so i work witht his girl. i kinda like her, i know she does too, we're friends. but for last couple of weeks we didn't talk b/c i asked her if i could take her out, she said we'll see when we get chance, so i stayed away, i thought she was just playing me. anyways.. yesterday, i decided to say hi, and ask her how she's doing. and she almost got tears in her eyes. and said, i'm so stressed, i said why? she said, i work here, then i'm helping my mom open the bakery. and lots of work and stuff, i didn't know what to say back to her..
and i felt bad for not talking to her for a while.
tell me what can i do?
what should i do? how can i make her feel better?
2007-05-29 11:22:39 · 11 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep working on it.
2007-05-29 11:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you would like to go out to eat one night. Get her to talk without being open about it. Ask her about the bakery, or how she likes working where you both work. This will show that you are interested in her and give her a chance to open up. Then top it off with a good movie. Make it a funny one. Attention,humor and getting a load off her mind will be just the thing she needs. Good luck!
2007-05-29 18:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she either really trusts you or that she wants to trust you because she is opening up about herself to you. You should be a listening ear to her and not judge her about anything and just be there for her and listen. When you talk to her just try and stay positive and tell her positive things so she can feel better after the conversation is over. Don't dismiss her feelings either but just be positive and try and help her out. Good luck and also I think she might want to go out on the date, just be patient and give it time.
2007-05-29 18:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by DN1503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a gift certificate to a spa for an hour massage or something and I'm sure she would appreciate it more than you ever could know..... That shows that you care with out being overbearing. I bet after that she'd be so swept away that you'll definitely have a date.... Good luck and tell me how it goes!!
2007-05-29 18:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by ~ Rachel B.~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing. you can only control you. remember that for the rest of your life.
to help her in this time of stress, just being there to do some active listening would be helpful to her. good luck. try not to be a captain save a hoe, otherwise you may get hurt.
2007-05-29 18:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend, a shoulder to lean on. Do not be the guy trying to get into her pants. Be a friend. Someone she can trust. You like her, be a friend. Always try to be her friend first. She needs to know to trust you. She can't trust anyone off the bat. You have to show her she can.
2007-05-29 18:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you are there to listen whenever she is ready to talk. When she is ready to talk then she will. If you want to let her know that you are sorry that you backed away then let her know that you didn't want to add to her stress. Then see what happens.
2007-05-29 18:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by LyL Ma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever you can to help her. First thing - go and let her talk about it!!!!!! Everything else will fall into place
2007-05-29 18:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nitris X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her and offer to help her in any way possible
2007-05-29 18:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it a surprise and go to her in the bakery.
it would be really nice....then, ask her to go out with you.
2007-05-29 18:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋