I am so loud during sex! I mean really loud. I sometimes get a sore throat because I am so loud. I can't really help it. It's just natural for me to be so loud and vocal during intercourse. I enjoy it and my husband enjoys it. It's fun. But the problem is, that I'm afraid that my neighbours can hear me! In fact, I once got a complaint a neighbour! I don't know what to do...I've tried not being loud, but the sounds just erupt out of me and my husband worries that he's not pleasing me when I'm not being loud. It's how I express pleasure! What do I do? Is it even a big deal? It's not like I'm ashamed of my sexuality. Does it really matter if my neighbours hear it?
2007-05-29 03:32:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
AH loud music! That sounds perfect! Why didn't we think of that?
2007-05-29 03:49:17 · update #1
Wait, wouldn't the neighbours just complain about the music too? Stupid neighbours.
2007-05-29 03:51:56 · update #2
Make ur sex room sound proof.
2007-05-29 03:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they complained, then it matters. You are being totally inconsiderate to your neighbors. There's loud and then there's loud and if you are bothering other people, then it's too loud. You should be careful, your neighbors next step might be to call the cops and then you can receive a fine for disturbing the peace. Wouldn't that be something fun to read in the local police blogger? I'm sure you can quiet it down a couple of octaves. I'm not ashamed of my sexuality either, but that doesn't mean I want the neighbor to know my business either, nor do I want to hear theirs.
2007-05-29 03:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have any common decency for your neighbors and any children being around, then you should hold it down. You being so loud tends to get very bothersome and probably pretty annoying to your neighbors. I venture to say that you will probably end up having the police called on you if you continue to be this loud. I would suggest to you that you purchase a house out in the country somewhere,.....where you do not have any neighbors, so that you can continue to have sex as you wish, without bothering a soul and having the police called for disturbing the peace.
2007-05-29 03:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It depends on how close yoru neighbors are. If you are in an apartment then I can see where that gets annoying. If you are living in a house and your neighbors can still hear you , then you are very loud. Try doing something to quiet yourself. Scream into a pillow. Or your husband can put a gag on you. Either way, you can still scream but the sound will be less than normal. Hopefully this helps somewhat.
2007-05-29 03:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who really cares what the neighbors think. If youre having fun and not hurting anyone then what you two do behind closed doors inyour own home, then to hell with the neighbors and scream at the top of your lungs. The neighbors dont need to listen and either way theyll be alright, probably jealous or something anyway.Keep on having fun unless youre breaking a noise ordinance
2007-05-29 03:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well alrighty then, this is what i think, if your hubby thinks that he is only pleasing you when you are loud, there is a communication barrier somewhere. talk to him and let him know that he knows what to do, when to do it, how to hit it, and why lol. ya feel me? but you dont have to scream and holla just to let him know that. there are other ways to make him know that you are feelin real good. now, if you just cant help yourself, try screamin into a pillow or covering your mouth with something. or even try loud music, that way the neighbors hear the music not you. and honestly, if you and your hubby are married, who cares what the neighbors think, but if it is disturbing the peace, then maybe you and him should try some other "vocal coverups". hope this helps.
2007-05-29 03:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by CUDDLESCUTIE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Make sure the window are closed.
2) Have a fan in your bedroom that you can turn on high so that it helps block noise.
3) Close your bedroom door so less sound escapes that room itself (and the bathroom door if you have a traditional master bedroom).
And no, it's not a big deal! It's good to embrace your sexuality and enjoy your time with your husband. Most likely, the neighbors don't have a great sex life and are jealous that you two do.
2007-05-29 03:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think your neighbors would complain more about loud music than they would about your sexual exploits. If they called the police, they would knock on your door and ask you to keep the music down. But they aren't going to knock and ask you to keep the "sex" down. Close your windows during sex and otherwise have at it.
2007-05-29 03:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never worried about it until i had my daughter, now I am afraid she will wake up and ask questions. Just try to tone it down a little, you'd hate to get an eviction notice for noisy sex, LOL. Have Fun.
2007-05-29 03:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now, turn up the stereo or TV!
Like my Grandfather said, "Don't tell me about the party unless I am invited."
2007-05-29 03:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rockies VM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋