ive known him 2yrs the 1st year he was locked up 4 eleven months ive ben calln him my big brotha cuz thats wut hes ben like always taken care of me stoppn boys from bothern me untill one day n march we were watchin a flick n he started kissn on me sayn stuff like i wont hurt you i only wanna take care of you i promise i wont ever leave you and he nut*ed in me n hes done it over god knows how many times he says he wants me to b his babymama and his wife p.s hes 20 and im 17 so could he b taken advantage over me because of my age i mean he has never hurt me intentionally but is there things i need to be aware of because im the younger 1 here
2007-05-29 06:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by demari b due august 13, 2009 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetie, please - practice safe sex. I dont care who you having it with. If he was in jail then he had a higher risk of contracting HIV/AIDS not only through sex with men but, fighting- being injured while imprisoned. I have a family member this happened too--- so I cant express to you how important it is at your young age to be safe a rap-it-up. Don't let any man Nu** on or in you that is not your husband. If he loves you he will marry you first (after being tested ) and then make you his wife and baby momma by law! Be smart- you can email me if you need someone to talk to. I dont want to here about or see another teenager contracting something - because everyone believes it will not happen to them - meanwhile - my cousin is dieing. He may not be taking advantage of you - he may love you - but if he does then he would do what is in your best interest. Let your finish school- continue your education and then marry you and have a family. ~~MrsB2U
2007-05-29 06:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be a "babymama". How come women haven't realized that having a baby, especially just as a way to be connected with a dude, is a serous pain in the ***, and costs alot of money, and is an overall drag. F8ck that sh1t. look at all the other girls that are "baby mamas" did it work for them- I rest my case. Go out there and meet a good man. Also, go on the pill, or use a condom. Who the f8ck knows what sh*t goes on in jail. Along with a baby, do you also want a case of the scuzzies??
2007-05-29 06:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Cool 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normally I'm the one who gives great, supportive answers on this whole questions thing...but this answer just leaves me feeling like "how can I even help this girl because she is sooooooo clueless"...
Deep inside, I have this feeling like YOU feel like he's taking advantage of you, but you want US to confirm it for YOU. What answers are you really looking for on here? Is it the, "No, girl. He would never take advantage of you. He just really loves you and wants to be with you. Especially since he CAME in you..."
Or...is it the, "Girl...what the H#!! were you thinking letting a guy come in you? Especially since you don't have a ring, and especially since this fool was locked up!"
Just don't go into this thing if you feel ANY type of reservation or doubt...if you do, you're not ready. In my opinion, you both should be working on your education and careers at this moment, and you two should not be concerned with "baby mama" matters.
I could go on and on with advice, but you know this situation isn't completely right. Slow down.
2007-05-29 06:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by Valerie C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your mom what he is telling you and what he did so she can kick his butt from here all the way back to jail! only a total jerk would tell you what he told you to get in your pants. don't give your body to any guy just because he says i won't leave you! he is lying to you, if he respected you you would have had a commited relationship from him already. he would have made sure you were wanting to have sex, and he would have made sure you had proper birth control, and he would have waited until you were over 18. what he did is illegal where i am from. if you do not stop this now you may end up his babymama with no daddy for your child, no wedding ring and no self-respect. get rid of him and wait for a guy who will treat you right!!!!!!!
2007-05-29 07:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by adelaide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser!
Are you uncomforable with the way he is treating you?
If he really cared about you, he would have a whole lot more respect for you. He would get an education and work on getting a real job to make a life for you and future children. Honestly, he sounds like a loser. I would not allow my little sister to be around him.
2007-05-29 06:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by ★Banäna . Nightmärẹ★™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
precisely! Its Like human beings Being To Used to using places, they simply Get Lazy And Wont Use a motorbike or perhaps walk Down the line For Stuff ... those human beings are only Lazy, Used To human beings helping Them Out And Doing each and every thing For Them whilst They sit down decrease back And relax! >:]
2016-10-09 01:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's taking advantage of you, then you're letting him. Get a spine and some self respect.
2007-05-29 06:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur almost 18 u know what ur doing ..if u feel bad with him then dont be with him. if u feel good stay...if he does drugs,steals ,etc..dont be with him!
2007-05-29 06:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are thinking it, then yes he is.
2007-05-29 06:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋