Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

About two weeks i had a dream about a guy i'v not seen in yeas.The dream was that i was walking over a bridge talking to him when a really nice bike came by us with someone on it, my friend then jumped on to the bike and waved goodbye leaving me standing waving back! I spoke to a friend about the dream n told her how peacefull the dream was and how i think he might have passed on or something bad was going to happen. Then a few days ago another friend said he had seen the friend from my dream, i told him about my dream and how i thought somethig was going to happen. Anyway i got a phone call today, i was told that my old friend was found dead in a flat this morning! I am now left feeling really freaked out!!!!!How would u react if this happened to you???????? This bit is for my friend, I love you P xx

2007-05-29 11:24:58 · 19 answers · asked by kid 10 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got a friend sometimes she act friendly other times she like flirt a little she tells me tht im like her big brother(but we arnt related) u think she likes me?

2007-05-29 11:23:46 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I attended a BBQ with my husband and out 3 year old. There was a lot of drinking, but I didn't drink because I was looking after my daughter. I wasn't having any fun and told my husband I wanted to go, but he wanted to stay. We had planned to stay overnight. My husband told me just to "cut loose." I just don't see how I could when my child is there, in a stranger's house, with lots of drunken adults.

Now all his friends think I'm no fun because I didn't get wasted with them.

2007-05-29 11:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i work witht his girl. i kinda like her, i know she does too, we're friends. but for last couple of weeks we didn't talk b/c i asked her if i could take her out, she said we'll see when we get chance, so i stayed away, i thought she was just playing me. anyways.. yesterday, i decided to say hi, and ask her how she's doing. and she almost got tears in her eyes. and said, i'm so stressed, i said why? she said, i work here, then i'm helping my mom open the bakery. and lots of work and stuff, i didn't know what to say back to her..


and i felt bad for not talking to her for a while.

tell me what can i do?
what should i do? how can i make her feel better?

2007-05-29 11:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by S. 1 in Singles & Dating

I am stuck on this one

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2007-05-29 11:21:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im getting married in december but i only want 1 bridesmaid and groomsmen. Do you think it will look weird? or should i have more?

2007-05-29 11:21:36 · 34 answers · asked by Blingy 1 in Weddings

a repeat of the last time, (he has some commitment phobia!). we split up 2 years ago and went our separate ways but i haven't been able to move on and he says he hasn't either, he says he still loves me and the feeling is mutual BUT we have come across a hitch, he don't like the fact that i was involved with someone else wen we weren't together. What i cant understand is, its ok for him but not for me! Anyway carrying on he tells me he might have another child out there and not sure if its his. I thought i was in the wrong for seeing someone else and still havin feelings for him, i stopped cause it felt wrong, but then he say he might have fathered another child, i don't understand how he cant see wrong in what hes telling me I'm not the only mother to his children!
Pt 2 nxt

2007-05-29 11:19:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lately I have not been able to get hard anymore. My girlfriend is really disappointed that we cant do anything anymore and it is really bothering me. I have no idea why i cant get hard anymore either. I randomly get hard sometimes but it never happens when i want it to.

I use to get hard really easily all the time and it was kinda annoying but now i barely get hard at all. I love my girlfriend with all my heart but i am afraid that this is gonna lose our relationship.

If anyone can give me some advice please do........I am really upset about this!

2007-05-29 11:19:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll never give up...never give in. Never let a ray of doubt slip in. And if I fall. I never failed. I just get up and try again. Never lose hope...never lose faith. There's much too much at stake. Upon myself, I must depend...I'm going rage against the dark. I'm gonna win.

2007-05-29 11:19:05 · 12 answers · asked by ray 1 in Singles & Dating

Personally I don't feel that way, I think there are more important things to marriage than sex, but just curious as to what you all think.

2007-05-29 11:18:33 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He hasn't paid in a couple of months and lives in Arizona, I live in michigan. If I file a complaint, can they take it out of his checks?

2007-05-29 11:18:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering for fun. If a stranger was walking by,stopped, and said with a flirty smile "you are delicious to look at" and then continued walking.How would you react? Yes,I'm bored lol

2007-05-29 11:18:09 · 51 answers · asked by rockman 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 5 feet and im 16 years old but haven't had much luck with the ladies.Girls tell me im cute but i think its my height.

2007-05-29 11:14:36 · 42 answers · asked by Tommy H 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married many years. We enjoyed mutual oral sex from almost the first time we slept together. Recently, however, my wife has decided she doesn't want to give me any more oral sex, and she doesn't want me to give it to her either. When I asked why, she said it disgusted her to go near my genitals with her mouth, and she considered it a violation for me to do the same to her.

I'm still in shock. What's even more shocking, I'm starting to fantasise about looking elsewhere for oral pleasure. I love everything about my wife, except this, but I can't forget about it, as she clearly wants me to!

Can anyone suggest a way out of this impasse?

2007-05-29 11:12:52 · 16 answers · asked by Doos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i am t 16. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. My mom told me that she didnt think my boyfriend liked her and i told her it was because he was afraid of her. She said he was more advanced than me (he's not really.. she just thinks i am naive... oops) She says hes pushy with me but the truth is hes not! He never does anything that i dont want him to do! All we ever do is kiss and hold hands and snuggle. It botherd her that he put his arm across the front of my neck once.( he was hugging me from behind and wanted to be sure he didnt touch my chest!) She is a psychologist and you would think she would know me better than any one but really she has NOOOO idea what is going on in my life. I am Mormon so if i ever do anything like that i seek counseling from a Bishop... its very hard to tell someone (esp an adult) that you did something... and I KNOW she does sexual stuff with like 3 different men. I dont know how to handle this with her! Can anyone help?

2007-05-29 11:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need to talk to someone about how to deal with this pain. I am still deeply in love with my ex. All the yahoo chat rooms seem to be pick up joints. where do nice pleople go to just talk about life and it's ups and downs

2007-05-29 11:11:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have lived with my wife for three years. When we first met she was needy, clingy, emotional, jealous, quick tempered and would spend hours anguished over some imagined slight, such as "Someone has not returned my call I made 10 mins ago, they hate me". I told her that if she wanted us to go anywhere then she had to stop all this. It took a while but the next two years where fantastic and things went from strenght to strenght. WE got engaged, we have been married less than a month and she has gone straight back to the emotional mess she was years ago. I think I may have made a mistake....

2007-05-29 11:10:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know when we get married by the justice of peace, do we have to write our own vows? or do we just say our " I do's "..or do we have to repeat everything he says after him?

2007-05-29 11:09:48 · 8 answers · asked by Blingy 1 in Weddings

i htink i have a little issue with my ex.... i seem to be angry cs i dont know weather she thinks of me or not. yeah she laft me, and got oever the hard times... but sometimes i go off thinking if she ever thinks of me and just you know wonders about me/ us old times... i dont know if i say i am over her why do i still think of her like that, and sometimes i notice that i get stuck staring at others because i see like flashbacks... you know it sucks and i cant get oway from it. i need help....

2007-05-29 11:08:28 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep on thinking of her. I am happy when I am with her. When I am away from her, I am really sad. We've been together for 6 months already. I am 22 and she's 21. I miss her. When I am with her, I always hold her hand, or hold her close to me and kiss her. Is this love? When you are in love, how did you feel?

2007-05-29 11:04:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bosses birthday is tomorrow. she is turning 19. i need ideas on something to give her! help please! 10 points! serious answers.. she doesnt need a vibrator or anything...

2007-05-29 11:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Blondie!!! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are some signs that your boyfriend is going to dump you, or is keeping you around until he finds someone better, or he doesn't like you anymore?

Also, what are some signs that you yourself are losing interest in your significant other and should move on?

Thank you so much for whatever answers you provide!

2007-05-29 10:58:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 10:52:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so, I'm gonna married both of them. Am I your hero, guys? Common, be honest. It's every man's dream.

2007-05-29 10:48:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-05-29 10:43:46 · 4 answers · asked by ~!~Juswonderin~!~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in the air about how to literaly go about leaving my husband and starting over in a new city (I have been suffocated by my current home for years-- this town is too small for the both of us!).

I mean, how much money will i need to even TALK to a lawyer? We dont have kids, but we have 2 cats, one pregnant. I'd like to keep them both + offspring , does a normal divorce case even handle animals? I have no hangup s about my stuff. He can keep everything we bought together. I just want what I came with and neither of us has lots of money to fight over so thats that. Do i even NEED a lawyer? Can I move before the divorce is final and do the paperwork by mail? Is it rude to send out a divorce announcement? (Just kidding, kind of.)

Is there someone who will just talk to me about it? How was your divorce?

2007-05-29 10:43:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has this "Size Change" fetish or somthing like that. Basically what it means is that he wants to be shrunken and wants me to interact with him.

This is impossible, so he wants me to "pretend" and try it.

How am I supposed to do this? Any suggestions?

2007-05-29 10:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you think is the percentage of teenagers asking love questions? shouldn't they have their own forum, that way we the adult can get down to business?

2007-05-29 10:38:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex wife took off with my daughter to california. I have since gotten an attorney and we are going to get the paperwork next week. I have three possible addresses and I just know i'm going to have to place an ad in the newpaper too. I'm really stressed out because I just know that she won't show as I live in florida. She keeps telling me unless I leave my fiancee i'll never see my daughter again and she's refusing to sign the divorce papers. I'm just looking for a little comfort here and wanted to know if anyone could tell me what would happen if she doesn't show up and the judge rules in my favor by default? Since i'm asking for sole custody would I be able to file kidnapping charges against her? I would ask my attorney but that won't be until next week. I just need to know if anyone has been through this and knows what CAN happen. it's been almost a year and the last time I heard her voice she was crying saying " daddy I miss you"

2007-05-29 10:37:36 · 11 answers · asked by Miguel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 10:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by baba 1 in Marriage & Divorce