She went her way, I went mine. For the last 10 yrs, however, we have lived less than 20 miles apart. No romantic interest, just curious to compare notes on how our lives turned out.
2007-05-29 13:36:48 · 10 answers · asked by Observer in MD 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmmm... After eight replies, 3 people say "NO!", 1 says "Maybe", and 4 say "yes". Interesting split.
2007-05-29 14:05:25 · update #1
That's kind of tough, especially if either or both of you have family entanglements. Not that you're likely to either of you suddenly swoon into each other's arms, but if you have partners who might become unsettled by this out-of-the-blue contact, it may not be worth it. It's not something I'd care to do without clearing it with my spouse first, anyway - why run unnecessary risks? Still, if you can't see any problems, or if the potential reward outweighs the potential risk, then why not? It's often interesting to catch up with old friends, even though you and they may have changed so much as to have become complete strangers. Boy, looking back at this, there's not a lot of positive attitude there, is there...
2007-05-29 15:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be best to just leave things as they are. Contacting her might make her become discontent with her life as it is now, and start thinking about what "might" have been. (Depends on how close you two were also)
2007-05-29 13:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,
I think u should, who knows maybe she wants the same thing to happen as well, besides life is too short do whatever u think is right and do it quick...
2007-05-29 13:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by elmira z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..hmmm..yeah..I think you should..so in the end..no regrets at all..^^..It wouldn't hurt you if you contact her right?..you wouldn't lose a foot or a teeth if you try to be friends with her again..just check her out..^^.,remember,time heals..^^.,Good Luck!..
2007-05-29 13:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by chec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? i contacted one of mine and it was pretty cool. we talked and that was about it. so i say why not? well unless you split on bad terms.
2007-05-29 13:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaawww that sounds like a movie or something!!!lol. definatley contact her!!!!
2007-05-29 13:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you, if you are still friends w/her Why Not ?
2007-05-29 13:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes contact her!!
2007-05-29 13:40:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Let her be.
2007-05-29 13:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by merrybodner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!!!!! SHE PROBABLY DOESN'T EVEN REMEMBER YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-29 13:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by klyschvrs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋