Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

My question is unusual as this older man is friends with my father. We met at a party, not knowing who each other were and got a long so well. At first he wanted to see me again and a few text messages were exchanged. Then the next moring he sent one saying that we shouldn't see eachother again because "if anyone found out it would be damaging for both of us". Now i don't know what to do, I don't want to just give up on it because I havn't felt this way about someone I have met in so long...I just think strong genuine feelings shouldn't be ignored when they arrive in your life by chance!
(I am 19...20 next month...and he is 37, he has been married but was separated 6 years ago and he has two children, one is 6 and one is 10)

2007-06-05 23:58:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need Your advice please,
Ive recently moved into a house with a girl i worked with,ive known her over a year now and we get on great..I really fancied her but she was going out with a guy for over a year at the time so i didnt pursue anything but she knew how i felt,she said she does like me but couldnt with her bf and i totally respected that so i left it,anyway she broke up with him over a month ago saying she fell out of love with him,3 wks ago she asked me would i move in with her so i did,now where gettin on great in the house and have alot of laughs but i dont know if she wants more because she seems to hint at something every nite when were alone talking but i dont know wether or not to do anything,i wouldnt class myself as being a good looking guy,i mean her ex was a good looking guy and shes had friends over that are male and there all good looking guys to be honest so with that im thinking i wnt say anythin because she really is out of my league and im fine with that becau

2007-06-05 23:57:43 · 13 answers · asked by John A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been broken up for a few weeks. She broke up with me and told me it was my fault and had made me feel like crap sence then. Now I find out that she did in fact leace me for another man. How do I deal with that? I just feel... empty but full of rage...

2007-06-05 23:55:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 23:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my age 25

2007-06-05 23:52:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey. Im 16, almost 17 and me and my first boyfriend want to have sex, but Im sooo scared.... I dont know what to do or say and Im realy embarresed about asking people for help on this topic... but I need help! Whatwas your first ttime like? Im so scared! Should I be? Advise?

2007-06-05 23:50:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 23:48:29 · 4 answers · asked by anjish 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a terrible childhood with my parents' attention always towards my younger brother, if i asked for a pencil i was made to wait till they thought it was ok for me to have a pencil but if my brother had to ask for a spanner though he was just a tiny tot it was given to him!! bcoz of this i think i fell in love with the first man i came across in life and married him who made my life more miserable always having his way knowing i had no avenues to run to. my parents have never stood by me on the contrary they have always ridiculed me even my husband does exactly the opposite of what i would like him to do and keeps telling me to go away even after 30+ years. I have no children. Friends i do not trust becos they have just used us and thrown us in the past. my parents are dependent on me and live with us after my brother's untimely death so today if i walk out my parents will suffer at the hands of my husband.. dont know wht to do. dont want to commit suicide. r these my past karmas??

2007-06-05 23:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is not the first time.Guys are always very nice to me on the first few dates,smsing and calling me on a daily basis to send their regards and concern but yet after 3 dates,they stopped calling and smsing me. ...or their contacts with me become less regular(contacting me only when they wanna date me).can someone explain why?

2007-06-05 23:42:54 · 3 answers · asked by gurmet 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf used to be so attractive. She was 5'6 and 108 lbs, but now she weighs 118 lbs. We've been together for only 2 years but she's gained all this weight. I can't stand looking at her most of the time because I just imagine a big tub of fat when I look at her. She's gained 5 lbs per year and by the year 2017 she will weight 168 lbs and I can't have that. I mean if I have to stay fit and look good, she should too. So should I just break up with her and find someone else?

2007-06-05 23:41:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend has another phone that he is using to text someone??..i dont know why, there is nothing to suggest it, its just a feeling ive got, ive asked him and he said 'dont be stupid, what would i gain out of it?' he tells me how much he loves me etc and proves hes home by ringing me from his landline every hour but i just cannot get rid of this feeling....

2007-06-05 23:39:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 23:38:49 · 9 answers · asked by xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean im 15 and have the same bedtime as my 3yr old brother and how should i aproach my dad in thinking that im to old to have a 9:00 bedtime

2007-06-05 23:32:28 · 19 answers · asked by Tyler B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl told me that her ex boyfriend beat her and took her underwears from her as she tried leaving his house.
Now as we are together, her ex is annoyed.he called threating her as he will carry the underwear to juju man and my girl will not give birth. This worried me but according to my girl this guy is just making big mouth. what do you think about this issue.

2007-06-05 23:25:31 · 14 answers · asked by Apelete M 1 in Family

2007-06-05 23:22:29 · 5 answers · asked by H.N 2 in Friends

I know this guy for more than a year now. He is 6 yrs younger to me. He kinda helps me do some errands, did my laundry once.
Now he wants to be my complete slave. He says he would do anything. Feed my lunch, brush my hair, even piggy back me and clean my shoes.
He once said "Spit on me princess" LOL :)

2007-06-05 23:18:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-05 23:12:51 · 11 answers · asked by Bite_Me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-05 23:11:35 · 3 answers · asked by bedroomeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now I've been dating this girl for the past 2 years and our relationship is great, but I also have to other gfs that Ive been dating for the past 3 months and the other for two weeks. Its been hard keeping track of all the activities and remembering what I told one and not the other. Should I keep them, or should I get rid of one and maybe the other later on.

2007-06-05 23:07:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long did it take. If she had someone else, did she never come back? Just found out mine has someone else only a month after we broke up. I am sad about it, but wonder if it is a rebound or not. She broke up with me.

Please no responses saying get over her. Just your experiences

2007-06-05 23:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

He has sooooo many toys and clothes!!

2007-06-05 22:56:14 · 18 answers · asked by AMG83 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

prevent any conflict with our children. I erally love my wife and our children but her husband is making us stressed. My mother in law, his mum, also takes his side. My my wifes parents and my parents stay out of it. please help.

2007-06-05 22:54:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is one enough to destroy the relationship or will you give him more chances? What if he breaks off with the other girl and humbly apologizes to you and makes amends?

2007-06-05 22:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 22:40:00 · 1 answers · asked by smart_suy123 1 in Weddings

What's more effective? a) Show your partner that you really care a lot, that you feel jealous when HE's flirting with someone, and show that you're hurt when he does wrong or... b) Pretend that you dont care even if he's flirting with other girls, pretend that im not affected.. that i have no insecurities??..What do u think will work the best? Coz in my past i had relationships, i had problems about jealousy...some man doesnt like jealous girl, some thinks they can dominant you when they see that youre affected... Advice pls. whats the best to do? to keep him and make myself precious to him? thanks a lot!

2007-06-05 22:38:22 · 8 answers · asked by bluestardustglitter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, in a classroom setting, would you always try to sit beside him or would you sit away from him because you are shy?

2007-06-05 22:36:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met a guy 10 months ago through another guy friend we were like best friends & were also very attracted to each other. During the early stages he told me that he wasn’t looking 4 a serious relationship with any1 at the moment. So we were not intimate but stayed close & got EVEN closer than b4. That was when he started sayin that Im someone that he would really like to b with as I am very intelligent, ambitious & very articulate. I even went to the US on holiday & he would call me from the UK & talk to me for ages were so close. Then we started seeing each other officially & things didn’t 100% work out as he wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship & he was a very self centered he's a Gemini. Every time we tried to move on we would always somehow go back. We finally broke things off 4 good as I gave him 1 last chance 2 tell me what exactly he wanted & he said that we should b just friends & would no longer be intimate as it was confusing the whole situation as he was not ready

2007-06-05 22:00:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 20yo and i have never had sex before. Any advice on how to deal with your first time?

2007-06-05 21:45:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had sex with one guy without portaction for a long time now.. I came postive with HPV and STDS does that make me a **** because i only been with him and gotten this?

2007-06-05 21:42:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 21:41:44 · 25 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Marriage & Divorce