Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

we have been dating for a while and i love him...but he hasnt done it yet...should i bring it up?

2007-05-29 06:10:05 · 18 answers · asked by emjay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

not to sound conceited, but I think I am very physically attractive. Come on, a lot of you guys think you're hot, too-don't lie! But anyway, I KNOW I look good, but it seems like only the UGLY guys like me, and the cute ones treat me like dirt! Why is this?

2007-05-29 06:09:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mom is conservative and keeps a custom that at home, I and my lil sister have to wear a sweet frilly pinafore with a bow in the back. It's We gotta wear one all the time, even if we aren't doing kitchen chores. Mom also wears a pinafore like that, but isn't so strict w/ herself as she is w/ us. This is terribly embarrassing, we gotta wear them no matter who comes to the house. When my friends are over I get really embarrassed but it's a mom's law . She just says it's the right thing to do, every girl should wear those frilly pinafores and doesn't back off. Sometimes I even have to go out wearing one. I did everything to talk her out of this, she didn't back off. I even tried to rebel but shes my mom and I didn't succeed, got grounded and, of course, wearing my pinnies. How I can handle this situation? Am I stuck with my pinnies? She's a good mom, caring, nice, treats us with much love, but we gota wear those pinnies. Everybody says we look cute and sweet in them, but it's embarrassing

2007-05-29 06:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family

ive known him 2yrs the 1st year he was locked up 4 eleven months ive ben calln him my big brotha cuz thats wut hes ben like always taken care of me stoppn boys from bothern me untill one day n march we were watchin a flick n he started kissn on me sayn stuff like i wont hurt you i only wanna take care of you i promise i wont ever leave you and he nut*ed in me n hes done it over god knows how many times he says he wants me to b his babymama and his wife p.s hes 20 and im 17 so could he b taken advantage over me because of my age i mean he has never hurt me intentionally but is there things i need to be aware of because im the younger 1 here

2007-05-29 06:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by demari b due august 13, 2009 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my friend wants to know. How does a guy feel when you tell him that you are not giving him s**. Then he asks are you interested b/c he feels he has just been rejected. So she tells him that she likes him and she is strongly interested. He gets a little dissapointed but still enjoys talking to her. At the end of he night she gives him a kiss on the cheek and he excepts it but speeds off in rage (in his car that is). The next morning she calls him he says what do you need and she states that she is just checking to see how he was doing and he says oh im sorry then a little later he states that he is sleepy. She says would you like for me to call you tomorrow he says yes so the next day she decides not to call. She wants to know what he is thinking and how long does it take a guy to get over his ego that has been hurt/how long will it take him to get over the thing and stop being mad. I hope this makes sense. It is serious so do not take it lightly. How will she keep the attraction?

2007-05-29 06:01:56 · 6 answers · asked by yte r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 06:00:49 · 1 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Friends

SOOO bored!!!!
Anything i can do...?
I can't drive so yeah.

2007-05-29 06:00:39 · 2 answers · asked by $#^@*&$^(% 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 05:59:46 · 18 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with an absolutely wonderful man for 3.5 years now. We got engaged in August and are fully into the wedding plans. I already have a dress, the location, the date (Oct. 6, the caterer...everything! We've sent out the Save the Date cards and are getting ready to send out the invitations in a few weeks.

Now, I am having doubts. I love him, and know I want to spend the rest of my life with him - start a family & be faithful to him and only him, but I am beginning to resent having to let him know whenever I go out with my friends, and that I have to ignore my little crush's on other guys, and saving every penny I for this wedding. I just turned 22 last month, graduated last May and got my first job last August. I sort of feel like I haven't had a chance to enjoy being a young "independant" woman. My first check with my new "corporate" job went straight to this wedding fund. I want to go out with the girls and stay out all hours of the night like I used to.

Any ideas?

2007-05-29 05:59:29 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If your daughter had about 5-6 car accidents started smoking, drinking & drinking coffee\sleeping all day to recover for the next party would you pay for her education? What if she moved in with a guy as well. She has not yet, or has she who knows she slept with him last night. all this at 18. She is taking one coarse over now so her summer to her may be ruined. The way things are going I am afraid for her & afraid to spend more on her. What to do as a dad?

2007-05-29 05:58:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am not THAT concerned of cost. I am looking for a very flowy simple dress that would be great for a beach wedding in St. Lucia. Something sleeveless? halter? off shoulder? chiffon and flowy...almost angelic in a way? Any designers you know of? Sites?

2007-05-29 05:57:24 · 10 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Weddings

My friend is getting married and I don't know what to get. She's never been specific about what kinds of things she likes, so I think she's not picky. Also, I am kind of on a low budget. What's a good gift that will not cost too much?

2007-05-29 05:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-29 05:53:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About three months ago my bf and i broke up, we didn't talk much after because it was a bit awkward. We recently started talking again to eachother with out it being weird, we actually became close again and it was great. Thing is i haven't gotten over him and he started to confide in me and told me one day that he wanted to say something, but he had hoped that he'd tell my bff first then have her tell me, he then told me that he had started developing feelings for her. They go to the same school but he said he always only saw her as a little sister, he's a year older than my bff and I, also he told me he loved me three months exactly the day he confsed about his feelings for my bff. That hurt a lot. I told him also that i was okay with him having feelings for my bff, and he also doesn't know i still like him. I have to admit i feel jealousy twords my bff because she likes him, but i can't hate him because, i can't seem to get over him. I don't know what to do, it hurts =(

2007-05-29 05:51:10 · 14 answers · asked by orlis_girl_06 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 2.5 years. In the past year my husband has become very rude. He makes important decisions without me, including giving away my cats.
He will NOT compromise about anything, when I ask him to compromise he says "I am always right so why should I compromise?" I am very frustrated. He often makes me feel stupid, always correcting little things that I do wrong. I don't mind him correcting me but the way he does it is mean. I ask him if he wants to go out (example: the movies, beach, bowling) He always says no. He hasn't even had intercourse with me in over a month, just says he doesn't feel like it. I am starting to feel like I am the only one trying here.
I understand that marriage is a give and take relationship... but I am the only one giving.

2007-05-29 05:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Marriage & Divorce

never have said. Will he ever forgive me? Will I ever forgive myself is the real question. I could not ask for a better son but that was not on my mind when I lost my temper. I am sick and feel ill of what I said to him. I cant take it back. He is a great gift to this world and I already see that in him. What have I done to his spirit?

2007-05-29 05:48:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are having a very small wedding. We have a few people that we want to invite who are single. Some of them I know are not "seeing" anyone and some are, although we have not met any of the "boyfriends/girlfriends". We are paying for everything ourselves, so I'm wondering, is it required to send invitations to "XXXX and guest" or can we invite just the person we want to be there?

2007-05-29 05:48:25 · 15 answers · asked by brettacarol 1 in Weddings

I am 24 year old with a job also. She's 16 year old. We are very much in love with each other. I am planning to get married with her. We've been together for 4 great years. I knew she was the one for me. do I tell her parents about me marrying her? They are okay with me dating her. I know she wants to get married with me because she told me. After I marry her, then I have sex with her, will that get me into trouble still?

2007-05-29 05:48:10 · 3 answers · asked by Thomas L. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 05:46:13 · 31 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 05:44:31 · 2 answers · asked by seyavash 1 in Friends

2007-05-29 05:43:20 · 20 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Singles & Dating

We will answer you. You will be answered, whether you like it or not. Prepare for the invasion.

2007-05-29 05:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by Tommy 2 in Singles & Dating

After 28 years, his ex wife was cheating on him for the last 2, she up & left the house, took some furniture and asked for a divorce. During the year of proceedings, she got the new auto, her credit card bills paid each month and he would give her $ when she would complain. Same with his children who are 28 & 22. He worked his butt off for all these years to provide & they are very spoiled, but now it's all gone & he's walked away with 3 items & no savings. He brought the 3 items to my house (we practically live together) because his apt is too small & he cannot afford a stg. unit.. They had holy caniption fits about it & now he's giving back one of the items. I'm trying my best to stay out of "their" arrangement, but I see very clearly how they manipulate & control him & it drives me NUTS! I ave told him that since we are planning a future, he can no longer keep me "out of the loop" - he's agree'd, but even at a BBQ -at the dghtrs - the X was supposed to show up & did not -

2007-05-29 05:42:07 · 19 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well one day i had ask my mom can i get a cell phone and she always says yea u really need a cell phone and I am like mommy if I need a Cell phone why wont u give me one then she be like well u have to earn the phone and im like aww man momma i really want to have one

2007-05-29 05:41:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband really treats me as if he is better than me and then ignores me to to what he wants! When I want to do something for myself he tells me that I am selfish and inconsiderate to want some time to have any kind of fun!! When he treats me this way I feel it is easier to talk to others about it and not him. I espically ask other men why he is treating me this way. Why is it easier to talk to others, including men, than my controling husband? What should I do?

2007-05-29 05:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by Snickers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 months now, i love him very much. Well, today was the last day of 7th grade for us =[ anyways, i knew he would try to french kiss me. I was rly nervous and kinda screwed up. When i had my first regualr kiss with him a month or so ago, he asked if i liked him enough to kiss him, so we kissed. This time, i hugged him and was going to lightly peck his lips like usual but he opened his mouth and b4 i knew it his tongue was in my mouth!!! I freaked but i put my tongue in his mouth. I was kinda of nervous and it the kiss was like....hard. Its hard to explain but it was pressing my lips against his kinda hard. [[ Is that rly bad? How do i stop it from happening again?]] It kinda hurt. (p.s. the prinicple saw and got mad so i was first to pull out from the kiss, [[should i have waited till he stopped?]] )

2007-05-29 05:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by Kelli H 1 in Singles & Dating

I've taken a lot of mess of my ex...he never showed up on time, he was always talking to other women on the phone. He said mean things to me & even slept with other women. I gave him money when he asked for it, I let him stay at my place when his house was condemned. I took care of him when he was sick but when I got mad & angry at him I vindictively called some of the women that I knew he was sleeping with and told them about his game.

He was furious with me & said that was some silly stuff & that he no longer wants to be my friend let along in a relationship with me. I mean what is true friendship? I accepted him with all of his faults, & the mean things he did 2 me, but I did something & he doesn't want 2 c or talk to me anymore. Y won't he forgive me? He didn't care about any of those women, they're all just pawns in his game & at the time I felt they had a right 2 know. So how do I forgive myself for being so stupid....and what's a true friend?

2007-05-29 05:32:32 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

ive known this girl for almost a year now,, we used to talk like everynight on the phone or on messenger.... i used to take my mates to work so i cud see her and she cud see me... tht was at the start.... we never really started a relationship but weve told each other we like each other


at x-mas i got told tht shed spent a week at her friends house, a guy friend, i got it outta her tht she did do something, we wernt really in a relationship, so i let it go after a month..... latley she hasnt bin in touch to often, once a week at tht, i still get told she likes me, off her, and her best mate,
i really like her, but im startin to doubt her

2007-05-29 05:31:33 · 22 answers · asked by Tomma 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i approach to him. like yesterday when he tried to get my attention i ignored i know it was a stupid thing to do and i did feel bad, i thought he wouldnt say hi to me anymore but then today he talk to me. he even said i was attractive so what does this mean? does he have any kind of feelings for me? plz help me out? we do smile and flirt with each other alot!! he even said today can i not look at you, ur an attractive lady??

2007-05-29 05:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you male or female, and are you bored and at work or bored and at home?

2007-05-29 05:30:24 · 19 answers · asked by MD67 1 in Marriage & Divorce