Right now I'm dating a couple of ladies. Both of them are equally hot.
The problem is that it is getting increasingly difficult to keep this under wraps. Plus its also getting really expensive to entertain two ladies.
They have both met each other but they don't know that I'm dating the both of them at the same time.
Should I tie the knot with one of them soon or should I just keep living it up in the single life?
If I get married, I won't be able to date a few ladies at a time like I do now.
Maybe I should let the both of them move in with me....the possibilities are endless here. Think I can get away with it?
2007-05-29 08:36:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
after u married, u still can date with other Girls.
but how u can do it ? i mean the health to sleep with 2 ladies same time, Did u ever with 2 yr girls in one nite at 2 places? tell me yr experience
2007-05-29 17:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by dani ng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..one day they will find out and then what good it that. Don't even think of getting married if your going to break someone heart cause you still want to stray like a TOM CAT..Getting married is a long time life with some one you would love for ever..Either way you love both..they will find out and if they do..you lose and lost both..Some ladies don't like to share the same man and not only that they want to feel there man is the only one..And one more thing are you playing safe sex..cause if your not..what dease will you be giveing each ladies as your sending them to the grave. It sounds like your not happy unless you have more then one person you can have sex with in bed..the old saying is once is not enough..it this you
2007-05-29 15:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Spice M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Tell the ladies you aren't wanting anything serious, and they are free to date other guys as well. You are only interested in a physical relationship, nothing else, so get a vasectomy. The best thing would be to stay abstinent, but you don't sound mature enough to do that. Get fixed. You are a player. Do NOT get married until you become a one woman guy.
2007-05-29 15:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No!!!They don't even know about each other,how do you expect them to move in with you?Or get married to you?You are laying to these ladies!You are not the type of man who a woman would want to get married to...choose one of the girls and grow up because what you are doing is far away to be considered being a mature man.
2007-05-29 15:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry either one of them. You're not ready.
You haven't proposed or made either of them think you're "her man" have you? If you have, then you're doing her pretty dirty.
If you haven't "committed" to either girl, then you are free to date more than one girl. Just make the casual relationship part clear from the start.
It's not easy because women read all kinds of stuff into things - so you're bound to hurt one or both of these girls. But just as long as you haven't strung them along - then you're in the clear.
The key is not stringing them along - letting them hope they have a real catch on their hands and such. If you string a girl along, she'll make you miserable afterwords. Just not a good idea.
Oh and don't be surprised or offended if your girls decide to compare notes about their "man" - and find out it's you.
And don't be surprised or offended if your girls go stepping out too. Fair is fair.
2007-05-29 15:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. it's nice to dream, but not going to happen. If you have to ask us, then you are not IN LOVE with either of them and should not get married to either right now. When you decide that you can't live without one of them, then it's time to stop seeing the other one and remain faithful to the one you want to marry. Right now you are a player!!
2007-05-29 15:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just stay single for now. At this point in your life you are no where near ready to be married. When you find someone who satifies you enough to stay with just that one lady and not look at anyone else. (OK I know you will look but, that you care for her enough not to act on it)
When you find that lady then you are ready to get married.
2007-05-29 15:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by hotelmajor 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No!
If you aren't ready to be monogamously dating someone, then you aren't anywhere close to being ready for marriage.
Besides, if the only thing you can say about them is that they are equally hot, then I'm thinking that you don't love either of them. But, what does love have to do with marriage? Silly me.
2007-05-29 15:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by derek1079 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marry both of them at the same time and invite as many cops as possible to your wedding.
2007-05-29 17:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by marigold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing i want to say to you is you can live without a woman but you cant live without a relationship with GOD.
You should pray about what your next step is ?
stop having sex outside of marriage..and ask God to help you make a decision about your wife!!!!
it seems you are undirected, wanting drama but you can really get hurt messing with peoples feelings. or living up the singles life you could contract h i v ?
its your decision
2007-05-29 15:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by evamercy7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋