Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

Have you ever been in a situation before that was so unbearable, and not doing anything about it just finally made you snap, for the good or bad?

2007-05-29 05:29:37 · 10 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 years old when I first met her. I met my girlfriend when she was 12 year old at college. (She's a college student, her parents put her to kinder at age 4 and skipped 3rd grade. and got her GED at age 12) When she became 13, I asked her out and she became my girlfriend. now, she is 16 year old and out of school and got a job. I am 24 year old with a job also. We are very much in love with each other. I am planning to get married with her. We've been together for 4 great years. I knew she was the one for me. I hear if I do have sex with her, I will be in trouble with the law (statutory rape), I really want to have sex with her. I don't want to wait anymore, it is going to be at least 2 more years then I can legally have sex with her. I would never leave her if she gets pregnant. I'm too much in love with her. What do I do with my sex drive and how to I ask her to marry me? do I tell her parents about me marrying her? They are okay with me dating her.

2007-05-29 05:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 20 years old when I first met her. I met my girlfriend when she was 12 year old at college. (She's a college student, her parents put her to kinder at age 4 and skipped 3rd grade. and got her GED at age 12) When she became 13, I asked her out and she became my girlfriend. now, she is 16 year old and out of school and got a job. I am 24 year old with a job also. We are very much in love with each other. I am planning to get married with her. We've been together for 4 great years. I knew she was the one for me. I hear if I do have sex with her, I will be in trouble with the law (statutory rape), I really want to have sex with her. I don't want to wait anymore, it is going to be at least 2 more years then I can legally have sex with her. I would never leave her if she gets pregnant. I'm too much in love with her. What do I do with my sex drive and how to I ask her to marry me? do I tell her parents about me marrying her? They are okay with me dating her.

2007-05-29 05:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 05:27:05 · 30 answers · asked by goodness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just sang at a friends wedding this weekend and wore a white dress that had pink flowers on it with black trim. I know you are not supposed to wear all white to a wedding but I thought printed dresses were alright. Did I committ a fashion crime?

2007-05-29 05:26:12 · 14 answers · asked by lcsingersongwriter 1 in Weddings

2007-05-29 05:26:02 · 21 answers · asked by Graciela, RIRS 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy is forced to get married to a girl cause they are having a kid together will the marriage last?

2007-05-29 05:25:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

thanx!!!!!!!

2007-05-29 05:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have only seen him twice. The first time we met up at a bar 2-1/2 weeks ago. The second time was just this last Thursday night, he took me out. He left to go out of town the following morning for Memorial weekend and was returning last night. He was with all his friends so I didn't expect him to call, he is not a big phone person anyway! He likes to text and we are just getting to know each other very slowly which I don't mind! He has a demanding job and I have 2 little boys! He did make a comment he wanted to see me this week. I didn't hear from him for a week after our 1st meeting. I am new to dating again (married 10 yrs), is this normal for in the begining not to hear from him for a week then he calls for a date? Should I worry? I really do like him but I am NOT calling him. I let them come to me. Will he?

2007-05-29 05:25:37 · 5 answers · asked by Kellie B 2 in Singles & Dating

have been togather 6 years and have to kids. been through hell and back. but he has a verble and mently abussing problem. he says he don't meen the stuff he says, but after hearing the same mean things for 5 out of the 6 years. you start to believe what you hear. he says i'm to bitchie, but wouldn't u be when they can't say or be nice at all unless he is buzzed or messed up seems like the only time he is nice and acts like he loves me. i feel that if u can't like me sober than i don't want u to like me at all, that is being fake if u ask me!!! i've told him about he says he will change, but haven't really made any inprovements,but he is a excalent father!!

2007-05-29 05:24:03 · 20 answers · asked by mombomb 1 in Family

my bf and ihave known another 4ever we are 14 but i stayed at his house this weekend and we were talking he said that when we get older he wants to have a kid but i have 2 brothers and i watch my cuz to much i love kids but they get on my nerves i really don't want kids when we get older !



WHAT DO I DO ?

2007-05-29 05:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have dated for 4 months, and though he says he loves me he still has not told his family about his feelings for me... since they have made it clear to him that they will "shun" him and no longer help him or talk to him or have a relationship with him.... He lives in a house that his parents own (they live out of state) and he shares with his sister.. He still will not bring me to his house even when his sister is at work even though I have said it is a trust issue for me.. Because he is afraid of his family.. DOes anyone know about this religion, and why they would do this to their own family? Why they would not accept him having a girlfriend who is a different faith?

2007-05-29 05:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by enquiring mind 2 in Singles & Dating

he wants to know if i'll marry him, we've talked about having a family, and getting married before, but he just asked me on saturday and i told him yes, the only reason i'm really doubting marrying him is because he was married before, and had has gotten divorced so what should i do?!

2007-05-29 05:22:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 05:21:45 · 4 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this women has been pursuing me for a while now, but she is unhappily married and SAYS she is going through a divorce. we go out on the date she comes back to my place we dont have sex, but we make out and do some other things. but the whole time, she is lifeless shows no passion and lies there like a coprse. would you consider this beavior abnornal? was she feeling guilt?

2007-05-29 05:20:09 · 18 answers · asked by louvandam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how old do you think is too young?

2007-05-29 05:20:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 05:18:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 24 year old man and i was at a bar about 2 weeks ago and i met a cute girl and we preceded to make love... it was a beatiful relationship... untill she told me a few days ago that she is actually 16 years old!!!! she snuck into the bar and tricked me into having sex with him... the legal consent age in my state is 18 and i checked and the law is clear that i should have somehow known that she is 16(i was supposed to ask) now this girl has been threatening me that she will tell her parents that i had sex with her, she has been making me buy her expensive jewerly and stuff and i have no choice, i am about to graduate college and i can't afford to go to jail... she said that she wont tell anyone if i buy her a 2004 civic... i have money saved up from my job but i dont want to use it on a car for someone else, and i dont want to go to jail... what should I do? my brother is a lawyer and i asked him and he said that the only way out is too give her what she wants

2007-05-29 05:17:57 · 16 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i not be bored? i have no one to talk to etc.... and im not REALLY close to my mum ither

2007-05-29 05:17:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My exboyfriend is an asshole. We had a 5yr relationship we broke up just 3days ago he is acting like if nothing happend. He is already talking to 3exgirlfriends. while he's having fun am crying my eyes out. I don't want see or call him but we have son. How do I act like if don't care?

2007-05-29 05:17:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 05:15:16 · 18 answers · asked by zOe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In my mid 30's I dont know many of my generation or older that DIDN't get spanked (at home or paddled in school) when we were growing up. Are people just sayin that like they claim to recycle? I ask bcuz If spanking is SOOOO bad, why is this "untouched" generation so out of control?. I see now that kids provoke teachers to lose it and tape it on their cellphones.(pretty lame)

2007-05-29 05:10:06 · 10 answers · asked by Me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-29 05:07:17 · 37 answers · asked by Mr. Nobody 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My sweetums basically told me to get whatever I wanted for our wedding and if I wanted his help he was there,otherwise it dosent matter,why don't men ever get excited over this stuff????

2007-05-29 05:06:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I"m only 14 but me and my mom fuss all the time about any and everything! and then i'll hear her talk about how this kid is bad or that kid is bad or their parents are not good for them and then i look at us and its the same exact problems! But when we talk i get scared to tell her really whats the matter with me so what do i do?

2007-05-29 05:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by Eureka_17 2 in Family

My husband moved our family back to his country, I had to go because I do not have any family (father or mother) now I see my husband acting very strange such as not communicating with me, paying me no mind, not calling me, doesn't take me anywhere( I guess don't want to be seen with me), doesn't return phone calls, complaining when he comes from work, I'm always at fault when things happen, very jealous ways...etc. Our these signs of abuse or a divorce is coming? Help me please! I have no where to go...or scared to leave the relationship afraid of being alone...I need advice....

2007-05-29 05:02:59 · 19 answers · asked by Sweetie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 05:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by Yomy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is in a messy situation with her marriage. Anyway, I would have this child in my care for 3 months straight. Would this be considered a Foster Care situation? Am I allowed to take on this responsibility without the court system involved? She just wants me to take her daughter until she gets herself on her feet.

I don't know if I'm allowed to.

2007-05-29 05:01:15 · 17 answers · asked by Red-dog-luke 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I ask how to know if a girl was flirting or just being nice.Well there is this woman,i'm 38 she's 43 and she works in the medical field,but she seems to be a little nicer to me than others,she gave me her cell number and said to call anytime i needed her,day or night.She seems to concern herself with my problems in everyday life,she is a physical therapist,and her face lights up when she sees me.She has offered me her services for free,but i was working short time.But i don't know if she is into me or am i reading the signals wrong.She will put me before other patients.I just get this vibe when i'm around her that she wants to know me more than just a patient,by the questions she ask.Am i reading the signals wrong?When i go see her it's like i get special treament.Is she just being nice?I wish i knew and don't want to ask and be wrong about it.Ive had other patients tell me she never talks to them,but when she,s with me she talks and ask questions about me the whole time.

2007-05-29 05:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by 8seconds 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 04:56:49 · 16 answers · asked by spanishgrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce