Husbands: do you like your wife to sometimes "talk dirty" or say things out of character during lovemaking?

Question

I have the urge sometimes to use certain terms when we are in bed together that I might not normally use, but I'm afraid my husband will think I'm a slut.

Answer 1

As a women, I say go for it. A little bit at a time and see how he reacts. My guess is very favorably... This man is your husband, so anything goes. You plan on spending the rest of your life together spice it up. I am confident he will love the introduction. He has probably been desiring the same however; afraid to approach as well. It is life, normal human behavior between two people who are committed to one another expressing love. Nothing to be ashamed or afraid of. It is feels good go for it... Good luck and God bless****

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with it at all. It is actually a turn on for me.

When we do have intimacy, which is not often because of my wife's female problems, I love it!

I asked her "talk dirty" to me and she said she was self conscious to make such statements. It embarrassed her to say things like that.

I continued asking her at times and when she did, she found out it was very erotic for her, it gives her some of the best orgasms.

It just depends upon the person or couple but being your married, you need to always find ways to 'spice up' your sex life.

Answer 3

There is nothing at all wrong with anything a husband and wife do behind closed doors. You are married and that gives you the right to be just as perverse and nasty as you please. Me and my wife(god rest her soul) enjoyed dirty talk all the time. Sexual relations with others allow for some exploration and fun outside of the standard"I'll get on top, you get on the bottom, we'll do it and get it over with" kind of thing. That marriage license gives you the license to love, fight, and then kiss and make up. Tell your husband that it would make sex more fun if you could get a little more out of it. If you can't be honest in bed with your spouse....well....I'm sorry.

Answer 4

hahahah I like a little noise that lets me know I am effective.and doing things right.! Whats wrong with saying "oh, thats good.. do that some more!", "oh oh oh, good good good!! more more more!! come on, you don't have to talk dirty unless you want to! and you really don't have to talk at all if your body can talk for you, and it can.
heavy breathing is effective.. hahahaha moaning is good.. passing out is ok too... hahahaha
try your words out on him.. If it makes him stop and go outside for a smoke, you probably shouldn't have said that.. But you can always say the moment made you do it.. and you got carried away with him.. he will probably be ok with that.

Answer 5

honey what you do with your husband is permited in every way you are married and are allowed to do this its your right to blow out yourself to release your self,but if its more important for you that what your husband think about you ask him and if he is using dirty talk too he would probably like when you do it.but if he is ot pleased try to stop yourself,dont forget you should stop yourself only if the view of your husband is the most important thing to you in life

Answer 6

Your husband knows you are not a slut. I will never understand why women deny themselves pleasure while trying to uphold their good girl status. Talk to your husband about this, tell him exactly what you have said here. My guess is you will be glad you did.

Answer 7

I like number 2.

Answer 8

If it's your husband then anything goes.

Just ease your way in a few whispers at a time and see if he bites on it. (no pun intended!)

Answer 9

Most guys like it, my wife also likes it when I use those words.

Answer 10

i say dirty words too, my husband hates it, but later he gave in to it, and i have the best orgasm of my life.