Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

2007-05-29 08:55:56 · 6 answers · asked by Lorri 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in Richmond, Va & Looking at May dates. Family has offered their home for our use but I worry about rain and the cost of tents. I am really hoping to spend LESS than $5,000 if possible b/c FH and I will be paying for this ourselves.

2007-05-29 08:54:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so my wife, and mother of my children, is struggling with the fact that her mom is terminally ill. In the last few months I have been the subject to some "Diverted Agression", and my fear is that she is not dealing with these emotions in a healthy manner. Lately she seems even more "out of sorts", refuses to go and talk to anyone about this, she gets made when her friends ask her about her mom. I have even tried to trick her into Marriage counseling, cause she refuses to go see a grief counselor. To her all these problems and lashing-outs that I refer to are simply me being a drama queen, to sensitive, or all in my head.

Any clues Yahoo?

Straight approaches need not apply - I have tried.

2007-05-29 08:48:41 · 14 answers · asked by elcamino777 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby and i dated 2 yrs he is 25 yrs old works in insurance and i am 21 yrs old still in college working part time.He was the perfect guy everything i ever wanted smart, mature, nice,took care of me and had a good job.I was known before to not have the best judgment with men.My parents were thrilled that i landed the nice/good guy and thought we were perfect for each other.Looking back i realize there were a lot of warning signs in the relationship that i kept quiet/ignored we fought a lot, broke up twice,went on 4 month break before the wedding because he was not sure,overall had a dramatic relationship and did not have the same standards in morality/values.During the 4 month break i had a fling w/ ex. bf got married month later not realizing i was pregnant w/ ex. bf's child hence the pending divorce.I dont want to dissappoint my parents how do i tell them?Ask for their help financially?

2007-05-29 08:48:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently I told my boyfriend that when we were just seeing each other (3 months into the relationship), that my ex boyfriend suprised me with a visit, an over nighter and that was all. We had slept in the same bed but nothing happend, we were really just friends. NOTHING had happend, who do I have to lie to if I am asking for all of your advice. Anyways I just wanted to come clean with the whole visit thing, since now 2 years later we are moving in. I really love him and I thought that being open with him (I know I should have told this to him sooner) would make it clear that I am ready to be completly open. Of course he was hurt, he wanted me to be open in the beggening, but he had this factor thing with my ex who lives over a 1000 miles away, I thought later would be better. I assured him that nothing happend, in fact I have not had any communications with my ex now for over 5 months. It was just really hard to end a "friendship" only relationship. My question is did I ruin his trust

2007-05-29 08:46:42 · 7 answers · asked by Advice25 1 in Friends

i just dont get the thing. why do men like it?

2007-05-29 08:45:55 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in a fatal accident...and i have talked about it until i was blue in the face...and I found it just DEPRESSED me and made me cry to even talk about it...Later time healed...the problem is people...they will ask.."what happened in yourmarriage?".;.I will say he was in a fatal accident and i do NOT re-live it...the person ... will get hestrical and say "oh my God, How did it happen?....(this is the part i hate)......I. will say as i am walking away....."I do not relive that PAINFUL time"...THEY WILL TOTALLY IGNORE WHAT I HAD JUST SAID...what is a matter with those types...i say it nicely????..WELL, what happened?..i will say a, "I AGAIN I do not relive it...it was very painful"....they can see my face...why don't they leave me be???THEY ARE EXTREMELY NOSY AND INTRUSIVE I FEEL...and they can see i am walking away.....

2007-05-29 08:41:35 · 23 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that I have been seeing for a few weeks now... we went to high school together and met up a few weeks ago...its been about 3 years since I've seen him and we instantly hit it off... we exchanged numbers and he texts me every once in a while. We've seen each other the past 2 saturdays in a row - he initiated it.. when he's around me he holds my hand and kisses me and cuddles with me... so then one day I text him and said "so when are you gonna ask me out on a date ;)" you know, all cute and stuff.. and he says "I don't do the dating thing, whats wrong with just hanging out?" I'm so confused... is this a sign that he doesn't like me? Should I move on.... or act less interested cuz it appears that he is less interested.? Please help!

2007-05-29 08:41:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this year alone. I got rejected by 2 girls and then the other one I liked got a boyfriend when I liked her. Last year got rejected. Freshman and 8th grade too. What do I do? I feel so bad about myself. Seems like god hates me.

2007-05-29 08:40:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Never asked any girls in High School to any dances including prom, etc. Just really shy and sometimes I wonder If I missed opportunities that I should have noticed that maybe someone did like me.

2007-05-29 08:40:16 · 22 answers · asked by thunderdome50 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out my step-son who is 14 has been sniffing precscription meds, drinking, and smoking pot. and I am upset with him for many reasons but because of his habit and new cool friends he brought this into our home and encouraged my 14 year old son to try pot and sniff pills. I am angery at both of them, my son was honest when we ask and the step-son tried lying until he knew he was busted. I care for my step-son and I don't want anything to happen to him but now I am afraid I can not have the same relationship because he brought this into the home and I feel he is somewhat responsible for putting my son in the situation. I know my son made his own decision but I can hear my step-son calling him pussy and every other word there is. I don't want to have hatered or be angry with my step-son, I am very dissappointed in my son and feel deep in my heart he knows he did wrong and won't let this happen again. My step-son I don't feel he is taking any of it serious.

2007-05-29 08:38:56 · 16 answers · asked by true2b 1 in Family

Right now I'm dating a couple of ladies. Both of them are equally hot.

The problem is that it is getting increasingly difficult to keep this under wraps. Plus its also getting really expensive to entertain two ladies.

They have both met each other but they don't know that I'm dating the both of them at the same time.

Should I tie the knot with one of them soon or should I just keep living it up in the single life?

If I get married, I won't be able to date a few ladies at a time like I do now.

Maybe I should let the both of them move in with me....the possibilities are endless here. Think I can get away with it?

2007-05-29 08:36:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently found out that my boyfriend of two years was actually married and had another kid with his wife while we were together. This may sound stupid, but I really had no idea that he was married. They have another daughter who just turned six. When I found out he said that he loved me and that he would tell his wife it was over and that he would be with me. Its been a couple of months and he keeps saying that she's going to move out and he said that last week he talked to his daughter and told her the basic situation. So it seems as if he's moving things along, but I guess I don't know if I should continue to wait or just move on. Please no negative answers.

2007-05-29 08:31:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What "uniform" do you apprecaite the "most"?

2007-05-29 08:31:24 · 20 answers · asked by FYIIM1KO 5 in Singles & Dating

if i tell this guy how i feel about him. We are friends so I am just scared of ruining what we have.

1) When he has not seen me in awhile, he hugs me as soon as I get there, says he misses me and asks if I missed him.

2) Picks on me but not in a mean way

3) Holds my hand to lead me through a crowd

4) Asks about my friends and introduces me to his

5) Brings up topics like marriage, kids and people living together, just his beliefs

6) Holds me and runs his fingers through my hair

7) Won't let me pay for anything even though I offer

8) Asks what I am doing for my birthday, that is not for another 3 months

9) Asks if I still talk to my ex

10) Asks about my future plans

11) Says there are jobs like what I am looking for where he lives

2007-05-29 08:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 08:24:34 · 24 answers · asked by funnyhaha 2 in Weddings

Gay Marriage? Why cant gay people get married?

2007-05-29 08:22:13 · 18 answers · asked by - 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'd just felt rejected for the first time of my life, or I'm just over-reacting. I had always liked this one senior, 6 more days of school. We always make eye contacts and stuff, but never talked to each other. All of those looks and glances he gave me; I mistook it for he "likes" me; because he was first to gimme the eye contact (that's why I liked him eversince), and it's been going on for 2 years already. I thought he likes me too, but when I called out his name today. I BROUGHT UP ALL MY COURAGE TO SPEAK TO HIM. I'm a shy girl with a quiet voice. For the first time, I said his name. He was with 2 or 3 friends, he and his friends turned around and he just grinned said What? And kept on walking with his friends. I gestured for him to come here, but he just grinned and walked away. I watched him go. My friend said he probably didn't hear me, BUT HE WAS LOOKING AT ME WEN HE SAID WHAT. She made excuses that I spoke to quietly, he probably thought someone else was calling for him

2007-05-29 08:21:24 · 7 answers · asked by Jum Jum 3 in Singles & Dating

What are some characteristics of a guy that you would consider him to be a loser or not dating material?

2007-05-29 08:20:25 · 46 answers · asked by anonymous1041091812 1 in Singles & Dating

I love him but I am tired of being his money supply. I don't want to start a fight with him but whenever I bring up money he always gets all "Why is money so important? Can't you just accept love"

2007-05-29 08:18:52 · 28 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Singles & Dating

And no family to help she is all alone on getting this man out of her house she has 4 kids.she is divorced from him and has lost her licence so she only recieves child support as a income. He will not leave her house.

2007-05-29 08:18:49 · 15 answers · asked by Lady L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with this girl for two years and i love her more that she can ever know. a year ago theres was nothing no one could tell meh about us. but know things hav e changed we have up & downs all the time, we don't call each other, and when we are togather we are fighting. that not how I want id to be. she works all the time now, and i do it move so we really never have time togather. i love her and we both don't want to leave so what could we do?
*thanks to all that replay*

2007-05-29 08:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said why don't you come up and we'll take a shower together....I'm like what..what is up with that??

2007-05-29 08:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

some people think that i am alwas am having fun and i am not i am not a joke i might play around but i never get in tromble i am not the class clown but there still take me as a joke

2007-05-29 08:13:52 · 3 answers · asked by los dominicano pimps {learder} 1 in Singles & Dating

I’ve seen so many people these days wear the type of tank tops where you can see their boobs hang out. This includes middle scholars and people on job. Do they wear them because it’s comfortable or more for sexual attention (to get laid)?

2007-05-29 08:13:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 5 to 6 months ago I was having an affair with this guy that I met that lives in my neighborhood. We had a sexual relationship that lasted for about 3 months and we only did it 3 times. I was with this guy because Ive only had one partner my whole life and I was curious to be with another man. Anyway, I ended the sexual relationship with this guy and we remained friends. Lately, i have been getting the urge to be with him again, but only in a sexual way. The sex at home is near to once a week or none and Im bored. I dont want to continue to cheat, but Im tempted to go and see this guy again.My husband has no clue that I have cheated. I know that I shouldnt continue to be friends with this guy, but he turns me on so badly.. what would you do? What should I do? Should I go see him again or just leave it alone..

2007-05-29 08:12:34 · 39 answers · asked by its not that serious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This isn't necessarily a personal question, but more of a question of personal preference. I just kinda want to know what people think..

2007-05-29 08:11:37 · 46 answers · asked by Ashleigh. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 17 and a virgin. The thing is I've had four boyfriends and three of them cheated on me. They slept with another girl. The fourth threatened to cheat if I didnt sleep with him. I at first thought that me being a virgin is something to be proud of, but it seems like that is why I keep getting hurt. I dont know what to do. I dont want to do anything with just any guy you know? I want to love them. But it seems like the more I dont the more I get hurt. What should I do?

2007-05-29 08:06:52 · 18 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl i like, and she isnt a virgin, i feel presured into having sex before i see her in a year so that im experienced for her
this girl is, in my opinion, the prettiest girl i have ever seen, i said that before i knew her, is it worth waiting to lose it to her? there are some other girls that i like but i almost feel like id be using them

2007-05-29 08:03:59 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating off and on for a while now, but everytime we broke up, the next day he was back with his baby's mom. Now he says he's really serious about us and wants to get married and be together, but I'm afraid that history will repeat itself, but I want to be with him. Everytime we get into a arguement I think that he just wants to go back to her, even though he says he doesnt, am I just overreacting?

2007-05-29 07:59:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating