Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

my boyfriend won't let me snowball him. how can i convince him that it's good?

2007-05-29 14:22:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so confused, do I love him or have I been with him for so long, I forget what true love is?? He has anger issues and on meds for them, but he does fly off the handle at the drop of the hat. Everytime he gets angry, he breaks something, last week he put a hole in the wall, tonight he broke the lid to my rabbits cage. What do I do??? When he gets on this rage, all I feel towards him is HATE.....please help. Is he worth all of this, or am I really to blame. This all started with a game of b-ball between us, when he busted the side of my face with his hand trying to knock the ball out of my hands. I was angry and told him to leave me be for a minute.....he got so pissed, he flew off the handle.

2007-05-29 14:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by carebear2804 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone have any ideas about bridal shower games or food. My sister, my mom, and I are throwing a party for my cousin. Any suggestions about food, games, or advice would be welcome. Thanks for the ideas!

2007-05-29 14:17:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know it depends on the individual, but I feel if I'm not in another relationship in under a month, I'm a complete loser. I hear of people that go 2 years or more without sex and don't know if I should admire them or pity them.

2007-05-29 14:16:33 · 2 answers · asked by Kelli Y 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 14:15:53 · 2 answers · asked by na y 1 in Singles & Dating

Many girls look hot or sexy in glasses for some reason. But guys look stupid in glasses right?

2007-05-29 14:15:50 · 8 answers · asked by anonymous1041091812 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 years old. When my boyfriend and I are hugging/cuddling, he'll sometimes kiss my neck. I love when he does, but I don't know what I should be doing. How do I let him know that I enjoy it? I feel dumb just standing there. On a similar note, do guys like it when girls kiss their necks, or is it mostly just a girl thing?

2007-05-29 14:10:32 · 29 answers · asked by lek 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 14:09:41 · 20 answers · asked by sspencer2014 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and him have 4 kids and still have not pop the questions do you think we should be married by now

2007-05-29 14:07:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I talk to my boyfriend everyday for about 30 min, and we talk for several hours on the weekends. But he keeps mentioning how much we talk... I am wondering if he thinks that is too much. Should I not try to talk to him for a couple days and see if he just wants a little space?

2007-05-29 14:07:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im about to be twelve[tomorrow!] and he has just turned 14[may 3rd]
he asked me out and idkk.
he is going to 8th and im going to seventh..he told me he got held back..but other girls say he tried to get them to do things..
i really like him but its weird..

2007-05-29 14:02:08 · 35 answers · asked by samantha_aaron1879 1 in Singles & Dating

this always makes me back down and he knows this i think.My friends told me to tell him "don't let the door hit u in the ***" to see what he does.Does he stay because i back down or is he just bluffing?

2007-05-29 13:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by lori f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She wants children but not for another 8 years, we been together 4 years and I love her and going to marry her but keep thinking is 48 too old to start a family.

2007-05-29 13:57:52 · 13 answers · asked by Russ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 13:55:34 · 18 answers · asked by Kelina C 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i have been engaged for 2 yrs.Do to "money problems"(his) we had to wait to get married.Now things are better and we are planning he said he whats to keep it as cheap as possible so he does not go back in debt(total for wedding and honeymoon no more than 4-5k)Now this makes sence but after telling me this he goes out and buys a drum set for 1k.Now hes looking at golf clubs for $800 for himself and a $500 guitar for his 8yr old child.now i know he has had to be tight with money for awhile and wants to spend some on himself. but this seems like overboard to me after telling me we have to be cheap with the wedding.i will add i plan on paying for half the wedding/honeymoon its not just him paying.This is his 2nd marrige and my 1st so maybe its a bigger deal to me than him.

2007-05-29 13:50:24 · 4 answers · asked by kathy a 1 in Family

My fiance and i have been engaged for 2 yrs.Do to "money problems"(his) we had to wait to get married.Now things are better and we are planning he said he whats to keep it as cheap as possible so he does not go back in debt(total for wedding and honeymoon no more than 4-5k)Now this makes sence but after telling me this he goes out and buys a drum set for 1k.Now hes looking at golf clubs for $800 for himself and a $500 guitar for his 8yr old child.now i know he has had to be tight with money for awhile and wants to spend some on himself. but this seems like overboard to me after telling me we have to be cheap with the wedding.i will add i plan on paying for half the wedding/honeymoon its not just him paying.This is his 2nd marrige and my 1st so maybe its a bigger deal to me than him.

2007-05-29 13:49:50 · 28 answers · asked by kathy a 1 in Weddings

(keep it clean, kids)

2007-05-29 13:49:08 · 14 answers · asked by mightymite1957 7 in Singles & Dating

If a guy goes to the gym a lot, is that a turn on or a turn off for you girls?

2007-05-29 13:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I be cool?

2007-05-29 13:41:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im am 16 years old and there are 2 foster kids in my home one is actually my blood cousin he is blind and stuff and my grandma the foster mom cant lift him so where ever he and she go i must go just to be there and lift him witch is annoying and there is also a lil WHITE kid with autism and he is retarded but cant really tell it sucks cause its so embarrasing in public? I want him out of my house period.

2007-05-29 13:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by rodney w 2 in Family

Our baby just got out of the hospital from having respitory problems andlow weight...we were toldto keep her indoors as much as possible for at least the first 30days.. Mother in law is coming and I know she's going to not ask but tell us about going over her mom's house with the baby....Hubby's uncle resides there and has hepatitius C..and they are NOT cautious about him spreading it and neither is he.We also get sick whenever we visit.I don't want to do this..What to do? BY THE WAY;Hubby's grandmother is young and spry and can come by but doesn't want to.Great gramma can't travel...

2007-05-29 13:38:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please add your age. Thanks

2007-05-29 13:36:52 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetgal 4 in Singles & Dating

She went her way, I went mine. For the last 10 yrs, however, we have lived less than 20 miles apart. No romantic interest, just curious to compare notes on how our lives turned out.

2007-05-29 13:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by Observer in MD 5 in Friends

He currently does not contact her, or try to make the effort to see her. His sister picked up my daughter to go out for a bit, and ended up taking my child to his house because "he needs to see his children". But has not put forth the effort, how long before he basically gives up his parental rights? And if he does then what about the child support?

2007-05-29 13:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by Need Help 1 in Family

I read this on a website-

"Breaking Up, Its like learning to ride a bike. You fall several times before you succeed. You'll have to date - and break up with - several people before you find the right person."
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Do you you people really agree with this? I think it's crazy. I actually laughed when I read it. It's no wonder why soo many people are getting divorces.

2007-05-29 13:33:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She told my boyfriend to invite me over so we could talk today which hass happened before and she cancelled. This morning after I got mentally prepared and he cleaned and prepared his room for me, he was getting ready and she said she didn't feel well & we should reschedule... he has been angry at his mom changing mind. I dunno what to feel... right now I am just confused. I know she loves me, but why does she keep changing her mind, (she gets sick sometimes) so I think thats why. What can I do to make him feel better and not so upset with his mother?

2007-05-29 13:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by Queen 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not sure how this works but I know the man gets the women a ring but do I get my man his. How does the ring thing work? Im too embarrissed to ask him.

2007-05-29 13:27:49 · 14 answers · asked by rainmaker8801 2 in Weddings

Have you ever made you mom mad?

2007-05-29 13:26:38 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

I see nothing good in my future.

1. I've got 1 year left of High School. After that, I'm working. I don't want to go to College.

2. My brother (the only person that takes me places and does things with me) is moving out of the house to live with this lady.

3. My other brother moved out of the house 10 years ago and is now married. Spends no time with me. He live 2 hours away from where I live.

4. My sister lives in her College dorm. She visits on the weekends. We're not close.

5. Me and my father aren't close neither. He's 61 and he's about to retire from working. After that, there's nobody in the family that works.
I have a cat named Meatball. He's the only friend I've got. There's nobody at school and there's no girlfriend. He's a old cat.
I'm getting a job this summer at this store by my home. I'll just be fixing the shelves and collecting baskets. I'll be the only person that's working in the family.
What is there to look forward to in my life?

2007-05-29 13:26:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

to let me pierce my belly button...
she used to say i could when i turned 16..but when i did she denied ever say that...and now im almost 17. Its about to be summer..i think its so cute and tons of my friends have it..
i wanna try asking her again..any tips?

2007-05-29 13:25:07 · 25 answers · asked by Bix 2 in Family