Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

I don’t know if I should tell. I really don’t want to look like a snitch. Or cause a mess in there relationship. When I seen her with the other guy it really did not look inacent. Good thing she did not see me. HELP

2007-06-05 13:07:49 · 46 answers · asked by V1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We just got our dresses for my bestfriends wedding, and when I put it on I looked flat, I would say have decent sized boobies 36C, but stilllooked pretty flat, any idea on how to make my girls look a little fuller

2007-06-05 13:06:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My younger brother will be taking the place of my dad at my wedding....any ideas for a song for us to dance to???

2007-06-05 13:06:26 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

I'm newly married wife and I realized that my hubby does need porns no matter how much I hate them. We had gone lots arguments over those and still he hides some(my guess) and I do know that he still goes to those sites and watch them whenever I'm not around when he is using computer. I don't know why I start to hate porns but recently I found and destroyed some of his self made porns with his exs and I almost puked. Really in terms of sex esp in those videos that he made, he is totally another person. And sometimes when we have sex, I can feel that I'm not the one who turned him on and I do see him fantasizing others. Probably he was watching porn or such and he gets horny so he wanna sex with me. sigh.. I did try wearing sexy clothes and everything and of course he enjoys but at the same time, my mind recalls those videos and pictures that he took with his exs and then I feel **** and so low. What am I supposed to do? I hate him watching porns but also I hate to see him not vigor.

2007-06-05 13:05:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

alright people what about this my hubby use to always tell me this when i hung out with my skanky best friend so I started going out by myself.....heres the catch his best friend is married and a cheater he has another women pregnant rite now and is leaving his wife now my husband told me this,but the last time he said his friend was cheatin it was really him ....ya feel me even though I was sworn to silence but I wanna ask him so bad should I.

2007-06-05 12:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 12:44:54 · 41 answers · asked by toolmanpei06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It amazes me that people in here are the 1st people to point thier fingers. Do you think they are to judgmental or do you think they are trying to hide thier own flaws.

2007-06-05 12:40:00 · 16 answers · asked by History Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together 10 years. We are 26 yrs old.Yesturday atwork he waspulled intooffice by his co-workers who told him that they noticed he was hurt and that it is me. We argue a lot. It seems like we have nothing in common anymore. He likes to sit down and play xbox and I don't. I like a clean house and feel like a slave. I come home from work, and clean, and all weekend all i do is clean. I ask him to help, but most of the time i end up doing it cause say the sink is overflowing with dirty dishes. Well, now he is not sure if he is still in love with me and I told him that I would find an apartment for myself and he said that he does not want to give me up at the moment, he wants to think things through. I feel like we can't talk as my dadlives with us during the week.We haveboth pushed e/other away, but we both are still love each other, but don't know what to do. I think we need space, but we are not able to. we are both scared anddon't know what to do. we love e/o

2007-06-05 12:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by hurt101 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our first break up wasn't really a break up. We just drifted apart once we spent a small amount of time together we fell in love again. Last weekend we spent together in a hotel and really feel in love again. Next weekend we are going to S.F. All of this behind the back of her live in boyfriend. I was ok with the promissed break up and was just trying to keep things chill not going to deep, but that changed last weekend. We have both expressed love to each other. I know," if she did it to him she will do it to you " I can accept that as a posability and will know because she cannot lie to me. I can tell. So is it wrong of me to demand a time line and especially after last weekend that she at least no longer live under the same roof as him

2007-06-05 12:37:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can the pee go in yuo and make you pregnant?

2007-06-05 12:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have told my bff and my aunt but i cannot talk to my mom about anything she is judgmental. and i did it with a boy she doesn't want me dating because i already gave him a hickie

2007-06-05 12:35:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

relationship being we moved in together around 3 months ago and i have a daughter whose almost 3 and we are in love and he loves my daughter and he s going to be starting a job in my town so he'll be here till dec, instead of us, seeing eachother 2 days every 3 weeks its awsome. but we just had his 3 friends stay with us for 3 weeks and now hes freakin out and im so scared we are in love but how can i resure him that its going to be ok

2007-06-05 12:32:41 · 7 answers · asked by fairy 1 in Singles & Dating

you can be as lengthy in detail as you want.

2007-06-05 12:32:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been living with room mates since before our marriage. We moved with my job. Her and our mutual friend were home alone all day long. Me and her were having some problems and were going through counseling. While we were living under seperate roofs, she and him started kissing and things. Now I'm trying to forgive her and forget about the whole situation because I love her so much, but she has become increasingly irritable with me. What should i do? Am i doing something wrong?

2007-06-05 12:28:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys. Okay so I really dislike my school. Let's see I only have about three friends. For an Example name we will call my school "madison high". Okay Madison high is composed of preps preps and even more preps. Literally that's all there is here. My style is different colored tank tops from wal mart short shorts from wal mart and Jeans from wal mart. Messy bun for hair and big hoop earings. So I guess you could say my style is somewhat rough I guess. Well for example we will call the school I want to go to "Adams high". Well I have about 13 to 20 friends from adams high. Adams high has barely any preps at all and all most everyone is kind of rough like me. They don't look down onme because I wear clothes from wal mart. It's just a very down to earth school. One problem: it is pretty violent. the school I am going to has like 2 fights a year. Well I KNOW I could take care of myself there but my mom is not convinced. She thinks I will get in fights and all that stupid

2007-06-05 12:22:29 · 12 answers · asked by lachelle.at.ur.service 1 in Family

2007-06-05 12:20:55 · 1 answers · asked by Average Joes 4 in Singles & Dating

So I am coming up with a decision and would like your help.
My sis lives in Indy and I live in Ca. I have four kids, married and am the sole bread winner out here. We have no assets( real estate ) anymore and are considering moving to Indiana to live in a much slower paced life and to be able to afford to purchase a home and break our backs doing so. My career is real estate, I am an agent and yes have my license out here and Indy.. in comparison would my life be "better" moving out to a less of a hassle, slower paced style life or is it a wash when it comes to selling high priced homes... high commission...selling lower priced homes... lower commission. So my question finally is which would you people go or even stay for financial stability.. culture adaptation, religion... all this to take into effect.... oh yeah we're catholic, hispanic/polynesian, and again four kids .. three in elementary school and one in pre-school.. thank you for your help.

2007-06-05 12:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by jmilil 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It is very hard for me to be alone

2007-06-05 12:17:32 · 8 answers · asked by bestmother2005 1 in Singles & Dating

My Dad died in 1999.
My Mom and Dad split up in the early 80s, BUT my Mom kept the engagement and wedding ring SET my Dad gave her.

She's giving them to me :). They are a white gold and beautiful!!

Only thing, my fiance gave me an engagement ring lil over 5 years ago and it's GOLD . We are now getting married in August. I don't want any of the 3 rings left out!

How should I wear them? Please help

2007-06-05 12:14:37 · 16 answers · asked by k_h_mommy2 2 in Weddings

How much would it cost to rent a banquet room at a hotel? Do they charge per table? How does the charging go? Thank you!!

2007-06-05 12:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by NT 2 in Weddings

kids - 3 & 7 will NOT sleep in their beds all night. Wife gets mad when I want to sleep naked. Hey. its my bed.

Comments?

2007-06-05 12:09:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Somebody should come out with a T -- shirt that says "I HATE being single !" . It'd sell like hotcakes ... I mean, who DOESN"T hate being single ?

2007-06-05 12:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

well he is a gentlemen and he is waitng to kiss me for awhile and sex to so should i?

2007-06-05 12:03:23 · 29 answers · asked by Rachel G 1 in Singles & Dating

I WANNA BE FRIENDS WITH HER FOR A LONG TIME. BUT I WANNA GO WITH HIM. SHE'S MOR IMPORTANT THAN HIM BUT I STILL LIKE HIM. HELP!!!

2007-06-05 12:03:00 · 17 answers · asked by lil shorty 1 in Friends

I am in the process of a divorce & we are trying to do it uncontested(cheaper)....my husband left me about 2 years ago with nothing & we stayed seperated for 1 year. During that year(2 make it short)met a guy, fell in love, move in 2gether, and became pregnant with his child...well my crazy self never really quit talking to my "husband" so when I told him that I was pregnant by my live in boyfriend...he wanted me back....knowing the truth & all...he thought that if we didn't try to be together now that it would never happen...I went back & it forced the baby's real father completely away.my husband & I are now getting a real DIVORCE & he has been my childs daddy from birth. His name is on the birth certificate, & she has his last name. & he still wants to be in her life but he doesn't want to sign anything saying that he will pay child support. I need the financial help but if he don't sign what is saying that he will help us...ADVICE PLEASE!

2007-06-05 12:02:31 · 20 answers · asked by Renae 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 12:02:12 · 3 answers · asked by nethertry 3 in Friends

I'm 16 years old and I am in a m.u. state of relationship with this girl. Things were very goin well at first but she then decided to stop this relationship because she fell for another guy who liked her a year ago. She's not sure of her feelings because evreything happened so suddenly. We were friends for about 4 years now and we have become close.
What should i do? should i let her go and be back to friends?

2007-06-05 12:01:53 · 2 answers · asked by CGo23 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my husband thru a mutual friend many years ago... I thought her and i were almost best friends.... Well, while he and i were dating i ended up getting into a little trouble and had to go away for a little while...My so called best friend, stepped in and took my place, hooked up with him. I cannot stand her and she still tries to talk to him like nothing happened but wont bother to speak to me....
He doesnt really reply back, Should i confront her?

2007-06-05 11:53:23 · 14 answers · asked by boomquisha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is turning 18 in August. He always says age is just a number, and is the sweetest guy on earth! He always makes sure that he isn't pressuring me and never wants me to feel uncomfortable. Every girl in my family goes for older guys (on my mother's side, her and my dad are 13 years apart). Is it normal?

2007-06-05 11:52:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 8 ys. I found some e-mails of his talking about sex and the past w/ this one girl form his childhood(the school ****) . I was really hurt by him talking to her "dirty". Would you feel hurt by this? Am I making a big deal about this? He has told me million time and express his love for me since. He told me he's really sorry.
The thing is this isn't the first or second it's the third time this has happened. Once before we first starting dating then when we got engaged and now. He doesn't go out and have sex but he talks about it and gets emotionally attatchd. I see it as cheating because it feels like he has betrayed me. Am I right to feel this way?
I don't think our sex life is bad it's actually quite good. If anything my drive is going strong but his seems to have lower.
I just don't know if I'm overacting or if maybe I should be more upset.
I told him I forgave him b/c had had my gallbadder remove and didn't what to be fighting.

2007-06-05 11:50:59 · 36 answers · asked by blazinleti 2 in Marriage & Divorce