we have been togethe for 4 years and a have a 1 year old together but every time his mom starts a fight or any thing he always takes her side like what i say does not matter his mom never has any thing to do with our kid but he thinks its ok for her to treat her grandkids diff no matter what i do he takes her side over every thing
2007-06-05 13:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need ot be the bigger person here. She has not let go of her son and he has not removed himself from her fold. It's important for you and yours to be together as a unit. It's important for your child and for your relationship. Please talk to him before you go to visit next time - a few days in advance. tell him you're concerned about your relationsihp with his mother and would really important for him to back you up. If he fails you, let it slide and bring it up later - CALMLY.
2007-06-05 13:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew he was a momma's boy before you ever had a kid with him.Now is his mom right? Or is he just a wuss/If he is just a wuss then you KNEW he was a wuss aproximately 3 yrs ago and still stayed with him and made a baby.Dont buy a rabid wolverine the complain because it doesnt crawl in your lap and purr like a kitty kat.The only thing I can suggest is get counseling.You cannot change or fix him hon, and 4 yrs of sex has proved that.
2007-06-05 13:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello sissy you woiuld very smart to leave and move on to a better relationship for you and your child he will always take his moms side over yours you dont need that kind of relationship after 4 years either
2007-06-05 13:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, jesus that sounds aweful, he is a real " mama's boy " like my dad, my dad does the same thing, his mom said my mom was a " crappy wife " even though my mom is the perfect wife and mother, she even takes care of a handicap adult. there is nothing that can be done though.. my dad takes her side b/c he is scared of her.
2007-06-05 13:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and take your kid with you. Tell him that his mother is not allowed to see your child unless she treats them right. You may need to get a lawyer.
2007-06-05 13:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should quietly and calmly talk to your husband about what being married means.
He needs to grow up and stand by you.....that doesn't mean he stops loving and caring for his family....it just means that when there's a confrontation, in front of them, you and him are a united front.
2007-06-05 13:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on what you're doing to no longer get alongside with them or what they are doing to isolate you! despite the situation is, you are able to desire to take it upon your self to treatment it the main suitable way you recognize the way. attempt having a relatives assembly and convey your thoughts to the relatives and how each and every physique can maximum suitable make issues greater advantageous all around.
2016-10-06 22:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEST WAY
always say things like
oh really
umhumph
yeahp
to everything the say and dont pay attention to the it works trust me.
2007-06-05 13:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid his side as much as possible. If this continues, then have him choose between you and Mommy.
2007-06-05 13:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away and go to another side of the world.
2007-06-05 13:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋