Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

I have always thought my mom's neighbor is really goodlooking, but he was married so nothing ever went anywhere. Well, he has been seperated for about 9 months now and has been at my mom's house more and more lately. She cooks him dinner, he has come over for christmas and things like that. I should mention that my mom works for him (he owns his own excavating company). Anyways, he was having a memorial day cookout the other night and we all stayed up at his house drinking and sitting by the fire. My mom finally went home about 3 am. I decided to stay. Needless to say things started to happen. We didn't have sex but came very close. He has hinted at actually wanting to date, he doesn't seem to have a problem with the age difference, but I am not sure how I feel about it yet. It all seems to be going to fast. He is 43 and I am 21. What do I do?

2007-05-29 03:52:36 · 7 answers · asked by TJ 2 in Singles & Dating

im such a curious person

2007-05-29 03:49:30 · 17 answers · asked by laughing_stock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this boy in my school who keeps looking at me, and every time we pass each other, or I'm near him, we have several eye contacts... I notice that he keeps looking at me...does that mean he likes me?

2007-05-29 03:48:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine been with his GF for 4 yrs. Recently they started getting closer. He's baring his soul to her, showing her a side she's never seen. He's buying her an engagement ring, taking it to marriage. He's really INTO her & wants to marry her. He's stepping up his game but he told me he wants to prepare for the worst. He said, "what if she rejects my marriage proposal or things dont go as they SEEM like they're going to go?" I told him I dont see why she would reject him. She's been with him for 4 yrs, she's loving this "side" he's showing her now & she mentioned if they were married maybe they'd be living together. So why would she reject him now? I think he's just being scared.

They've never been together like this before either, so this is like a "new stage" in their relationship. I think its gonna be fine. But can that actually happen? Can someone all of a sudden "fall outta love" or "pull back" once the other one starts opening up & showing a deeper side?

2007-05-29 03:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is for my a.p. english class,we are doing a research paper

2007-05-29 03:45:27 · 22 answers · asked by brit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, this may seem easy to you so my apologies...but I need help with the following. In short, my husband and I are taking our 2 kids on vacation. I have 3 nephews and nieces that are coming too. I just need to figure out based on the information below how much my sister would need to put in for her kids. Heres the breakdown.
Hotel room with just my family for 3 nights = $897. With her kids it would be $1257 for the larger room.
OK, the difference is $360. Should she pay me the $360 or is it $360 x 3 nights????? Also, as far as renting a minivan (we can't fit everyone in our car) do you think I should ask her to pay for half of the rental? What about food?
Any advice is appreciated, thanks to all.

2007-05-29 03:43:22 · 8 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to some party, got drunk with my girlfriend, and the next day, my girlfriend didn't want to talk to me (it's not that I tried to have sex with her because we already do have sex). Everything was well before the party. There was no problems! How can I gain her trust again? I'm very much in love with her. She is the only person I went to? She said she hated me and didn't want to see me again and was very hurt. What can I do next time? I am really sad that my girlfriend said she hated me. I will do anything for her forgiveness.

2007-05-29 03:42:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to some party, got drunk with my girlfriend, and the next day, my girlfriend didn't want to talk to me (it's not that I tried to have sex with her because we already do have sex). Everything was well before the party. There was no problems! How can I gain her trust again? I'm very much in love with her. She is the only person I went to? She said she hated me and didn't want to see me again and was very hurt. What can I do next time? I am really sad that my girlfriend said she hated me. I will do anything for her forgiveness.

2007-05-29 03:41:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the kind of person who'd rather "give" than recieve but my boyfriend doesn't make any kind of effort i know that he wants to make me "happy" but he's really quite shy and doesn't know what to do and i don't know how to tell him what i want.

2007-05-29 03:39:45 · 24 answers · asked by Reene-Lou. 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband and our 2kids live with his mom and stepdad. My husban can't stand his stepdad he has alot of anger towards him. My husband is on felony probation and can't get into trouble. and I know my husband will try to kill him. I really need the best way to tell him. Right know he is out of town till 6/1 . He was gone when this happened.

2007-05-29 03:37:22 · 24 answers · asked by lips1220 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does a woman have to change her eating, sleeping and overall life habits in a marriage?

I think that both partners should be able to bring things to the marriage and then form a new way of life.

Marriage is adjustment and compromise.

One person's wayh of life can not dominate the marriage orit is doomed to fail.

2007-05-29 03:33:24 · 14 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 03:32:49 · 189 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 03:32:33 · 11 answers · asked by rofer1243 2 in Singles & Dating

I am so loud during sex! I mean really loud. I sometimes get a sore throat because I am so loud. I can't really help it. It's just natural for me to be so loud and vocal during intercourse. I enjoy it and my husband enjoys it. It's fun. But the problem is, that I'm afraid that my neighbours can hear me! In fact, I once got a complaint a neighbour! I don't know what to do...I've tried not being loud, but the sounds just erupt out of me and my husband worries that he's not pleasing me when I'm not being loud. It's how I express pleasure! What do I do? Is it even a big deal? It's not like I'm ashamed of my sexuality. Does it really matter if my neighbours hear it?

2007-05-29 03:32:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 03:30:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my sister had a bunch of people over for a picnic and i watched as she basically insulted them in one way or another throughout the day. She would bring up embarrassing things that have happened to them or things they clearly didnt want to discuss with a group of people they didnt know that well, and it was humilitating. Why does she do that, and how can i get her to stop! People were leaving because they were so uncomfortable. She sees nothing wrong with it!

2007-05-29 03:29:54 · 7 answers · asked by Me, myself, & I 3 in Family

2007-05-29 03:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by Rick H 1 in Weddings

I've wanted them to get a divorce for years now (I'm 15). They fight constantly and my dad has left us 5 times now. He always came back saying how sorry he was. And my mother would always forgive him no matter what he did or how many names he had called her. Then they'd be back at it a few months later. Now it's finally happening. I don't know where we're going to go because my dad wants the house. And I know we aren't going to have anything but I can't help but feel beyond relieved!

But when your parents get a divorce your supposed to be upset right? So..Does it make me a bad person that I actually wanted this to happen?

2007-05-29 03:27:23 · 33 answers · asked by sky2435 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 03:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by fari 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have asked one of my friends to be a bridesmaid. We have known eachother since we were 8. Our relationship over the last year or 2 has been kind of rocky but we are okay now. Or we were. Over the last few months she has became really good friends with another co worker. They are both single and like to party etc. Well over the memorial day weekend I invited her to go to the lake with my fiance and I and a group of friends. Well our co-worker decides to Go tubing in the river. Well it decided to rain, so After it stopped I decided the lake was too muddy and we will just hang out at the pool at my house. She doesnt answer her phone or return my call. We get to work this morning and I asked her what she did yesterday and all she said was she was sick and didn't do anything. Just stayed at home. Well our co-worker came in and said that she (my bridesmaid) had went tubing with her and they hung out all day and went shopping etc. I'm alittle upset that she would lie to me about it.

2007-05-29 03:26:43 · 13 answers · asked by dvmeli_05 2 in Weddings

This has quite possibly been the worst weekend of my life! First I got grounded for 3 weeks for sneaking out (which i accept) then I find out my bf slept with some whore at prom so now he's treating me like crap, then my sister moved out because she hates my parents (now my mom thinks she failed as a parent and is really upset) then my other sister's bf tried to break into a corner store by our house and got arrested (so now she's upset because of that and becasue my dad is basically rubbing it in his face). So now I have all this stress and I'm upset and don't know what to do! Can anyone give me any advice on any of these problems I have? I can't handle anymore stress like this!

2007-05-29 03:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Family

Here is my case. My wife and I got married in 1998. Had my son who is 5 now. In 2005, i found out she had been cheating on me for a whole year w/ someone else. When I caught them she decided to move out. I still see my son because she lives close by. I have no physical prrof of what they did, but I do have witnesses. We never divorced or anything, we just seperated. We have a paper we wrote explaining that we have been seperated from each other since 2005, signed by a public notary, but that's it. She has no job right now, she is only recieving unemployment for now. Now she is w/ a new guy, who she has met for 5 months, and is now pregnant, I do not want my son to be in that type of enviroment. I live currently w/ my aunt, and I work a steady full time job. I pay for my sons clothing,food,day care, and anything else he may need.

2007-05-29 03:23:09 · 14 answers · asked by Antonio R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.. so, way back when my mom had me, my biological father left us, and mom remarried and this new man adopted me, who I now call my dad. But, we don't get along. AT ALL! Like, we have tryed seeing a psychologist, and he admitted that he treats me differently because I am not his biological daughter. He nags at me for every little thing, and doesn't even say hi to me in the morning! He gets up and yells and nags at me all day. Then, to top it all off, he cheated on my mom about a year ago. I don't even see him as a person anymore. We have tried talking to councellers buyt that just ends up in me getting hurt, cause he tells them lies. What should I do?? Like, it got to the point that a couple years back I ended up in Foster Care, cause I guess I was too much for him to handle...

2007-05-29 03:21:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

And she said there is nothing wrong as the wife can't give what the husband want. And thats her freedom to choose what she want in life.

2007-05-29 03:19:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We tried to encourage him to get his GED and to find a job. We even allowed him to stay in our home with the understanding that it was to try to help him! BIG mistake....he did NOTHING....my husband was at school, I was at work, my daughter was at school and he sat in our home, played video games,played on the internet, watched tv,ate and slept......not one thing around the house! EXCEPT impregnate my underage daughter....who thinks she is completely "in love" with this person who she "thinks" is going to be a GREAT father! We gave him a deadline to have a job by and when his time was up and my husband was taking him to the bus stop to send him back to North Carolina where he came from....they dropped the bombshell of a baby! I want my daughter to finish high school and go to college and we will be here for her and the baby through it all.....however he is NOT allowed back into our home! He seems to be VERY manipulative and has such a hold on her! Anyone else go through this?!!

2007-05-29 03:09:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a guy(I work wit) smaked my a** and told me he wanted 2 F*** me n now my bf wants to kick his A** I got in to it wit a girl at work to were my manager had to hold me back I really dont need any more problems I have bills to pay ( n I have a problem on rating people out) please HELP

2007-05-29 03:08:54 · 15 answers · asked by sexyroselover 1 in Singles & Dating

and it's not because I don't love my husband anymore or because our problems are soo big and unfixable that it's the only way. It's because he is unapproachable and our problems(however small they may be) never get discussed. Anytime I try to talk to him about things that need discussion it ends in a screaming match because of his HORRIBLE temper. I am mostly worried about my daughter(6 months) growing up around this shaky and angry situation. I hate to fight so most of the time I avoid topics that are extremely important just to keep from fighting.I have just became soo disgusted with his attitude that I dont even want to be loving with him anymore. I just am really needing a solution to this. I am very unhappy and see the only way to change it is to divorce since he wont be an active party in our lives. I didnt get married to get divorced and would love to work things out and stay together so any advice would be great. Have you experienced anything like this? If so, can you help me?

2007-05-29 03:03:54 · 18 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are getting our engagement pictures in two weeks, and the only problem is that he won't smile for pictures! I think he's the most handsome man alive, and when he looks at me he has such a beautiful smile, but when the camera turns on him he gets this funny look on his face! He says he can't help it, but I can't seem to get him to freeze the smile he gives me for the camera. It reminds me of that old Friend's episode of Chandler and Monica when they went to get their pictures takens, and he made that silly face as soon as the camera turned on him. Any ideas on how to make this pics turn out well?

2007-05-29 03:02:57 · 9 answers · asked by holldoll 2 in Weddings

but although I am getting married on a tight budget don't want to lose the idea of the perfect dress, looked on ebay but a lot that i like come from china and don't want to pin my hopes on a dress for it not to turn up, so wondered if any one knew of any reputable companies that do fairytale price and bin bag prices!!!!!!
thannks for looking and thank you in advanced for your help

2007-05-29 03:02:17 · 44 answers · asked by lucy82 1 in Weddings

2007-05-29 03:01:11 · 6 answers · asked by golfnut34 1 in Singles & Dating