Family & Relationships - 5 June 2007

My mate of 3 years pulled another all-nighter. He came home at 9:00 am the next morning and went to bed. I searched his cell phone... I know...bad me, but I found a text message that said "why didn't youcome home with me last night?" I question him and he said he doesn't know who this woman is. I suspect he gave out his cell number while he was drunk. What should I do? At least it said that he didn't go home with her?

2007-06-05 14:17:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl I like is about 6 inches taller than me and I really love her

2007-06-05 14:16:34 · 19 answers · asked by Quo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-05 14:14:28 · 10 answers · asked by katherinekimbrough 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people seem to think that BD/SM is all about kinky sex? I think many of you have gotten the Playboy BS into your heads somehow, and can't seem to understand that the Lifestyle is NOT about sex at all. It's about serving your Dominant, in all things. It's about subspace, an endorphin high that is totally awesome to experience, and about putting your sub/slave into that state, or if a submissive, getting to that state, not about "tie me down and f*ck me". Why can't people seem to understand this? We are not the dangerous, psycho sick killers that is portreyed by the media to make profits with their lies. We are extremely careful NOT to cause injury, or death, but the media would have you believe otherwise, and sensationalise reports in the news to get rating, and nothing else. Next time you have a question about this, go to those who actually know, not the media, or the "Tie me down..." people. I'm tired of being judged by those who THINK they know, when they actually know nothing

2007-06-05 14:13:25 · 11 answers · asked by Darqblade 3 in Singles & Dating

I have broken up with my ex for 6 weeks now, we tried the whole giving space, talking once a week, for a month beforehand, but I couldn't handle it cause she was the one that didn't have feelings for me, and i was still in love with her..... so i broke it off.... then i heard 2 days after i broke it off she had slept with someone.... i gave her a pretty nasty phone call after this, and i haven't spoken to her since.... I got a phone call from one of my best mates who had been talking to her, and he said she was doing it pretty tough and that she thought about me all the time, and wants to get back with me..... Do you think she was just after sympathy? or is it a case of absence makes the heart grow fonder? I still have feelinigs for her but she hurt me pretty bad with sleeping with someone, and i am enjoying my single life....

2007-06-05 14:05:47 · 15 answers · asked by Cleatus1512 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but i don't know where he stands about dating a black girl.He's a good man& we have alot of fun with our mutual friends.My best friend is dating an Irish guy & i often go with her to parties,thats how i met him.He is really cute,tall& educated.I'm just crazy about him.I want him.I think he kind of knows i like him.2 weeks ago he & I talked about interracial dating.He said"I ve never dated outside my race".I asked him if you would, he laughed & said "if it was you yes" BUT then followed that with "No i'm just kidding, i never really think of things that will NEVER happen".Last weekend we all went out,he came with a white girl.He felt the need to explain who the girl was.He said it was his workmate, but i think she likes him too.So i decided to leave them alone, instead he kept on holding my hand & whispering in my ear.He kissed my neck,hugging tight & pressing on me so i could feel his Pensis.he is sending me mixed signal.What do you think? should i make the move

2007-06-05 14:01:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-05 14:00:50 · 1 answers · asked by lovely_linda2003 1 in Singles & Dating

On June 4th was prom and I asked him to go w/ me n he said yes. I went w/ him and I was having a blast. The guy that I asked, I think he likes me but how do I tell? and also he kissed me on the lips and yet, I still don't know... lol... but anyways, plzzz help! I'm confused

2007-06-05 13:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by RaghdaSweet 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone. This might seem like an unusual question to ask on Yahoo but I wanted to ask anyway. My wife and I have been married for a couple of years now and we haven't convinced ourselves yet whether we should have kids or not. I would love to have a little boy or girl running around. But at the same time, I know that I'd be missing out on many other things because of the time and obligations of raising a child. Not to mention that raising kids are expensive. On the other hand, I don't want to be 50 years old and have a void in my life. So my question is...Has anyone decided not to have kids in their lives that are in their 40's or 50's now? And if so, do you have regrets? Do you feel like you have a certain void in your life? Vice versa, for those that have had children, do you wish that you could go back and not have had them( I promise that I won't tell your kids=) )? I guess I just want to know if life is incomplete if you never have children. Thanks guys!

2007-06-05 13:51:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I made plans with my fiance over a mouth ago to go away for the weekend(had to change my work schedule to go)We have his son every other weekend and this was our weekend not to have him.Well his exwife emailed him last night to switch weekends because she wanted to go to a wedding sat. night with her new bf.well i reminded him our plans but he just ignored me and called her back and said he could do it.after he got of the phone with her i just looked at him in shock and he just said why are u so f-cking miserable?I told her i was bringing him back sunday am the shows not till 1 pm.Well thats true BUT our plans were to stay over sat. night and go to the show in the afternoon(we live 4 yrs away from the city)Now we have to drop his son off and race to the city to see the show only no siteseeing.Now this is not a 1 time deal she does this all the time and my bf allways agrees regardless of our plans.Why?Plus this DOES NOT give him more time with his son they are just switch their time.

2007-06-05 13:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please

2007-06-05 13:47:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The man is sitting across the aisle from his wife and he has been unfaithful many times during their marriage. should his wife be subjected to his laughing and talking to this younger woman for the intire trip of 2 1/2 hours? Their son and his wife are also sitting near by. The laughter could be heard almost on the entire plane. I am the wife and am very hurt. Should I be?

2007-06-05 13:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by mississippi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't get it... we are watching a movie in health class on Friday, and its about a woman that gets pregnant... yea and we actually have to watch the birth... I heard it was going to be very graphic. And students in the past have puked just by watching it. How could this happen?

2007-06-05 13:37:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard that they are private, sensitive, emotional, and moody. I would like to know what are some of there characteristic.

2007-06-05 13:37:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is his door mat. She does everthing for him and nothing for herself. He does everything for himself and nothing for her. The only time he does is when he brakes things of hers because she didn't do what he said such as... Once she charged 38 dollars he broke things of hers because she was told not to spend money. He can do anything he wants and there is no ? asked. I have a feeling he is cheating because of his lame excuses I have talked with her about it and her comment i don't want to know let him do what he wants. I have talk her carefully about how unfair he is, but she is in denial. I have even seen him hit her. Its ok to her because she thinks its her fault. A part of me now wants to end this friendship. To see her go through what she deals with pains me greatly
I feel great resentment twords him . I cant become too involved because he will turn her against me. This is killing me because my hands are tied. This is now effecting my life.

2007-06-05 13:36:01 · 5 answers · asked by doe7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im A-SEXUAL (if you know what that means) and alot of guys dont talk to me because of it ive always been this way what should i do?

2007-06-05 13:34:29 · 4 answers · asked by person 1 in Singles & Dating

we fight over the dumbest little things because everytime i try to talk to him and he starts yelling, how can i reduce the fighting without giving up my pride and letting him dominate me

2007-06-05 13:29:24 · 22 answers · asked by VJS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been togethe for 4 years and a have a 1 year old together but every time his mom starts a fight or any thing he always takes her side like what i say does not matter his mom never has any thing to do with our kid but he thinks its ok for her to treat her grandkids diff no matter what i do he takes her side over every thing

2007-06-05 13:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Family

Today I feel very lonely and lost. I spent my day shopping as usual as it has become an obsession since I lost my job. Not that I spend much money, of course, I don't. Just takes my mind off the reality: I still don't feel like I belong to the country I live in for 7 years now, my marriage is going down the heel, my husband is more like a housemate for 3 years now, no kids, no job, family far away back at home. In 15 minutes I will go to bed to crawl on my side of it. Sometimes if feels as if loneliness is suffocating me. I caught myself looking I never thought I would be in this place. No wonder my friends are not dying to spend time with me - who wants to spend time with a sad person? My husband keeps telling me that I am agressive.. I am so tired of his criticism. Not all bad - of course, I am grateful I am healthy, not bad looking, have a place to live, cats, some friends.. So what shall I do if I feel like crap? Been there before

2007-06-05 13:22:24 · 9 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the meaning of that tradition anyways?

2007-06-05 13:22:01 · 40 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Weddings

i'm 14 and i'm 20 lbs. overweight!!!!! is that obese? i really want to lose weight. i work out but it doesn't seem to be working- it's been a year and i've gained 10 more pounds- of fat! i need tips! over the summer i would like to lose 10 pounds ( oohhh and i'm 5'3" if that helps and 140 lbs) wait..... how overweight is that?

2007-06-05 13:20:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband will not go anywhere with me unless it only benefits him. I have a funeral to go to tommorrow and its a pretty long drive. He doesn't have to work tommorrow. I asked him if he is going with me and he said no. So apparantly I am going alone. So whats the use to be married if your always alone? He lives me by myself to go fishing and canoeing every weekend. Thats usually the only time we can have together. I just don't understand this. I need someone elses perspective. I don't think hes cheating or anything like that. He says he just hates going places. What would you do?

2007-06-05 13:18:50 · 12 answers · asked by brunettechik 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering!

2007-06-05 13:18:29 · 51 answers · asked by lil_missy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 yrs old, and I've only been married for two months. My husband says I don't treat him like I use to. We fight alot, most of the time for no reason. He wants to be intimate all the time but I just never feel like it. He feels like he's not good enough for me anymore. I lay around the house 24/7. I feel depressed alot because we are having alot of financial problems. I want to make this marriage work. What can I do?

2007-06-05 13:16:41 · 23 answers · asked by ILoveMyHusband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK.. so I dated this guy for almost 5 yrs. I loved him to death.. and still have love for him. However, he would not work, always wanted to party and waste money that he wasn't bringing into the household. He did not have a drivers license and was ALWAYS getting into trouble with the law. Also, he would get mad at me and put me down, call me names, and if things got really heated he would hit the walls and break things. I broke it off with him about 9 months ago, and we still talk sometimes. At first he called me crying, begging me to get back with him. I told him that I couldn't, but I would still be his friend. So, now, 9 months down the road, he has kept a GOOD job since I left him, got all his fines paid, got his license reinstated and bought a new car! What I want to know is, why can he do it now, but he would never do it for me?

2007-06-05 13:13:46 · 17 answers · asked by Tina W 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know she has a few rings lying around... Would they have a size number written on the back of the ring? Should I just "borrow" one and take it to the jeweler for sizing?

2007-06-05 13:13:44 · 20 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Weddings

I have trouble with good ideas for making her birthday special. She's the type of girl who cares more about something being thoughtful then being expensive. Any ideas?

2007-06-05 13:13:44 · 9 answers · asked by Hal_Chaffee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 12 yrs of marriage, I separated from my husband. He had been dishonest and unfaithful for a while but it was the last affair that was the last straw that broke the camel's back. I still don't know how often he had cheated on me but the last affair was confirmed and supported with undeniable evidence.

I started telling my family about us 6 months after our separation. I had intended to keep this to myself as long as possible to hide the truth from his family, for his benefits. However, he has started living in the same area as my family so my family had run into him once or twice. That was why I decided to tell my family about the separation. I didn't think I was obligated to tell them anything since it was my private life.

One comment my mother made that hurt me was I had a poor judgment of character and therefore I picked the wrong guy as my husband. My niece said she believed I was too embarassed to admit that I made a mistake and so waited this long to tell them.

2007-06-05 13:13:40 · 15 answers · asked by Azure 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband off and on for 10 years. We got married 4 years ago and have 3 beautiful kids. I found out a few months ago he cheated on me with his ex like 3 years ago and I also found out he rcvd oral sex from a hooker. He has a drug prob also. I dont use drugs. Now a few months ago i met a guy and cheated. I called it off with the guy before and now my husband knows about it. I have been honest about it and I was gonna move out with the kids. He talked me into stayin and tryin to make this work but i know im not in love with him anymore. I try everyday to make this better but he keeps bring up the fact that i cheated. I guess he forgot he cheated. All he wants to do is make me feel like **** about this. I am so ready to just walk out the door and leave everything behind and just raise my kids on my own what should i do???

2007-06-05 13:10:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He reminds me how beautiful I am everyday but suggests I need a little nip and tuck on my chest region. I'm a 36C and he wants it one cup size bigger and a lift. I'm 23 female. What do u guys think?

2007-06-05 13:09:36 · 39 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating