kissing ages?

Question

Well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 months now, i love him very much. Well, today was the last day of 7th grade for us =[ anyways, i knew he would try to french kiss me. I was rly nervous and kinda screwed up. When i had my first regualr kiss with him a month or so ago, he asked if i liked him enough to kiss him, so we kissed. This time, i hugged him and was going to lightly peck his lips like usual but he opened his mouth and b4 i knew it his tongue was in my mouth!!! I freaked but i put my tongue in his mouth. I was kinda of nervous and it the kiss was like....hard. Its hard to explain but it was pressing my lips against his kinda hard. [[ Is that rly bad? How do i stop it from happening again?]] It kinda hurt. (p.s. the prinicple saw and got mad so i was first to pull out from the kiss, [[should i have waited till he stopped?]] )

well i liked it tho. It was my first one so i rly rly liked it. Is there was a way to make it softer? should i have waited until he was done b4 pulling away or was it fine to pull away b4 he was done?

And who ever said not to kiss till ur 18, i bet ur jealous and never been kissed.

Answer 1

Hey that's cool. Tell him it hurt you and that he should be a little less aggressive but that is really cool. He sounds like he likes you a lot. Explain to him what u want and how you want it. Talk to each other and understand how he wants to be loved and you tell him how u want to be loved. it's all in talking. If you guys talk you have no misunderstandings. trust me...You had to enjoy that. I was scared for my kiss too don't worry. I don't know how but I went from cheek kissing straight to french.
Hey Try and talk to him
Don't worry about pulling away. Girls always do that. It's not saying enough. It's simply telling him we need to take break now. I'm not a full time machine...


p.s Are 7th graders really 13 or 14. hmm i'm 14 and i'm in 10 th grade. I am in utah and i am the youngest in school though. weird.....

Answer 2

wow! your in seventh grade. Your what like 13? 14? Well I remember back when I was in seventh grade. I thought i loved this one guy I was dating too. Life isnt that simplet though hunny. Love is very difficult to find. One day you will understand what I'm tryin to say. What you may think is love really may just be a crush. I hardly doubt at your age you can determine what love is. Im 18 and i still dont know what it is. as for the kiss itself. if it makes you uncomfortable then dont do it . Dont let your boyfriend talk you into anything you dont want to do. thats not real love. Real love will wait sweetie. I would talk to him and express how you feel about the situation. If he doesnt understand maybe you should try seeing someon else. Your life will be full of disappointments and broken hearts but your heart mends and your mind forgets the pain. This also makes you better at relationships. keep your chin up kiddo. dont let the world get the best of you.

Answer 3

My first kiss used to be at 14 years historic. I used to be frightened, and truthfully too younger.. I'm close to sixteen now. and I do not suppose a thirteen, 14 12 months historic woman/boy will have to be kissing.. I consider such a lot do by means of then, however fairly you're too younger.. It wasnt NOTHING like I suggestion it might be, and consider it or no longer.. having a primary kiss, isnt a fairytale kiss.. it simply occurs.. If any person across the age of thirteen/14.. will have to wait and deliver it time.. :)

Answer 4

Your first french kiss is always bad. I am 21 years old and I still remember mine. I was in the 7th grade and he was in the 8th and we were at a school football game and I thought he was just going to kiss me and then he stuck his tongue down my throat. I went and told all my friends that it was like kissing a slimy frog. I still laugh about it today. Hes young too and a little inexperienced. Why dont you talk to him and next time tell him that its uncomfertable and to do it easy and slow or dont do it at all. Some people dont like the french kissing thing. I personally think its kind of gross still. I like regular kissing with both of our mouths open and no tongue. You decide.

Answer 5

Kissing this way is not as easy as it looks in the movies. The best thing is when you know your partner well enough to sort of feel them out without talking about it and you both kind of connect and it just works. If he's squishing your mouth and it hurts, more than likely it's because he's really nervous too so don't be too hard on him...

Answer 6

Well, the kiss has already happened now, so you can't change anything now. If anything, you should be flattered that he kissed you. Next time, you should kiss him first so that he knows you still like him. Get over being freaked about this.

Answer 7

well actually he probably knows that u were nervous so he mite understand, but no ones first time is perfect.. i mean mine was ok.. i was in mid-sentence wen my ex-bf kissed me.. it was ok cuz i kinda figured it was gonna happen :D just keep at it and trust me it will get better.. well considering the principal saw u had every right to pull out of the kiss.. you coulda got in trouble so its normal.. i did that wen my mom walked into the room as me and my ex were making out (this is after out first french kiss that lead to us making out) like i said just keep at it and it will get better.. good luck

Answer 8

It will get more natural with practice. You were both nervous.

And of course, as a dad, I would tell you to STOP IT!!!!

Answer 9

i dunno....no do what makes u comfortable & why kiss in 8 grade??? wait till your 18

Answer 10

Your too young to be kissing some boy,if you were my kid i would put you over my knee and spank your behind,keep your head in those books and forget about those boys before you end up pregneant.