What do I do if he wants to do it but I dont...he mistreats me and is a slight show-off in front of his friends...btw, I already broke up with him.
2007-05-29 18:54:04 · 21 answers · asked by Serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to go do himself! Don't let anyone mistreat you. You deserve better! Don't be a push over... you already broke up with him! I see why. But this is your fault too, if you are letting him treat you this way.
good luck
2007-05-29 18:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there..
Good for u if u broke up with him..
Im guessing ur a good catch for him and his friends probably think so too..that explains his showing-off-to-friends attitude..
I tell u .. guys who want to have sex,show-off when they do is the kinda guy that would forever be this way..
They think of u as a conquest , a prize , a winning.. believe me if he gets to "do-it-with-you".. after that, he totally would boast to all his friends on how great he was and how long he went on and all that crap...
And when u guys say..breakup after sex.. he would have said u know..ur no good or bad in bed..
So i salute u for breaking up before this guy humiliates u..
Men like this will always be like that..
They take u for granted..
And everything to them are objects to get it on with..
Youre much better off without him coz women dont need men with a dick-brain..
Ok?
Takecare
ciao!
2007-05-30 02:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you.He was an immature jerk.It's your body and you have the right to refuse sex any time you want.It sounds like he only wanted you if you were putting out.There are some guys out there that think all a woman is,is a c*m dumpster.I hope this guy gets the clap from his next gf, to teach him a lesson.
2007-05-30 02:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by john s 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to wait until it is right for you, and if he can't respect that, then he doesn't respect you, then HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU! Don't give in, stand your grounds, and do what you've done, drop him and move on. He's not worthy of the gift.
If he mistreats you - do not go back!
2007-05-30 02:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..just keep saying "NO!". You deserve better than somebody who mistreats you (I assume) on a regular basis. Besides..you've already broke up.....sounds like you made the right decision..so just stick to your guns,Hun!
2007-05-30 01:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must never give in, because then he would want to push you around more and more. You made the right choice in breaking up the relationship with him. It was not a good one that anyone would want to stay in.
2007-05-30 01:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hiya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you've already broken up with him, the next step is just to keep on avoiding him if he mistreats you and you're uncomfortable with it
good luck
2007-05-30 01:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by shitsutonka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even be considering having sex with him? Sounds like an idiot to me (him not you), the sex would probably be horrible and he'd go bragging to his friends, and you'd regret it for the rest of your life.
If you don't want to do it....then DON'T!!
Nobody controls you except yourself
2007-05-30 01:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by spunion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep running as far and as fast as you can away from this jerk. You're someone to be respected and cherished: you deserve to be treated as such. Goes for guys or girls
2007-05-30 02:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Now just stay away from him. He's toxic to you. I'm glad you realized that you deserve better than his disrespectful ways.
2007-05-30 01:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by 1M9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋