My soon to be ex wife took off with my daughter to california. I have since gotten an attorney and we are going to get the paperwork next week. I have three possible addresses and I just know i'm going to have to place an ad in the newpaper too. I'm really stressed out because I just know that she won't show as I live in florida. She keeps telling me unless I leave my fiancee i'll never see my daughter again and she's refusing to sign the divorce papers. I'm just looking for a little comfort here and wanted to know if anyone could tell me what would happen if she doesn't show up and the judge rules in my favor by default? Since i'm asking for sole custody would I be able to file kidnapping charges against her? I would ask my attorney but that won't be until next week. I just need to know if anyone has been through this and knows what CAN happen. it's been almost a year and the last time I heard her voice she was crying saying " daddy I miss you"
2007-05-29 10:37:36 · 11 answers · asked by Miguel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You basically already know your answer here. The Judge will be especially interested in the threat of you having to leave your fiance as this is a self committed testimony that she took your daughter. Your divorce may be put on hold til the authorities pick her upand bring her back to face charges as he cant award you custody if thats whats going to happen,without the child present, but then your daughters well being willbe the high priority of the court and the divorce second.Good luck
2007-05-29 10:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know before I offer advice I just have to say that wives are not like jobs, where you need to find a new one before you leave the old one. If you cheated and she can prove it, and it sounds that way, you will lose. Comfort isn't an option. I mean why would I want to give you comfort and not the woman you cheated on? I got custody of my children and my wife's father was a surgeon. She had money to burn, was the best choice for giving the children financial security, but, she cheated. I proved it, and it snow balled from there. She paid me child support. All I can tell you is you had better dot every "i" and cross every "t" that your lawyer tells you to. If you are leaving out one address where you think she may be living, or you know, but think it will bode well for you to keep that info to yourself, it will be brought out to the fore front of the court. And you will not just lose but, get clobbered with child support that is unreasonable. Judges can not be tricked! Dude, really your doomed, you cheated so your best bet is to just stay married and not file and continue cheating. It's cheaper!
2007-05-29 11:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She took your daughter almost a year ago and you still haven't gone to the authorities about this? Good luck at getting her back at this point. I'm afraid you are going to have a hard time convincing a judge that you really want her. You need an attorney really bad. Sorry
2007-05-29 10:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by J M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such element as a protection tension divorce. All divorces are civil concerns. even although, the quantity of latest child help is in keeping with earnings. If there's a court order in place that states how plenty new child help he might desire to pay, then that's what he desires to pay. the only way he might desire to petition the courts to diminish the quantity is that if his circumstances replaced and he unexpectedly began making severely much less money. As for sending extra money on each and every occasion his ex asks for it, he's no longer obligated to try this and he's somewhat a fool to realize this.
2016-10-09 02:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a good thing..I just answer something kinda like this..when there is a break down in a marriage one of the parents always do things like this. Now answer your self on this..If you get your child are you going to use that child and pay back the mother and tell her she can't see her child cause you would be doing the wrong thing. what is the best for the child..can you tell her all about the time when she starts to have her first periods. Are you going to give up your job for your child. I'm not saying you can't do any of these things..these would be question of some that would be asked in court? Be the better parent and don't do what your wife is doing..the other thing is if you get full custody and you let her see your daughter..you wife can always try to take off with her in hiding..if you know the kind of person she is and would not do that..then your OK..but always keep on your toes..my ex did that to me..he took off with my two kids and didn't tell me where he went with them..so for awhole day..i asked his dad and his dad would only tell me he will bring them back on the weekend..but a mother Strong bond for her kids it stronger and what i did i took a bus to another town with out knowning he was there..but after waitng for 5 hrs..he poped out and i got him and took my kids back..i went and got a lawyer..just be careful..but be the better person..
i wish you luck
2007-05-29 10:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Spice M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow I wish I could help you but I can't except you have my sympathy for the same fact is my boyfriend is going through something similar with his son's mother. We'll be moving in together in June and we just know that she will refuse to allow him to see his son unless he leaves me! HAHAHA, never going to happen. But here's the real deal. You have to check on the state law because they may differ when it comes to kidnapping laws. Wish you all the best of luck and I'll pray for you and your daugther!
2007-05-29 10:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by precisesmile69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-31 20:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so wrong im sorry man but keep going u will win by default and u can maybe file kidnapping charges agniast her.
2007-05-29 10:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by dirbe22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't show up in court, you will get everything that you ask for, Good luck
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2007-05-29 20:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋