Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

So When I was about 13 I met a boy at camp and we had "puppy love" well we stopped talking after awhile because he lived a while away, well I am 18 now and have a boyfriend of two years well for some odd reason I looked for him on myspace I guess just to see how he was doing. i feel bad now, like I am doing something bad in my relationship. Am I? I mean I love my boyfriend with all my heart. Why would I be trying to talk to this guy and is it a bad thing?

2007-05-29 20:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle N 2 in Singles & Dating

if faced between choosing two women :
1) your wife - jealuos and nagging and contrlling you cannot be alone or have freedoms she always thinks your cheatng and never stops btichign at you and threatneing to take your kid away so you never see him again. or
2) an ex girlfreind you missed for years, but now she is a wreck.. in credit trouble , and also pregnant and single and maybe possibly going on welfare.
which would you choose, and why? im asking this for my brother

2007-05-29 19:59:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 19:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by chris w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 19:47:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to be better and I haven't had too much experience so far.. any advice?

2007-05-29 19:45:12 · 11 answers · asked by girl 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not in my nature to force things...so I always thought that the "right" girl will come along, but I am 22 years old, never been in a relationship, and honestly speaking, it's getting kind of lonely..lol..It's really hard for me to approach women because I either get nervous or shy (Please don't make fun of me). All of my friends and close cousins have had a relationship at least once, and I really don't know why I can't approach a girl that I like...hmm...these thoughts never crossed my mind when i was in high school, but as I get older, it's making me feel like some kind of handicap or something...I would appreciate a sincere advice...thanX

2007-05-29 19:40:46 · 10 answers · asked by djnam22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 19:37:31 · 13 answers · asked by ♥PurePoison♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I saw him kissing her but did't dare tell me but i know.

2007-05-29 19:37:08 · 15 answers · asked by Ruby 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm curious. How many people out there see them selves as the nice guys that finish last? Did that bother you? Did you do something to change for the better or not? Mainly I've noticed myself becomming more and more cynical and pessimistic to the point I sometimes believe women are pure evil, and just throw in the towel. When I hear some chick talk about her unhappy relationship now I just want to tell them, "Hey who's fault is it really?" as oppose to compassion. Am I the only person who thinks like this? Nice guys speak out!

2007-05-29 19:35:09 · 13 answers · asked by phantom_mav10 2 in Singles & Dating

The problem is that my aunt looks exactly like Dr. Frankenfurter. How can I watch my most favorite movie when it now reminds me of my aunt's cold silence and refusal to speak to me for going on five years now?

2007-05-29 19:32:50 · 5 answers · asked by Shinigami 2 in Family

There are so many girls out there, but will I ever find the right one that is perfect for me?

2007-05-29 19:31:51 · 7 answers · asked by Mihir P 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have been with my husband for over 2 years and love him very much. Last year we found out we were going to be parents and he was very excited. But since we found out I was pregnant he stopped being intimate with me. At first I thought it was the whole pregnancy thing but its been a year and we've had the baby and still nothing. He is effectionate thats it, Ive caught him with text messeges from other women talking about sex. He says that he doesnt consider that cheating and he likes to play with that fantasy. Im not a timid women and I am used to a once a day love schedule, I have men hitting on me and its almost tempting. Ive tried talking to him and I get a variety of excuses but still nothing has changed. He is a great daddy to our 2 month old but in the husband role he is lacking, is he trying to loose me or what? I dont know whats going on with him but Im not sure I can take much more of this, what should I do?

2007-05-29 19:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by lil_mis_all_my_t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you be a friend and have the utmost trust and be really,really close?

2007-05-29 19:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by t_bone3003 2 in Singles & Dating

i am not bad looking 6' man. i had this problem since i was a child kids at school were picking on me becouse they saw me as a weakest. but it turn out ok after i made most of them my friends. my father left my mom when i was 1. when i came to america to live with him. i can not find a peace with till today. he is an alcoholic. all throught my child live he was my hero in my heart and then he dissapointed me by selfishnes. i was 15 then and i went to high school. it was not bad, people liked me, but i never had a girlfriend then becouse of my lock of english(iamEU). when i moved to new york city after hs. i have been dateing some girls(not2long), one found another after first date, now nobody want to hang out looking at me as i am a freak. i become anti social, what's the point of going out? i can not sleep at nights, i become nervous for no reason, i wanna quit my job, i can't think straight, i never had sex, i have no good friends. you think there is a chance for me to find love?pic

2007-05-29 19:27:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok say for instance after oral s.e.x or even actual s.e.x, do u clean up immedialty afterwards?? or just fall asleep??

what i mean by cleanin up is: getting up bathing or cleaning up the wetness with a cloth or towel??

if u dont, dont u feel uncomfortable sleeping in the "mess"??

its just a question that i would like opinions on.

2007-05-29 19:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by Phoenix21 7 in Singles & Dating

I know a web site called Web Date.com, but it no good.

Does anyone know a dating web site where I can talk to christian singles live chating on web cam and others?

2007-05-29 19:20:33 · 4 answers · asked by Aaron Kool 1 in Singles & Dating

for "God or anybody ". causing great problems in our relationship how to confront this without causing more great problems? help!

2007-05-29 19:19:33 · 18 answers · asked by niles7 1 in Singles & Dating

my family absolutley hates my husband. he has had his problems yes, but i do love him and have 2 young children with him and one has severe medical problems. the only way my family will help me with the kids is if we are apart. what do i do? i've had to sacrifice being (physically) with him, he's in a totally different state working right now just so I make sure he works and i have help with the kids. is that right? it's like i have to hide the fact that we are still together and i'm sick of it....pls help. i want my husband and i want my family.

2007-05-29 19:14:16 · 20 answers · asked by angelwachinovrme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Bassically i want to go to Hawaii or some plaece Exotic. and he wants to pinch the wallet and go up to his parents house in washinton. we live in CA by the way... so does anyone have any ideas of where we can go for a REALLY Cheap Price and still not have to stay in his parent's cabin/house thingy... i really want something AMAZING!!

THANKS!!

2007-05-29 19:10:11 · 13 answers · asked by allie 2 in Weddings

2007-05-29 19:09:07 · 5 answers · asked by Shylia 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband I were married Feb 24th of this year and already having problems. I fear I'm starting to resent him! I moved 1500 miles away from the only home I've ever known because he wanted to. He has a job because we only have one vehicle and I'm stuck at home all the time. I've tried telling him that I'm lonely and unhappy and told him how he could help me become happier. He tells me what I want to hear and the next day is just the same thing over again. Could this possibly be the start of an abusive relationship...any advice?

2007-05-29 19:05:06 · 22 answers · asked by Kellie D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean he likes you but its just not gonna work and he dated another one of my friends so what should i do like so confused

2007-05-29 19:03:45 · 8 answers · asked by toosexy_904 1 in Singles & Dating

What do I do if he wants to do it but I dont...he mistreats me and is a slight show-off in front of his friends...btw, I already broke up with him.

2007-05-29 18:54:04 · 21 answers · asked by Serenity 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 18:51:43 · 7 answers · asked by Jammie_♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you find porn a turn on? Why or why not?
Any specific thing that does do it for you?

2007-05-29 18:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want honest answers now....
what is the big deal with boobs?
i dont understand why guys like them so much....and why is it that the bigger they are, the better??
idk i have always wondered.

2007-05-29 18:49:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living here for eight months and have been paying at least $200 more than him each month. We are pretty good friends although now I obviously think less of him. I already confronted him but now what should I do? Ideas? Experience?

2007-05-29 18:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by philosopherkingpin 1 in Friends

...for guys to think of their girlfriend constantly worrying about them and that they have to call them or they'll go insane over worrying?
I told my bf not to call me for 10 days because my grandmother would be staying and I wanted to only spend as much time with her.
Before hanging up the phone, we teased each other about worrying our heads off about one another and when we talk again we would say...."I missed you SOOO much!" "I was counting every hour till we could speak again" "Those 10 days felt like a 10 years!" ETC.
But he said that I always worry too much about him and that he bet that I would do ALL of those things, but then I said that I wouldn't and that I'm not THAT desperate. Was that a good choice or not? Is it normal or good for him to think like that, or is it just in the guy genes? BTY, he worries about me too sometimes.
Me, personally I worry about him when hes in trouble, but wouldn't you rather want someone that worries about you, over somone who doesn't care

2007-05-29 18:44:24 · 5 answers · asked by Hiya 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 18:42:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do boys like sex? And girls too? I mean, all u do is body movements and physical motions! Sure u have a...thing... in ya girls,but so wat? And boys, wats so good about puttin yo...thing...in a girl? Its an unusual question,I know,but I'm a virgin girl wondering this and also scared of this...

2007-05-29 18:42:04 · 28 answers · asked by Serenity 2 in Singles & Dating