My mate of 3 years pulled another all-nighter. He came home at 9:00 am the next morning and went to bed. I searched his cell phone... I know...bad me, but I found a text message that said "why didn't youcome home with me last night?" I question him and he said he doesn't know who this woman is. I suspect he gave out his cell number while he was drunk. What should I do? At least it said that he didn't go home with her?
2007-06-05 14:17:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Throw him out immediately. Of course hes cheating. When my ex did it. I knew she was cheating, and I was correct. Others too.
2007-06-05 14:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a joke that is priceless. Goes something like this:
Man woke up with a horrific hangover, head killing him, room spinning. He vaguely remembers staying out 'till all hours drinking at the bar. On the night stand is a glass of water and 2 asprin with a note that breakfast is in the kitchen. He walks into the kitchen to find pancakes, bacon, eggs, toast and orange juice waiting for him. He turns to his son and asks what happened the night before. The boy says, "Well you came home at 3:00am and you were singing and you stunk really bad. You crashed into the hall table and broke mom's favorite vase before you fell on the bed. Mom was taking your pants off and you said, "Get away lady!! I'm married."
All night beer binge: $68, Porceline vase: $298, Saying the right thing at the right time: Priceless.
2007-06-05 14:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should kick him to the curb obviously, he stayed with a girl somewhere if he came home at 9am. don't be a fool and forget about it. you will regret it in the long run honey. he isn't worth it and you definetly can't trust him if he is giving his cell phone numbers out to other women. he's cheating now and it won't stop. i'm very lucky to have a husband i can trust and know that he would never do anything to hurt our relationship. you can find a guy to love you and respect you. dont ignore this because you dont want him to bring something home to you that you don't want if you know what i mean. good luck sweetie.
2007-06-05 14:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So.....is that supose to make it better that he didn't go home with her??. How do you know the other times he didn't go home with some other chick you just didn't catch him out with any text. why is he drinking all night long anyway, why do you want to lower your standards and be with a drunk looser who won't come home to you. If he want to go out then fine that shouldn't be a problem but staying out till 9am the next day, wow that just isn't cool. Your just making excuses for him, do't tell me that you don't worry all night long as to where he's at. He's lying if he says he doen't know who the woman is.
2007-06-05 14:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be suspicious. Because you don't know if he gave him number out while he was drunk or if it's a girl he's been having out with all night, when he doesn't normally come home to you. I would really be concerned because he can't even tell a decent lie and said that he doesn't know her. That doesn't make sense.
2007-06-05 14:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Babylesley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guys said no to another women while drunk you've got a winner. As long as the all nighter thing isn't a habit.
2007-06-05 14:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah it did say that but who was it that he did go home again. It sounds like he is cheating on you a bunch. i know you love him but never let a man treat you like this. Please
let him go and you will find a better guy. I bet. Don't let this man or any other make an excuse for being out all night.
2007-06-05 14:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if he is going out all the time and leaving you home that is a no no he should be out with you. Men sometimes so to speak like to (see if they still have it) I would keep tabs on hime and investigate if you find something then leave dont waste ur time you deserve a man that is there for you and cares for u not one that is always out on the town he needs to grow up.
2007-06-05 14:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweetviolet1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he didn't spend the night with the text messenger, doesn't mean he didn't spend the night with someone else. His unexplained nocturnal absences are disrespectful to you, damaging to the relationship, and a damn good reason to move on.
2007-06-05 15:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by debdee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna party all the time.. this is who you will be dating until you decide to get serious.
No "good catch" would ever act like that. Youre fishing at the wrong lake, sista.
Otherwise, if Im way off base, dump that loser.
2007-06-05 14:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋