ilove my bf alot..but there is religious prblm..wht shld i do..? shld i convert n marry him or remain the same

Answer 1

To convert to his religion & marry him will make such a marriage legal & valid according to his religious marriage laws. You can also marry him without converting to his religion by civil marriage, i.e. before the marriage officer/registrar where the conditions of religion, nationality or race is never in question but only the age, location, mental status & prohibited relationship between the parties are taken care off. In India such marriages are possible under the Special Marriage Act, 1954.

Answer 2

First of all you need to be clear about LOVE.DO you know what true love is...........
Love needs Emotions
Emotion needs feelings
Feeling needs Devotion
Devotion is Love
So true Love not know barrier age,birth, caste, or religion.
If you r thinking about barrier of religion n problem regarding it then where love remains.
Now what marrige is ? I tell u....
Marrige is a meeting of two souls this is old thought we should move further with that line in mind and see what is need for a successful marrige in todays practical n demanding world where love marriges got failed frequently.
What is demand of time is that both boy n girl should understand eachother well,they need to give respect to each others views So they will be as two side of same coin.If one expect something from other then be careful about it.Mutual understanding in decision making.One should back other on any front of life n give best support n effort to compliment each other.There a thought need to remain in there mind that this is there family of two which they have to hold n what their parents are they r part of each others life deserve respect of both.
So in your matter you have to consider the things above while religion not matters much if you people have true love n commitment both can follow there present religion n get married and give an example to world about your tue love.And if there is problem from parental side then let make them cool influence them with your radical views n tell them after them you have to live you life so you r thinking bout your security n happiness.
This is what I think about your matter know plz tell us what u r thinking after this... WITH BEST WISHES

Answer 3

You would have to decide if your religion comes first in your life and if it does, don't convert to another religion. Is he not willing to convert to your belief after studying with him?

One thing I refused to do is marry outside my faith for this very reason and even though I had to wait a while, I did find a wonderful man who believes as I do and we are very happy together. To most people, different religions isn't important but to me, it was very important.

I didn't want to be sitting in one church while my husband is in another and if we had had children, I didn't want them influenced by the problems that come from parents being of a different belief. I've seen homes like that and the problems the kids had and how confused they were over it.

Families are supposed to be unified and the kids need to see the parents standing for unity, especially when it comes to religion and their souls.

If the two of you can't come to terms, you need to move on. There is always someone else out there for you to love and someone who will love and respect you for being strong in your beliefs.

The most precious possession I have is my soul. When it comes to God, I don't compromise my soul for any man. Hoping you can come to a solution and find happiness.

Answer 4

I usually never take questions or their askers seriously when they're typed in that way. But as you're being hypothetical I'll give you a serious answer. No, the written form of the English language has evolved considerably since the Medieval era, let's not devolve again.

Answer 5

it all depends on what religion u belong to and what religion dos he belongs to.
accoring to art.25 of the indian constitution u have full right to preach and practice any religion.if ur bf is 21 and u r 18 then go to the court.
1)convert ur religion according to the given article in the constitution.
2)then get married to him and get the marriage certificate from the court.
3)accoring to article 20 of the indian constitution u have the full right to freedom and personal liberty so nobody can stop u.
go ahead.

Answer 6

Religious issues are touchy.

Your relationship with God, Allah, or whatever you call the Great and Single Power of the Universe is more personal than what you and boyfriend do behind closed doors.

Have you studied both faiths? Is one more suited to you than the other? Has he explored your faith as well and is it perhaps better suited to him?

Again, your relationship with God is your decision - and NO marriage should be contingent on one or the other of you converting.

Answer 7

my question to you first are you christian? if so then the bible tells us 2Co 6:14 "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?" this means in any way in marriage business or even in friendships now i know you are gong to say friendships well your friends have the most power over you besides your family and if you are a believer and they are not they are not going to lead you closer to God and Christ so yes friends also be careful over my advice to you is to seek God first for as it is written Mat 6:33 "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. " the thing is i hope you find the truth of God and that your faith in him Grows for if you are willing to turn away from your God in your believes for a man what kind of love do you have for your God? the question truly is this who do you love more your God or that man.

Answer 8

u shouldnt convert coz he u should accept you with ur religion. N he doesnt need to convert cozu can have a court mariage

Answer 9

It depends on how you feel about the religion. If you actually were devoted to your religion you shouldn't change. I think your relationship with God is more important than a relationship with your boyfriend.

Answer 10

depends on what religious
but should marry if u really like him