Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

First off I am 26 not some high school guy who is in puppy love...
I was engaged to a girl for 2 1/2 yrs, knew her for about 15, bought a house together, lived together, and then she left me high and dry and moved to AZ. Found out she was lieing to me, possibly cheating, used me for $, and was all in all heartless to me and others. Haven't talked to her in 6 months then she called, she flew here, and we've been hanging out (having sex - good sex) and she been telling me she loves me and blah, blah, blah
Since she left I met someone great, caring, honest and treats better in 2 months then she did in 2 yrs. she doen't know the other in is town and I don't like to lie but I can't say no to my ex. I think (know) its just a physical thing with my ex, cause her personality is lame and she is a liar. The new girl is great, and I don't want to lose her. But are very good looking girls but I can't get over my ex.
Should I throw it all way for my ex untill she leaves or break ties?

2007-05-29 02:09:12 · 11 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Singles & Dating

they are moving to kansas so i dont want to get her anything big so any ideas on what to get her besides a gift card or would that be the best option?????????????

2007-05-29 02:08:47 · 16 answers · asked by Meagan 2 in Weddings

Do u think its normal for a 17 year old girl to not have a bf?
I just feel really odd sometimes because i'm almost 18 and i've not got a bf!

And while i'm posting, do u think that love happens when u least expect it to?

thanks xxx

2007-05-29 02:04:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am with a wonderful man and I realize I need to pick and chose my battles. However, he does not clean, cook (rarely), pick up after himself, does not pay any bills (I do them all), wash clothes.......should I go on. He does not help with everyday things and it is really frustrating. I have been nice comfronting him, scream and yelled, left notes as hints and nothing works. Remember he is a great guy otherwise so all the above is not worth leaving him but I don't know what to do. Is one day going to drive me over the edge.

2007-05-29 02:02:38 · 10 answers · asked by aintlifegrand 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-29 01:58:43 · 27 answers · asked by Michelle J 1 in Singles & Dating

~Breathless kisses
Burning touches
Soft-spoken words of love
Urgently spoken words of passion.
A man and a woman
One complete love
Since time began
Predestined to be as one.~

2007-05-29 01:51:52 · 15 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

A friend told me that once and I laughed. Now I am not sure if he was right or not. What do you think?

2007-05-29 01:50:05 · 15 answers · asked by Frank J 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad treated me if i got my gf preg and i did he said he would kill me now im about to run away i need somethings i need to do before i do run

2007-05-29 01:49:10 · 17 answers · asked by aglowacki102690 1 in Family

please tell me the best places where to meet girls, and how to start a conversation whith them in that location ,not including schools and discos. i'm 15,and i don't live in a big city, it's actually pretty small.

2007-05-29 01:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as they are in the pictures? There are some lovely ones and ive been dying to buy one but im a bit sceptical that they won't be the same as what they look like in the pics. Has anyone ever bought one?

2007-05-29 01:30:03 · 28 answers · asked by gem 1 in Weddings

If you and a girl who loves talking to you bring up sex, and you two playfully talk about the topic of sex, and she throws few hints, then she says "IF we have sex.... IF it comes to that..." would you look at it as a chance that it could happen once you play your cards right?

2007-05-29 01:29:11 · 10 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I work together. We both make really good money so changing jobs is out of the question. We get along fine at work but he brings work home all the time. Its like his life is revolved around work. He is the director of transportation so he works crazy hours and I am doing EVERYTHING at home not to mention having a 4 yr old and 6 month old. I feel as though he is addicted to work. Ive talked to him about it and he says it will get better...but I feel like it is really wearing on our relationship...im getting worn out doing everything around the house and regarding our personal life. Any suggestions?

2007-05-29 01:27:54 · 30 answers · asked by JesseNevaehsMommy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some guys like cumin inside the girl...if you understand what im saying...?!

2007-05-29 01:19:47 · 22 answers · asked by Nadi 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, he joined the navy 2 years after i met him, and i am now living with him and have been for 1 year. He still has not proposed, its wierd because he told me to pick out a ring last year so i did, that was one year ago but he still has not asked me. We always discuss our wedding how we want it etc...and he did ask me to marry him when we were 18 years old, but at the time there was no ring given and he was moving interstate to recruit school so i didnt take anything too seriously. He has mentioned he will ask again and there have been times where i have completely lost it (which i shouldnt have) and asked what the deal was.
Do you think he will ask again ? Or do u think that i pretty much already am engaged? I dont wear the ring we picked out yet because im waiting for him to ask!!

2007-05-29 01:04:10 · 29 answers · asked by Missy84 1 in Weddings

2007-05-29 01:01:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You have already become emotionally attached to this other person. Shouldn't you stop talking to them even if you are depressed and talking to this other person makes you happy?

2007-05-29 00:52:15 · 30 answers · asked by Kenny F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

will he wont me back after spliting with me the 5th time on his terms
he always ask for me back, he dump me as i wonted to spend more time with him at weekends, he said i moan and finshed it.
i am missin him dint hear from him till last nite out the blue he kalled of a dif num.
he was like "just callin to se how you are and if you had a nice weekend he was on the phone for 50 mins and whilset chatting hinted for me to go over at 11pm to watch tv with him , this yet again at end of weekend, i said lol no i would if u ask me ealier
im playing it kol and sound happy and wen said good bye said good bye quick , he then goes oh ok well il text u tomorow how my 1st day at my new job goes and u kan tb and say how u interview went.
i feel he just keepin me there to pick me up again as b 4 i changed me number, i havent this time but he rang sayin u havent text or anythin thoiught il kal u , so ill just tb wen he does.
what shall i do im fed up do mis him, but he wont change i love him

2007-05-29 00:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 5and a half years, no kids. I have cheated on him before and he has taken me back. He is a great guy, but I don't think that I love him anymore and it is hurting him really bad because he doesn't feel the same as I do. I got married right after I turned 17, he was 27. I have tried to be happy with our life together, but I always find that I am not? Help please???

2007-05-29 00:37:28 · 29 answers · asked by clhes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the first thing that pop up on your mind?

I had 2 dates with this guy. He asked me about ex-boyfriend and i told him i never had a boyfrined cuz i was capricious.(but i did dated some guys) I think he was surprised and even confirmed it by asking"so, you never had a boyfriend..?"
im neither lesbian nor pyscho.
im nice, intelligent and has nice body.

2007-05-29 00:30:02 · 32 answers · asked by GREEN P 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it a violation to tell everyone to have a great day?

2007-05-29 00:29:43 · 2 answers · asked by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 in Friends

My GF went out on a girls night out and did'nt come back untill 5 in the morning. When i asked about her night out she stayed at this bar all night and the bar staff bought her and her friend drinks all night. I was a little pissed off but trusted her.

2 weeks later she went there again with her GFs and stayed untill 5 o'clock in the morning.

Then we happended to walk past one afternoon and i surgested we go for lunch there and see her secert boyfirend in a jokeing way. She went the brightest red i have ever seen and refused to go and lots of nervous laughing.

Oviously i went mad and because she was hidding somthing, she explained it was because she embaressed her self and mad fool out her self because she was so drunk, not because of anything else.

I have questioned her several times and she denies doing anything.

I dont know to beleave her or not!!!!!

We are living together with friends and about to move in on our own shall i confront her again.

2007-05-29 00:16:14 · 27 answers · asked by AJ21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i was at a party and danced with a lot of guys (about 10) cuz they all asked me, and thay all said im a great dancer like one of the best in the class. my close guy friend who i like was sitting on the side the whole time.. my friend went up to him and said "ask someone to dance. you look bored. why dont you ask megan?" so he did but he kept moving away from me so i moved a little closer and then we were like off the dance floor. he didnt talk to me like the rest of the night. what happened????

2007-05-29 00:05:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating