I'm the kind of person who'd rather "give" than recieve but my boyfriend doesn't make any kind of effort i know that he wants to make me "happy" but he's really quite shy and doesn't know what to do and i don't know how to tell him what i want.
2007-05-29 03:39:45 · 24 answers · asked by Reene-Lou. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been dating for two months this saturday
2007-05-29 03:50:59 · update #1
Sack him
2007-05-29 03:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you just need to give him some time. Maybe he's not quite comfortable yet...you did say that he was shy. He doesn't have to shower you with gifts and presents to show that he cares about you, he just does in the inside and probably just has a hard time to express it. If your still not happy then just tell him what you want. Some guys have a hard time of taking hints and just need to be told straight forward. I hope this helped...good luck!
2007-05-29 03:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that everyone has a shy side and a more extroverted side. All you need to do is bring him out of his shell. Experiment, and once you find the thing that makes him most confident, you can play on it, and he will start to make the effort, and when he does this, then you will be able to openly discuss what you need.
2007-05-29 03:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront and straight with him form the start hon. Start as you mean to go on. You don't have to be rude or aggressive about it come over quite casual and light hearted. Tell each other what you like and don't like it will make your relationship a lot better and stronger. All the best. xx
2007-06-02 00:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how long have you been dating him? 2nd Just be honest with him tell him that your not sure how to communicate with him without sounding selfish. Than proceed to tell him what you like and what kind of things you might want. then ask him the same thing.always be honest and open with each other it will have a long lasting effect on the relationship.
2007-05-29 03:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by gagesixtoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY CANT YOU BE OPEN AND JUST COME RIGHT OUT AND TELL HIM WHAT YOU ARE FEELING AND WHAT IT IS YOU WANT HIM TO DO.? GUYS REALLY DONT HAVE A CLUE MOST OF THE TIME. CLUE WORDS: BE OPEN , ANYWAY WHY ARE YOU BEING SHY TOO? HE DOESNT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE THINKING, YOU CANT EXPECT HIM TO BE PSYCHIC. JUST GIVE HIM A CHANCE....YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT THE OUT COME WILL BE
2007-05-29 03:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come straight out and tell him. He'll respect you for being so direct about it, and will more than likely do whatever you want. Hope this helps, xx
2007-05-29 03:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by *~*NY[ii]MM NY[ii]MM*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him but not in a demanding mean way, just in a plain understanding way. Don't make it seem like everything is his fault and stuff, just tell him nice plain and simple & ur done.
2007-05-29 03:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then SHOW him what you want. It's the best way...most people learn through hands on better than just being told. Just do it gently that way he doesn't feel inadequate. Good luck!
2007-05-29 03:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him... Communicate with him... Be creative so that he will not be too shy to expressed his feelings... Like if he is too shy, asked him to write you a letter or email or something... Good luck..
2007-05-29 03:44:05 · answer #10 · answered by Humairah MS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and tell him what you want. The direct approach always works best.
2007-05-29 03:42:25 · answer #11 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋