7 yaers ago i got to know her in the uni i was 33 and she 22y/old she was mischief and i was calm and gentel .i confess that it wasnot easy to make friend ship with me but i felt that she really wants to get closer so i let her although i never thought of marriage in that time because she was very different with my imaginations any way i felt that she needs me and my protection so we met many times in uni (some times out , we talked on different things and she asked about the future of our relation she indirectly wanted me to ask her for marriage and at last it happend 6y ago .know i feel we are very different but i dont like the word divorce although she is agree and insist for it.we have no baby she has a good job .the most important thing i dislike is that ,she acts like a man b/c her mother had divorced and my wife had played her fathers role in their family so she wants to be the chief in family ,dosenot care about the man but viceversa too much care about her mum and sisters
2007-06-02 20:59:39 · 6 answers · asked by khashayar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In any relationship, it will always takes two hands to clap. If you already agree to the marriage, you cant say that you should not have agreed to it. Since it is history, you can only say or comment about it but can never change it.
Since there is little or no chances to continue this marriage, why not end it when there is no children now? Unless you two are commited to move on further, divorce is a solution and not options. If you sincerely wish to maintain this marriage, then maybe you have to start to love her. Maybe see consultant together might help.
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2007-06-02 21:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by i_love_my_ap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at one small moment there must have been love,i don't believe that you did not feel that at all and still marry her,when people get together and decide to get married,it does not come with the guarantee that it wont have problems, that is what makes the marriage stronger,you probably were attracted to her because she was or is independent, and strong, and you felt you did not have to be taking care of her 24-7 but since then you realize you feel less of a man, because of it, i believe you have forgotten that you did not enter this marriage alone, and you do have her to talk to, divorce is a nasty word only to those who really dont want to see the relationship end to the ones that dont care its just another word, like ending a marriage its to easy to say,and do ....
2007-06-02 21:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by yukd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep thought and prayer for clarity on the matter. Can you accept/live with such a woman and be happy? Is there things that you do love about her? Great sex? Maybe better to get out before children are involved in the equation. What do you want from your life? Anything is possible nowadays and the possibilities are endless. There are so many people that could be a better match for you that you could live life and be happy with. Better to be with someone who has same values and similar perspective on life. Definitely must have same goals for long term. May you find peace and love...
2007-06-02 21:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 03:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by koenemund 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a mess alright. Divorce is not right unless she has had relations with another man. I don't know about in your culture, but in mine the wedding vows are "for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, until death do us part." The only acceptable reason for divorce is infidelity.
Marriage counseling is one option. If she won't go maybe you can. You can not change her, but you can change what you are doing. You must learn to stand up for yourself. Take assertiveness courses.
2007-06-02 21:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't even read everything, but if you don't love her, then why are you still dating her? don't marry someone you don't love.
2007-06-02 21:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋