In a joint family, the mother in law & the daughter in-law always have grudges. Who is usually right and why? whom do you side in general? Plz mention yourself a guy or gal.

2007-06-07 00:39:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

mine really gets me with her stupid remarks. she boils my blood whenever she shows up

2007-06-07 00:22:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I happened to spy on and read my husbands emails and had not been a pleasant experience from the correspondences he has had with other women. I later used to delete these emails before he read them and now he changed his pass word. He has never written me an email after i confronted him but we do text each other. I miss the emails still but has stopped writing them

2007-06-07 00:19:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-07 00:13:01 · 1 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls and boys can both join in this one !

2007-06-07 00:12:03 · 28 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

fatherhood, do you first ask him, "What do you think of being a father?" or do you just spring it on him, provided you're planning to have the child?

If he says no, he's not ready to be a father, did you take that as a rejection of you and cut off all contact with him?

2007-06-07 00:10:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She also used to take bath naked without closing the doors. Moving in around in the rooms without clothes. This is not new to us. Siince married days and still it continues. I have one daughter 16 years and one son 13 years. I & My childredn never bother about the attiud. and do not care. But I feel bad impact may be occured to my children. Pl suggest how to tackle the problem without violence.

2007-06-07 00:03:53 · 18 answers · asked by K M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mate thinks it does but i don't!

2007-06-07 00:02:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating