Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

My parents are way too strict, i spose im better off than some people in ways. but i just cant take it anymore. Im 16 and finished school, and want to start takign control of my life. I planning on moving out as soon as i can but this weekend i want to stay out... not that much of a big deal usually. its just i want to stay at my boyfriends... i asked my mum this and instantly she started screaming at me. I try to talk to her, but it just seems she doesnt trust me at all. Now it juts seems that everytime i ever try to talk to her, she screams and shouts and threatens me that she'll tell my dad... i dont live with him but i am geniunily scared of him when hes angry.. he can get slightly violent sometimes... have they got any right to stop me now im 16 and how can i get them to just talk abotu stuff.. and trust me.

2007-05-29 23:53:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

where ever they may have passed on to?

For me, I always hope that my father is taking care of those that are coming up from earth..you know? I always tell him, "be on the lookout for so and so!!,and remember to tell those people that come to see you, that they are gonna be okay!"
and I also just ask him to watch over them...and be a good friend to all, if he can...you know..just sort of reach out...and "be there" as a good bud'!
I also think that maybe my dad is just hanging out(hopefully not smoking..but, I can honestly picture him doing that STILL, lol!! Just as he did in life!!! I kind of figure that that is one habit that would be pretty darn hard to break, even after death!
I think that he would either be smokin' a pipe or as many cigarettes as he could find "up" there! LOL!

so, what about you all,and your parents or whomever...what do you think that they are doing, and are they up to their old tricks?
LOL!!......

2007-05-29 23:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by smilingflowergirl 2 in Family

2007-05-29 23:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by ihwenus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 23:41:39 · 7 answers · asked by as_fit_as 2 in Singles & Dating

So I love my family and they are all REALLY committed Christians, my immediate family and all the others too. And there is this girl who I have had a crush on for many years, we will leave it at that, and she asked ME out once but I said no because she wasn't Christian and that was a conflict of morals for me. But now I have decided I don't believe anymore, and I am affrayed of how my family will react because I can't bear to have them see me as a "lost soul." But I would have to tell them if I were to pursue this girl, who I am so crazy about and have been friends with for 3ish years now. So I'm 20 still at home and in community college, and I could really use some input or some empathy.

2007-05-29 23:38:30 · 7 answers · asked by David H 2 in Family

2007-05-29 23:35:21 · 33 answers · asked by fancyface 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when someone asks for your 'honest opinion' they don't want that really ! why ask ? and then you tell someone the truth that isn't good enough they look all offended and run with it still not good enough they fall out with you and try and convince people your a liar !?

2007-05-29 23:29:27 · 12 answers · asked by D 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 23:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by Zircon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I've been friends with my best friend for 2 years now, we used to know each other a little bit at school but got more friendly at college, now we're like really close.

However... last year I was also friends with this other boy, and we kind of fancied each other but nothing ever really happened, my best friend never actually met the guy.

Then one nite I had a party and my best friend and the boy I fancied met for the first time, and found out that they lived near each other. Well over time we sort of stopped fancying eachother cos nothing was ever gna happen, but now, my best friend and my other friend always spend time together and leave me out of everything. They even purposly exclude me out of things. I feel really hurt that I've been butted out of this whole friendship, especially seeing as they met through me and are now leaving me out of everything. But am I just being a baby? I'm not sure what to do?

Sorry for long question.

2007-05-29 23:12:28 · 5 answers · asked by Smiler 3 in Friends

I have been married for 1.5 years my wife left me for about a month when we got back together and all was going good she left again it she was saying its because i hassel her for sex and i disrespect her.
I really love her and want to make it up to her but she keeps telling me she has heard it all before and she does not believe that i want to fix it or will fix it .
I have asked her if she could have told me when i was annoying her and what i was doing that was disrespectful so i can fix it.
She tells me that she does not know if she wants to end it or not but she is sick of being hurt and does not know if she can take it anymore. How can i show her i am seriouse and love her. Should i just give her time to calm down about everything i think she still loves me and i have been treating her badly i just want to make it up to her help me please.

2007-05-29 23:12:08 · 13 answers · asked by jase m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Met a guy around 10 months ago through another guy friend we were like best friends and were also very attracted to each other. During the early stages he told me that he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship with any1 at the moment. So we were not intimate, but stayed close and got even closer than before. That was when he started saying that I am someone that he would like to be with as he has a soft spot for me, I am very intelligent, ambitious and very articulate. Then eventually we started seeing each other officially & things didn’t 100% work out, but could of as we got on SO WELL!! he still wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship & he was a very self centered and indecisive which were his down sides. we both tried to move on several times and would get back again. We finally broke things off as I gave him 1 last chance to tell me what exactly he wanted with regards to a relationship and he said that we should be friends as he cant give me or anyone that right now

2007-05-29 23:10:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 1.5 years my wife left me for about a month when we got back together and all was going good she left again it she was saying its because i hassel her for sex and i disrespect her.
I really love her and want to make it up to her but she keeps telling me she has heard it all before and she does not believe that i want to fix it or will fix it .
I have asked her if she could have told me when i was annoying her and what i was doing that was disrespectful so i can fix it.
She tells me that she does not know if she wants to end it or not but she is sick of being hurt and does not know if she can take it anymore. How can i show her i am seriouse and love her. Should i just give her time to calm down about everything i think she still loves me and i have been treating her badly i just want to make it up to her help me please.

2007-05-29 23:10:21 · 5 answers · asked by jase m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know i am ready to tell my boyfriend i an ready to have sex but what do i say, what sounds best?

2007-05-29 23:09:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know what I mean. men can answer too.
lol, someone I know just asked me and I really didn't want to answer him. What do you think?

2007-05-29 23:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your waiting in line at a store when I cut in front of you. After kindly mentioning to me that you where in line first, I tell you, to go shove it.
You reach into your bag and pull out a small remote control. With a push of a button you shrink me down to the size of a bug. I look up and see you towering over me, with a devilish look in your eyes. I start to run. What would you do?

2007-05-29 23:07:39 · 21 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a few ex boyfriends (each relationsihip only lasted 3mths max) that i dumped because i cheated on him, or just didn't love him enough to stay commited.
i don't keep in contact with them on a regular basis, and yet they call me every couple of years saying that they wanted to see if i am ready to love them yet. I keep saying no.
now, i am getting married in a few weeks, and i have had a number of ex's ask me to choose them instead of my fiance. swearing that i'd be better with them, because they love me more.
what i don't understand is why is this happening? i may be able to comprehend ONE man doing this over the last 10yrs, but not this many. i am finding the whole thing weird.
would this weird you out? how would you help the ex's come to terms with the fact that you are just simply never going to love them in return?
why do you think this is happening to me? how can i avoid it in the future?
sorry if i sound like a basket case, but i think it's strange altogether.

2007-05-29 23:07:07 · 6 answers · asked by chilly 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

you're different and sweet and pretty. what does he mean by different?? good thing or bad?

2007-05-29 23:05:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

women are emotional ok but men also are very emotional , we who give gifts flowers , we who kneel and kiss hands and feet we who make poem
but we also are visual and physical and audioal
so how women love sex and enjoy it but dont like our bodies and dont like to look at us
how women love sex but dont like our legs,arms,back,feet,hands,chest,thighs,butts as we adore women's?
do women like sex only through thier bodies only..mean they just love to recieve forplays,rubs,lick,kisses,looks,words...etc but not interest in manly body as a sex opject?

2007-05-29 23:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by vovo o 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 23:03:00 · 15 answers · asked by xyz 1 in Singles & Dating

i have ask her out she want to be friends
i do not no what to do

2007-05-29 23:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by wanted_man_1988 1 in Singles & Dating

I could feel myself blushing. I dont think I'm attracted to him and he didnt say anything embarrassing....why did I do this?

2007-05-29 23:01:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi again,
I met someone on an on-line dating site at the beginning of March. We talked and finally met at the end of March. We have been seeing each other since but agreed to keep our options open, mainly becuase we are both looking for a serious relationship and want children and we are both late 30s.

We agreed weeks ago to go for HIV testing and get the results soon. We are sleeping together. But he is still looking at his on-line dating profile.

So when is it reasonable to bring up the topic of whether we are going to try exclusive? We just seem to flit around the topic recently.

We do get on great and I see him at least twice a week and talk to him most days so it seemed like we are exclusive and he said we should definitely tell each other if there is anyone else we might be interested in.

2007-05-29 23:00:55 · 3 answers · asked by confused chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 23:00:51 · 8 answers · asked by Ťango 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 22:59:33 · 24 answers · asked by amy 1 in Weddings

what would you answer if ur best friends asked you this :
what if i ?

I died:
I fell:
I lived next door to you:
I showed up at ur house unexpectedly:
I stole something:
I was murdered:
I cried:
I was hospitalized:
I left with no coming back:

2007-05-29 22:57:32 · 14 answers · asked by blair 1 in Friends

Im just curious how to get that guaranteed date. Obviously not every girl will be interested but how do u sway their decisions... Whats the best way to set yourself up to get that date? Be straight forward or sending hints like"What r u up to this week?

2007-05-29 22:57:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was known to go in a pub called 5 or 3 bells in Thorne Yorkshire and was married with kids. His name is Rob or Roy i have no last name. This was about 50yrs ago. I know i am shooting at the stars but there maybe someone out there that can help i have tried every thing else with no last name i have had no luck my mothers name is Kathleen Tye and no she will not give me info as all i had off her I.D was a name but was able to track her down after many yrs, it was not good meeting but found other siblings which i keep in touch with. I cannot get hold of my dad through mother as she flatly will not give me his last name as she knows i will find him that way. I do not want to upset his life just to know what he looks like would do me fine

2007-05-29 22:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by JULIE F 1 in Family

Truthwise will it make the person cry, take it to the heart or just sit down and cry.

Lying avoids the person's feelings.

comment.

2007-05-29 22:53:44 · 16 answers · asked by SiMpLiCiTy-RtIsTrEdY2DrAw 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a girly boy and i just wanted to see how you found it getting girlfriends

2007-05-29 22:50:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This profile i looked on myspace and think she is very hot by looking at her pictures.
What do you think?
Why is she good looking?
http://myspace.com/donnaet
Out of 10?
I find her very attractive but i dont know why maybe the glasses?

2007-05-29 22:50:22 · 16 answers · asked by dazzi_4592 1 in Singles & Dating