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Question

hey guys i understand the uncertainity of life and that all of us are going to perish one day.but how come i'am deeply affected by the very small things which happen with me in day to day life.like if i cook food with great effort and someone doesn't like i'am highly disturbed and it becomes most importwnt thing to me and i will just sulk and thinking about this only.
i wish to know does everybody experiences the same or is there some way so that these things become small and i don't get bugged up by them.

Answer 1

Sounds like you are suffering from low self esteem and you worry too much about what other people think of you. Just know that all of us have faults and none of us do everything perfectly. Don't let failures ruin your life. Use them as learning experiences to help you grow.
You also sound like a perfectionist. Lower your expectations of your self down to a more reasonable level. You cannot attain perfection in this life.
About your food thing, everyone has different taste buds. Maybe one person won't like what you have prepared with great care, but someone else with different tastes will love it. Do you like all foods? No, some you like some you don't.