Family & Relationships - 2 June 2007

I have heard a lot of people say that skin colour undergarments are best to wear under a white wedding dress.. i really want to wear white becasue i think it is a bit more traditional. My dress is a few hours away so i havent had the chance to try it on with my white corset... can any brides help me? Will it show obviously?

2007-06-02 22:33:25 · 11 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Weddings

I found out when it was over, since then he has spend all his time being nice (not kiss-*** nice) but more caring, more open, more human..... I went ahead since i could have done the same, and would have wanted another chance.....he's not given me any reason to suspect/or worry about my decision.

But the hurt refuses to go away, i am the one harming the relationship now, by turning every small argument into the old discussion cos i hurt when he even does thinks like forget to pick up something from the market, and then i take it out on him....i know its unfair to him and the relationship....

pl be sensitive and dont make fun of the obviously hurting situation, what do you think i should do....

2007-06-02 22:19:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This new manager at work is always eyeballing me and smiling at me and giving me these flirty looks. And sometimes he likes to squeeze or grab my arm. Well yesterday when a 17 yr. old girl came in to apply for a job, he was googoo eyed and friendly to her in the same way he is with me. P.S. this man is like 36 yrs. old and married with kids, but he's just moving here so his wife and kids are in another state. What would you think about someone like that if you had to work with him everyday? Would you be afraid?

2007-06-02 22:16:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-02 22:14:44 · 20 answers · asked by angelbabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hidden phone calls, hidden and late night computer times, better dressing, less affection, short phone calls w/out I love u often, not home often, lashes out often, lies when confronted about computer time, does not like me near him for phone calls. We relocated across the country and my depression/solitude has taken a toll on the marriage, I feel guilty about that. I also had suspicions that he would want someone else that I expressed it, so perhaps I made this a self-fulfilled prophecy. But after he abandoned me on a long weekend for "business" and just gave me obligatory calls and I found missing condoms - I really think it isn't my imagination. How do I get him to tell the truth? If this is true after he has been so difficult and hurtful on top of it, I want to leave, but I don't want to hurt him, just leave amicably. How do I do that?

2007-06-02 22:12:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love her, but I'm concerned. Recently she seems to be uninterested in sex with me, and she says that she's been fantasizing about other women. She's even asked me how I felt about having a threesome with another woman. It could be just a coincidence, because I have an addiction to pornography that I am very successful in keeping off, so far. She's told me that in the past she has flirted with being gay or bisexual, but she could never 'see herself with a woman.' I love her, and I feel she's the most beautiful woman on the planet. But for some reason I feel like maybe she's hiding something from me. Maybe it's because we've been separated for the past month, but I really hope that she isn't gay. I not only think our relationship couldn't withstand a threesome but that it would be total hell upon our children.

2007-06-02 22:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by Jontelleo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-02 22:05:51 · 16 answers · asked by heart_strings 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey this is a real problem and I have real feelings, so I NEED YOU TO SEE THAT AGE 50,, WITH A CURSE OVER MY LIFE,, AND SEEN AS THE MOST HATED MAN IN THE GLOBE,, AND THE CURSE SHOW ALL THAT I AM TO BE AVOIDED AND TO NEVER TRUST ME LIKE THE CURSE WILL GET TO THEM, AND IVE BEEN KICKED N ABUSED,, MEANWHILE NOT A LADY ON EARTH,, CAN UNDERSTAND I WANT LOVE AND HAPPYNESS AND I AM IN TEARS OVER THIS SAD PROBLEM,, SO,, ITS LIKE LIFE IS OVER WITH DATING,, NOW WHO COUNTS MORE THE WORLD,, AND THEY ARE RIGHT OR ME IN TEARS, MISSING OUT ON LIFE LIKE THE BRADY BUNCH?

2007-06-02 21:50:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hey guys i understand the uncertainity of life and that all of us are going to perish one day.but how come i'am deeply affected by the very small things which happen with me in day to day life.like if i cook food with great effort and someone doesn't like i'am highly disturbed and it becomes most importwnt thing to me and i will just sulk and thinking about this only.
i wish to know does everybody experiences the same or is there some way so that these things become small and i don't get bugged up by them.

2007-06-02 21:49:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I awoke this morning, and relised at 30 years old, married, and mother of 3..I have no clue what my purpose in life is. Or even who I am anymore. I am trying to slowly find myself, but not sure how. Has anyone found thier purpose in life?

2007-06-02 21:47:37 · 6 answers · asked by monkey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-02 21:36:53 · 15 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

how can i approach him?

2007-06-02 21:32:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet this person a year ago we both in the same situation,both our partner cheated us for an unreasonable reasons,he moved on and i moved on cause we both relying with each other,we became the best of friends but suddenly we both realized we fall in love and missed each other.. we are both married and in our country divorce is not allowed... i can't imagine living without him .. ..what should i do???we both away from our own partner and presently we worked in the same country...if I given the chance to be with somebody freely it would be him!!!

2007-06-02 21:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like the girl and she wants to have relationship with me too(her friends said she likes me and care about me), and we really have fun times together..but several things that make me donno what to do with this relationship
- we don't talk using phone a lot(either meet in real life or IM)
- we used to IM like crazy...now all of a sudden, she seems busy with her stuff and talks less
- we only see each other like MAX once a week(cuz we have school and she makes plan with friends on weekend)
-she said she's free this week and will tell me when she wants to meet, but she ended up not telling me and made plans with her female friends(sometimes she doesnt say like she does for other things too)
-when i'm down, she just gives me quiet time instead of questioning me and stuff(donno if she wants to give me quiet time or just don care)
-sometimes when she's cold or w/e, i ask her if she want a hug, and she says no
so what do you think what i should do in this relationship?

2007-06-02 21:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 21:21:50 · 3 answers · asked by Terrica T 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep getting in these weird moods, I can be happy and normal and then all of a sudden i get this kind of empty feeling in my chest and feel sad and cry for no reason. Sometimes i feel like no one at school likes me, even my friends.Im tired a lot and cant sleep very well at night. I find myself sitting doing nothing, and think of all the things i could be doing but i never feel like doing anything. I get stressed about some of the simplest things, and for no reason at all cant bring myself to do some of the easiest homework etc. The only way i manage to get out of the moods is by sleeping it off usually.ive considered depression, but my sister suffers from depression, and im no where near as bad as she used to be before she was on medication. I dont know what to do about it

2007-06-02 21:20:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you seen Charlie and the Chocolate Factory? Remember those 4 mean kids... Charlie was the only good one, right? Well, my brother is the combination of those 4 darn brats.

(greedy, full of glutton, noisy, addicted to television and computers, mean, arrogant, bratty - he really gets everything he wants, he hits people -even me, weird.... and scary)

Even as I type this, he creates a very destructive noise, he is selfless, he doesn't care that my other sister is studying. Also, right at this very moment, he is hitting our housekeeper (our parents are out).

Speaking of parents, I would REALLY blame this to them. I mean they spoiled the kid! He gets spoonfed by the poor, innocent nanny (I feel SO bad for her), he doesn't take a bath on his own!!!

he never gets spanked, never gets reprimanded because he is the youngest and very prone to sickness (that was then, now he is healthy and FAT). My parents are blind to that.

What can I do (me per se) to stop him?!!

2007-06-02 21:15:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so once I changed my e-mail name to my boss's name (an old account I never use). I then wrote an email to myself (my real e-mail) to make it look like I had an important meeting (to get out of doing something with my then boyfriend). Anyway, boyfriend fell for it and I was free for the day.

6 months later.. I go to use the old e-mail and goof off on Craigslist writing "hey baby, nice pic, let's fool around" to random men.. and the FROM was still my boss's name (including the company he works for). I was looking through my sent items and was in a COMPLETE daze as to why my name was my boss's name until I remembered why. Is this totally retarded or what?

2007-06-02 21:11:05 · 14 answers · asked by stacy_8888 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 21:10:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 14 and have a bf. hes amzing!! i absolutly love him. we brought up the idea of kissing and im scared. we have been dating for a while but i have never kissed no one and neither has he. im just nervous. is this normal or should i wait??

2007-06-02 21:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah72 2 in Singles & Dating

shes my babys mother and shes only 17 years old.

2007-06-02 21:09:11 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you find it classy and gentleman-y when a man kisses your hand upon greeting you at a date? Is that too old- fashioned. Do you find it a bit disgusting? what? what?

2007-06-02 21:08:21 · 14 answers · asked by Choppinsumwood 2 in Singles & Dating

The semester is going to end in about two weeks, i've had a crush on this guy for 3 years and i was thinking of sending him a like-letter. I am to shy to talk to him, but i'm gonna give the note to him myself. What do you think of this? do you think i should go for it? if not then what should i do?

2007-06-02 21:04:01 · 7 answers · asked by xo-Cherry 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-02 21:03:56 · 15 answers · asked by cmtoolsmith1 1 in Singles & Dating

7 yaers ago i got to know her in the uni i was 33 and she 22y/old she was mischief and i was calm and gentel .i confess that it wasnot easy to make friend ship with me but i felt that she really wants to get closer so i let her although i never thought of marriage in that time because she was very different with my imaginations any way i felt that she needs me and my protection so we met many times in uni (some times out , we talked on different things and she asked about the future of our relation she indirectly wanted me to ask her for marriage and at last it happend 6y ago .know i feel we are very different but i dont like the word divorce although she is agree and insist for it.we have no baby she has a good job .the most important thing i dislike is that ,she acts like a man b/c her mother had divorced and my wife had played her fathers role in their family so she wants to be the chief in family ,dosenot care about the man but viceversa too much care about her mum and sisters

2007-06-02 20:59:39 · 6 answers · asked by khashayar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why would a woman put herself in a such a position of lies and deceit to herself, to her husband, to her lover, to the wife of the lover (not to mention family, friends, neighbors and co-workers). what kind of relationship/fulfillment does she get? what motivates her? why ruin so many lives? this one was the cause of my divorce. and yes, he exhibited all the following signs:
http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/isyourspousecheating/tp/spousecheating.htm

2007-06-02 20:55:09 · 13 answers · asked by stuck 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf pretty much told me he was going to propose to me but i don't know whether or not to believe him

we've been together for almost 2 years now and he's wonderful (I'm 26 and he's 28). he's never been married or had a live-in girlfriend before. i've been married once before briefly.

he just went out of town for his best friend's wedding (i was invited but couldn't leave due to work) and we went out to dinner the nite before he left. we opened our fortune cookies to see whose was better. mine read "you will receive good news from far away." i joked w/him that he would call me while out of town to tell me he was stuck for 2 weeks. he laughed

later that nite while lying in bed he asked me if i knew what my fortune could be. i said no and he said i'll give you some suggestions. then he said "when i get back i'm going to ask you to move in w/me and give you a ring." i said he wasnt ready but he said he was or he wouldnt have said it.

he's hinted before (started last year)...

2007-06-02 20:54:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy knows I love him but he is a mute andd just leaves these wierd things on his IM to let me know I care...so I told him I was too tired for him and I was going to leave the country..so if I say this he will just come on IM to see if I have left and if he knows I haven't then signs off...we are both in asia and he is busy in the army and doesn't have much time he is an Asian and is shy I think, I gave him a PSP and care packages to let him know I really do love him..he never use me for the things,,ok! He will leave things like Can we really fall in love in the next second...not a joke its taken from a TV dram over here (romantic) I told him I was angry and two hours later he shows up on IM..whats wrong with him why can't he say anything to me...I know he doesn't want me to leave...What do you think?

2007-06-02 20:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by always4him 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes its really sad, im 26 and have never been on a date or even had a real relationship. There's nothing wrong with me as far as I know, I just cant seem to gather the courage to ask a girl out. Im not really shy, I just hate when they say no, and never talk to me again.

2007-06-02 20:37:53 · 12 answers · asked by Aaron D 2 in Singles & Dating

I went camping with some friends last week. they all went out for a hike, but I didn't feel like going so I stayed back. after they left, I went into the tent and decided to take advantage of some quiet alone time, so I took off my shorts and started to masterbate. a few minutes later, one of the girls came back for something and walked into the tent and caught me in the act. we both froze as we were both equally shocked. as she said, "sorry, didn't mean to interupt," she grabbed what she came in for and left, but as she was leaving I noticed she had an extremely hard nipple erection. (She was just wearing a tank top with no bra and I know she wasn't cold) so does this mean she was turned on at what she saw? Do nipples work like penises, where they get hard when the person is arroused?

2007-06-02 20:36:46 · 13 answers · asked by tracker 35 2 in Singles & Dating