I ask how to know if a girl was flirting or just being nice.Well there is this woman,i'm 38 she's 43 and she works in the medical field,but she seems to be a little nicer to me than others,she gave me her cell number and said to call anytime i needed her,day or night.She seems to concern herself with my problems in everyday life,she is a physical therapist,and her face lights up when she sees me.She has offered me her services for free,but i was working short time.But i don't know if she is into me or am i reading the signals wrong.She will put me before other patients.I just get this vibe when i'm around her that she wants to know me more than just a patient,by the questions she ask.Am i reading the signals wrong?When i go see her it's like i get special treament.Is she just being nice?I wish i knew and don't want to ask and be wrong about it.Ive had other patients tell me she never talks to them,but when she,s with me she talks and ask questions about me the whole time.
2007-05-29 05:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by 8seconds 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you ask her if she'd like to go have a coffee with you sometime? Or tea if coffee doesn't work for you...
If she's interested in you she will agree to see you outside of the professional situation she now sees you in.
If she refuses, she is politely letting you know that she finds you interesting as a person, but that she doesn't want to pursue the relationship further. If she refuses, don't feel bad, it was only to chat over coffee. Much better than if you had asked her out officially, which might make her feel awkward in the future when she sees you.
2007-05-29 05:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave you her number so give her a call when you finish your treatment. This way, she doen't have to violate her PT ethics by dating a patient and you will be able to put your health first while in therapy. If you do start dating and it doesnt work out, you will have to go to uncomfortable therapy session or find a new PT.
If she happens to "treat all her patients this way", then you wont have to risk seeing her again if she rejects you.
My bet is that she's interested but its best to wait until you are done with treatment.
Medical professionals dont usually give their private numbers to patients - Thats why there are answering services. She is interested. Good luck!
2007-05-29 05:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by selery222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your reading them right. She seems interested in you. An easy way to figure out if a woman is flirting with you is to ask yourself "Would I do what shes doing if I wasn't interested in the person I was doing it for?", then take into account that women are not usually the hunters in relationship situations, which means it takes a little more for most women to approach a guy. If she is throwing herself out there like your saying she is then shes a step above interested, and ready to get things in motion. Shes just waiting for your compliance.
The only question is do you want to date her as well.
2007-05-29 05:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Ronnie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me she is interested. This is what I would do if I were you. I would call her on her cell phone one night just to chat. In the conversation ask her out for coffee/a drink.. whichever. What is the worse that could happen??? She'd say no. But at least you will know and not wonder anymore. She may even say yes and it could be a wonderful realationship for you but you will never know unless you do something and do you wanna spend the rest of your life wondering what would of happend if you would of just asked her out??? I think you should go for it. It is alot better knowing than wondering.. Good luck to ya
2007-05-29 05:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call and invite her our to coffee or something to eat... keep it casual and cool. Don't imply it as a date or anything, just try and get with her outside of her work environment. After that, you should know where you stand :). Just keep the conversation up! Keep things interesting
2007-05-29 05:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by lionsworth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance here and ask her to dinner to discuss your case and see how that goes.Then go from there. She ll let you know if shes interested or what. I think youll be pleasantly surprised with the outcome here. Take this one step at a time and dont force it to go anywhere. Good luck
2007-05-29 05:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you 38 or 13? Of course she is interested. If you want to find out then call her. She gave you her number!!!
2007-05-29 05:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think u should just ask her if she is interested in grabbing a cup of coffee. what could it hurt. i think she may like you a little. take it and see where it goes. be confident
2007-05-29 05:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by michelle b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be unethical for her to start a relationship with a patient. She probably treats all her patients the same as she treats you.
2007-05-29 05:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Schwinn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is into you, send her a personal letter or drop it in her office and ask her out for dinner, she will be so glad and happy at least these is a gentleman out there ask her out, come on what are you waiting for? shall I give you a kick in your butt?
2007-05-29 05:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋