my girlfriend sleeps 12 hours a day, sez she won't change this?

Question

for "God or anybody ". causing great problems in our relationship how to confront this without causing more great problems? help!

Answer 1

kick her lazey ass to the crub and get one that is awake

Answer 2

some people need more sleep than others to function normally. If your girlfriend sleeps for 12 hours then I don't think that's really something to hold against her. I have a friend who can't sleep more than 5 before she's up and banging around(aka waking everyone else up). If it's causing that many problems than maybe you guys shouldn't be together, but I can't imagine a couple extra hours of sleep being the downfall of a relationship.

Answer 3

Sometimes I sleep more than your gf. She may have depression, or she's one of those people who needs alot more sleep than normal, or she's lazy. It's possible that if she doesn't get that sleep there could be some physical problems. Like me I get headaches or get dizzy. She could be anemic. At first my bf was like wow u sleep quite a bit then we figured out there was a problem for the reason being that i did. Maybe you should take her to the doc

Answer 4

Some people actually need that much sleep believe it or not. I personally need 9 hours. My husband will definetely sleep 12 hours if he is left alone to do it. I used to get really irritated by that but now I'm used to it. I read somewhere that Albert Einstein needed like 14 hours of sleep per day. Not sure if that's true but who knows.

But I'm guessing if you're one of those people who only sleep 6 hours or so per night then it will be hard for you to get used to your girlfriend's sleeping habits because I know it took me a while to get used to my husband sleeping 12 hours per night.

Answer 5

12 hours a day ?

Uh can we say..MOOCHER AND FREE LOADER ?

YOU NEED TO KICK HER ASS OUT..now don't wine and go BUT I LOVE HER..she doesn't love you enough to pitch in..around the house..not much can be accomplished with sleeping 12 hours a day..

is this what you want for a life partner ? Someone who doesn't pull their weight in a relationship ? A free loader ? A Moocher ? You may tell me "BUT THE SEX IS GREAT"... thats no reason to keep her, she's no wife or mother material if you're thinking of having children some day..

HER ASS NEEDS TO BE PUT OUTSIDE..in THE COLD..

She's clearly taking you for granted and everything else......what an un-greatful and un-appreciative little ****..

Answer 6

I LOVE to sleep but even I dont sleep more than 9-10 hours top.
Tell her 12 hours is actually unhealthy when studied in insurance studies

Answer 7

She might have a medical condition that she is not aware of. It could be a number of things, thyroid, sleep apnea, low iron, etc. Before you throw in the towel see if she would consider getting a physical or checked out by the doctor.

Answer 8

if you love her and it is not a major issue then get on with it, but it sounds like it bothers u. if she does work even part-ime i dont personnelly see not problem, and also sometimes times a lot of love aking can have this effect. there are a lot more horrible nasty thinks she could start getting into but she is not, just enjoys her bed, both you chill out.

Answer 9

She may have a thyroid problem. She may not even know it. You will have no energy, several health conditions may cause this sleeping problem. She may not be able to help herself.......... Get her some Vitamin B Complex, (not Vitamin B12 or B6).

Answer 10

Her sloth would annoy me, and it sounds like it annoys you too! Try to plan fun things to do with her to get her up and out of the house, be cool about it and don't make it seem like you are only doing it because you want her to get up. Sleeping all day is lame when there is so much to do.

Answer 11

I think you should learn the sleep pattern of your girlfriend if you want to keep her or get a very time consuming hobby