I've taken a lot of mess of my ex...he never showed up on time, he was always talking to other women on the phone. He said mean things to me & even slept with other women. I gave him money when he asked for it, I let him stay at my place when his house was condemned. I took care of him when he was sick but when I got mad & angry at him I vindictively called some of the women that I knew he was sleeping with and told them about his game.
He was furious with me & said that was some silly stuff & that he no longer wants to be my friend let along in a relationship with me. I mean what is true friendship? I accepted him with all of his faults, & the mean things he did 2 me, but I did something & he doesn't want 2 c or talk to me anymore. Y won't he forgive me? He didn't care about any of those women, they're all just pawns in his game & at the time I felt they had a right 2 know. So how do I forgive myself for being so stupid....and what's a true friend?
2007-05-29 05:32:32 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the problem is you need to let him go. He was horrible to you. Why do you care if he forgives you or not? Why would you want ot be friends with someone that treats you like that? You weren't stupid for what you did but if you get back into any kind of relationship with this person I would say you aren't very smart. You should surrond yourself with people that make you feel good about yourself not break you down.
2007-05-29 05:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u love him but u deserve better if u forgive him for all his faults u have a good heart to be with him, but he cant forgive u for a mistake u made thats stupid he is being a child and acting like one. tell him either get over it or u should move on and find somebody that wont do that to u
good luck girl
2007-05-29 12:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Hayley H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he wasn't a true friend. You need to get rid of him and run! He's a user and a loser who can't take care of himself and expects everyone around him to help him out. YOU DON'T NEED HIS FORGIVENESS. Move on and get rid of him, keep your options open and meet new people. If he was nasty like that to me, I'd slap the taste out of his mouth, and I've never been in a fight in my life =)
2007-05-29 12:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋