why would a woman put herself in a such a position of lies and deceit to herself, to her husband, to her lover, to the wife of the lover (not to mention family, friends, neighbors and co-workers). what kind of relationship/fulfillment does she get? what motivates her? why ruin so many lives? this one was the cause of my divorce. and yes, he exhibited all the following signs:
http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/isyourspousecheating/tp/spousecheating.htm
2007-06-02 20:55:09 · 13 answers · asked by stuck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wish I had the magic answer for this one, as this was the demise of my marriage as well. All I can guess is there is some weird thrill of stealing someone elses man. Kinda like a high school popularity contest or something. Only thing is...if he ends up going to her...what kinda prize did she really get...She won herself a cheating man. And he won a woman that doesnt respect a relationship either. Sounds like they deserve each other.....and you (and I) deserve and will have better.
2007-06-02 21:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Love does not come whit prescriptions.
Peopel fall in love or feell atracted to other peopel, and because marriage isn't an exciting thing sometimes for some people. And normally at a certaint point in life, we like to reinvent ourselves, some take a new career or hobby, some a new partner. You cant judge can happend to every body who is open for it offcourse. Marriage is not posesion, either love is not to be posessed or controlled. This is the simple true. This things happend to humans. Called cheating, called wrong but it is all about peopel, and not only about the ones who get hurt.
2007-06-02 21:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Paula O 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand your frustration. It is definitely wrong on all levels. But don't just blame her. He is 50% to blame. Why is the blame always on the women as if the man can't think for himself. It happened to me twice and I never blamed the women i didn't even know them. I blamed my husband(s), then I left (I am on my 3rd marriage because of this same thing). Think about it, the other women do not have an emotional tie to you so they dont care about you or maybe they dont even know about you until it is too late. The husband on the other hand is the one that should be more responsible and think about who he is hurting and how this could ruin his relationship. It takes two to tango!!
2007-06-02 23:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mindin my own biznes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Renee in EVERY word.
I had the same thing happen to me and it's a mystery to me as well. What is a woman thinking when she is engaging in those things? Who knows but I thank the good lord I'm not like her and if she stole him from me then he wasn't worth keeping in the first place and therefore wasn't mine.
2007-06-03 00:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was the cause of my divorce too. My husband cheated with a woman who was also cheating. I'm with you on this...I don't understand what the motivation is. Don't they both realize that neither one can be trusted??? They are both liars and cheaters! I feel ya buddy! Hang in there. We'll make it! God bless.
2007-06-02 21:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she wasn't planning to ruin lives. But thats what happens when women/men have affairs. A lot of people get hurt... The affair happened because she was missing something in her marriage...
2007-06-02 21:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, it is not a contradiction as Jewish & Christians are additionally seen Believers and are addressed in Koran as “human beings of the e book” and not purely men, even Muslim women persons can marry Jewish & Christians; yet is it by some means seen offensive with the aid of Muslim men for no sturdy reason. even although, Jewish & Christians for the duration of the cases of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) have been having coalition against Muslims are Islam replaced right into a newly presented faith and replaced into having a lot of issues corresponding to Christianity aside from trinity concept and a lot replaced into undemanding between Jewish & Muslim practices. subsequently, as a manner to shelter the newly presented ideology of Islam it replaced into felt mandatory with the aid of Allah (God) that Muslims could no longer combination up with the Jewish & Christians. on each and every occasion God addressed the “unbelievers” of the Jewish & Christians, He addresses them like this, “O! Unbelievers of the folk of the e book”
2016-10-06 13:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reasons that HE puts himself in that position, because HE is just much at fault as she is.
In my personal opinion...they lack morals/values/honesty and therefore are okay with lying and being deceitful. They are also extremely selfish, and therefore, they don't care who they hurt, as long as they get what they want. That's just my opinion though.
2007-06-02 21:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things happen to people , people fall in and out of love . sometimes nothing lasts 4-ever.
2007-06-02 22:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by pitbullmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And, can they trust eachother? Of course not. Even THEY are doomed as a couple!
2007-06-02 21:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by kNOTaLIAwyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋