2007-05-29 05:59:46 · 18 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better remove that SAD LOOK off your face.. U seem to be a beautiful lady, outside as well as inside...
This is your & his destiny...
Believe me, no matter how hard you tried to hide, it will definetly look in your eyes with the first look he gets from your lovely eyes...
You are a very decent Lady, and u regard the situation with a realistic perspective...
Who knows...He might have felt that look in your heart one of those days when a sort of a contact was initiated between the two of you...
If u cannot tell him, your heart & eyes would... Don't ever get your lips involved in this...I assure you he will know one of these days, but don'trush it...
You never know what happens next... Today is not necessarily like tomorrow...
You chose your way, and u r so decent of a young lady to the extent that u chose to keep it for yourself....
I am sure u r one heck of character hat is hard to find these days...BETTER TO RESEMBLE U TO A DIAMOND...Very Valuable & Precious, and very hard to find....
You chose to step on you heart and bear the pain all by yourself...but once he realizes how deeply n love u were with him, I am sure he will regret the days never joined u together; especially when u feel u r so attached to him, and possibly in common with him on so many grounds & on different levels...
Wish I could reach him to tell him how u feel, and I just have a feeling that he will share u the same feelings the minute he feels he POSSIBLY had the wrong choice with the one with him at the moment...
You cannot do anything at the moment...nor can he of course, until it is time for you to somehow get an opportunity to share a few laughs or to accidently meet with the will of God & Destiny...
You never know, but he could very much be your destiny as well as it the case otherwise..
I feel very much with u, that's Y I found myself compelled to writing that long of an answer, hoping this will comfort u a little...
U seem to be young to me, and I advise u to take a very good care of yourself, and school if u happen to still go to school...This is the one & only true weapon with which u could overcome REAL PROBLEMS in life once they start showing up...!!
One thing though...Don't keep that sad look into your face, and never ask yourself "WHY ME" ...but rather place the lovely smile on your face and let your lips translate the joy & excitement that one of these days you could meet,,, and once u do, I believe he would very much need to see u with a smile on your face rather than otherwise,,,
Lastly, u may wish to keep an eye on him from a distance... Maybe he will be in a different situation tomorrow, so keep tracing any feed back that could come from him,,,
Meanwhile, bear the fact that u r young & energetic, and that u could also stand an opportunity to be with someone else, who u would probably get in love with or accustomed to...
I am not saying that to you for the sake of comforting u & keeping u on the hope for what may never happen, but learn to keep all your choices available & alternatives ready...
It doesn't harm to try to pass a direct or indirect msg. to him somehow, without him & the others around take a real notice of what u r trying to pass...
His heart will one day feel the meaning behind what you say & do...Just be yourself as u seem to have always been..
Once A Decent lady, always a Decent lady...That's how I regarded u since I read the few & brief words of yours...
Don't break your own heart with your hands, and look after yourself,
Sincerely.....
A MAN WITH A SIMILAR SITUATION....
2007-05-29 09:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would have to question the fact that he kept from you the fact that he has a gf (if I was on your shoes). I don't know if you guys are the type that flirt with eachother or you are the one with the crush all by yourself. I would try to find out more about this so call relationship and see what is the status of it. I am not advicing you to be a home wrecker, but if the house is falling already is not much more damage that you can cause. One thing though, if it is the case, make sure is final so you don't end up being played or been the rebound. I always stayed away from men in relationship, that's until i meet my current BF, he was already separating from his wife so is not like I came in and messed it up. So keep you options open.
I would not recommend to be the one on the side though so be very careful not falling in that category. NO woman shoul d allow a man to put her in that category, every one is worthy of their OWN psace.
2007-05-29 06:08:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he kept it from you then how did you find out? Does he show interest in you? If he does then it sounds like he is playing the field. In which case I would really hate to see you get involved with such a guy. Many women make the mistake of thinking just because he acted like that with his last girlfriend he would never do it to me.
I would do as your doing... never tell him. It just may spike his ego to new levels. He may sleep with you but he'll probably never be yours exclusively.
Showing your interested in a guy that is already committed to someone else, in my opinion, is a bit trashy. I hope your able to show some sort of respect to that and try and move on. If it was meant to be it will happen. Good Luck!!
2007-05-29 06:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's a gf, not a wife, then you should tell him how you feel. Put your cards on the table. You have no idea how he feels towards you, or why he's keeping his GF from you. Tell him how you feel and see where it goes. The worst that can happen is that you're still right where you are now.
Put your cards on the table. Tell him.
2007-05-29 06:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is not man enough to tell you about his GF then you don't need him. I know it will hurt, but you need to move on to someone who will want to tell everyone about his girlfriend.
2007-05-29 06:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till they break up and then tell him how you feel. If they don't break up then let him be with the woman he wants and as for you find someone else.
2007-05-29 06:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Hustler 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Find someone without a Girlfriend.
2007-05-29 06:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
he kept that little fact from you? you should forget him, get over him, and fall for someone else. if you get with him, who's to say he won't forget to tell some other girl about you?
2007-05-29 06:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Date women for a minute or two...men always want to convert lesbians.....I'm willing to help out.
2007-05-29 06:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by melissa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over the fantasy and get on with your life.
2007-05-29 06:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by peachyone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋