I went to some party, got drunk with my girlfriend, and the next day, my girlfriend didn't want to talk to me (it's not that I tried to have sex with her because we already do have sex). Everything was well before the party. There was no problems! How can I gain her trust again? I'm very much in love with her. She is the only person I went to? She said she hated me and didn't want to see me again and was very hurt. What can I do next time? I am really sad that my girlfriend said she hated me. I will do anything for her forgiveness.
2007-05-29 03:42:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
, What you do? Must of been bad.
2007-05-29 03:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. November 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't really know what you did, then you may have a problem holding your alcohol and she thinks you did something you swear you can't remember so you may have a blackout problem. That is if you're telling the truth here. Sometimes guys can do things that may appear simple and unimportant when drunk and don't remember what it was because the girl didn't make a big deal out of it right away. This may also be the case. Have her level and tell exactly what you did and you twll what you're going to do to make it not happen again, even if it means staying pretty sober at the next party.
2007-05-29 10:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are the both of you? Obviously while drunk you said something hurtful. If this is the case, she's obviously hurt and angry and is 'punishing you'. However, if she's mature she will realize you were drunk and didn't know what you were saying/doing. I say take her to lunch (with a single red rose in hand). And calmly tell her you do not understand what you did wrong. You need to know from her. Ask her to explain. When she does, you in turn get to explain that you were drunk and had no idea you did that/said that. You are sorry, it was stupid, admit you were stupid and inconsiderate, but it was the booze talking and not your true feelings. Ask for her forgiveness.
2007-05-29 10:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like something happened or said while you wee drunk and she got hurt or offended and now se wants nothing to do with you. You cant fix this until you know what you actually did, but cutting back on the excessive drinking is probably a realgood place to start and then find out what really happened and go fron there. Good luck
2007-05-29 10:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to call her, and leave a message if she wont talk to you, or text message her. either way in this message you need to tell her your sorry for whatever it is you did (dont say it like that. make sure u know what u did) and that you're really hurt that she said she hates you and that you would do anything within your reach to make it better. the only way to solve these problems is to talk it out. so leave her a sappy, sweet, romantic message and just pray she cares enough still to call you back.
2007-05-29 10:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can do some very stupid things when they are drunk. Even though you don't say what it is you've done to offend your girlfiend, I am guessing it is not good. Sit her down and apologize to her over and over. If this happens everytime you drink, then you need to understand drinking is not for you.
Good luck.
2007-05-29 10:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmk sooo you went to a party and got drunk with your girlfriend and didnt try to have sex with her??? uhhh sweets thats not enough info...if this is the full story which i am guessin there is more that you need to add by editing your question then she has no right to be mad at you...i mean its a girls dream for a guy to get drunk and not try to have sex with them!!!
i am confused!!!
why does she hate you???
MUAH*
2007-05-29 10:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you have to find out what she is mad about and clear the situation up. I would show her that her words mean alot to you and she is your angel and there is no heaven without angels. Show her that you care and try to resolve the problem before it festers and gets outta control. Do you best homie. Wish you luck.
2007-05-29 10:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by desaun08 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you do? Do you know? I dont understand what it was that you did to make her not trust you! If it was the fact that you were drunk, then just dont drink!
2007-05-29 10:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Me, myself, & I 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you considered joining AA? You must have a problem if you have blackouts. You either take steps to correct your problem or you will not be with us very long.
2007-05-29 10:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you need to regain her trust? Did you do something stupid? I don't understand why she's mad just because you got drunk.
2007-05-29 10:47:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋