Family & Relationships - 29 May 2007

well were still friends but he has been acting strange and i dont know what to say or do

2007-05-29 16:09:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't even know what time this is... maybe the 4th or 5th time that he's cheated on me. but i've been his partner for 6 years. and it's hard to let go of that, i have no identity outside of him, he does so much for me, that i could never do alone, i just have to learn how to make it hurt less or something, or become better for him, or something, god, why again?

2007-05-29 16:06:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have answered a couple of questions and they have vanished. Also how do I rate a answer?

2007-05-29 16:04:33 · 1 answers · asked by Dee 4 in Singles & Dating

i dont want to getr emmbaresed he is in a older grade and i dont want him to make fun of me and laugh and tell his friends plus i dont want to look like and idiot and be laughed at at school plez hlp me

2007-05-29 16:01:12 · 6 answers · asked by juliana 1 in Singles & Dating

with email and text messages? An ego check to see if I'm still interested or too gutless to just talk?

2007-05-29 15:55:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl friend and I have been dating now for about a year and now she is pressuring me for sex. But i believe in abstinence and she knew that when we first started going out. I have tried tellin her over and over "no" but she is threating to leave me. what should i do?

Thnx

2007-05-29 15:51:08 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everybody! I had a very weird feeling. I had very few friend but if I make friend with somebody and if they are my best friend. I don't like them to have a lot of friend because I am afraid that they will leave me alone and don't play with me no more. I might be a little bit( envy) if they have other friend. I'm scrared that I will lose my best friend. Pls any help me. how can I overcome this feeling? I know it is silly but I always does that, and I don't know why.
Thank you so much for spending time on me.

2007-05-29 15:47:45 · 2 answers · asked by x2y81 2 in Friends

he has been gone three monthsand every couple of weeks or whenever he wants he just uses his key and says i cant change the locks until the divorce is over.is that true?i'm tired of his. surprise check ins.i live michigan

2007-05-29 15:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by carol m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i have this really cute guy friend, that I've known for 9 years. From a friend i found out that he likes me, and i like him too. The only problem is he always acts shy around me and barely talks, since i found out that he likes me. I want him to make the first move, but hes afraid i would get mad or something, ruining our friendship. I really want to make the first move, but im afriad he might get scared, or getting faced with rejection. What should i do? Should i just go for it?

2007-05-29 15:42:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the best and worst parts of attending a wedding? Detailed answers please about what you like/dislike about going to a wedding.

2007-05-29 15:34:43 · 16 answers · asked by Christmas Bride 1 in Weddings

he tried to hook up earlier at the party, and I kept telling him I was old enough to be his mother. Well to make a long story short, we ended up having sex in a car. I am freakin out as I don't want my husband or his wife to get hurt by our actions. I think we had unprotected sex, and when I got home I realized that this was during the time I ovulated, My husband and I can't have children something about our fluids don't like each other, I am scared, This guy is young enough to be my son, 19 years, I knew he was young, but not that young! What do I do if I get pregant, after all these years of wanting a baby, and if I am I hurt two people if I keep the baby, and ruin two marriage.

2007-05-29 15:31:15 · 22 answers · asked by lostinmo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

easiest things you can do yourself and not pay someone else to do? If you have a catering service what are the things you need to pay them for and what are the things you can do yourself? If you purchase some sort of package do you get a discount for doing some of the things yourself? I am trying to plan my own wedding and I am a girl who never thought about this kinda stuff growing up, so I don't have a clue?? We don't have alot of money, but want to have the nicest wedding with what we have. How many people out there that planned there own wedding would do it all again the same way? How many people who are in the process of planning there own wedding wish they wouldn't have even started? Sorry:-( I said I had sooo many questions so anyone who can anwer any of them will be a help to me thank you in advance! And, I am sure I will be back for more help!!;-)

2007-05-29 15:19:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My colors will be hot pink, hot purple, bright green for accents. Can you give me some ideas on what I should do for the table colors (table covers, chair covers, napkins, chair sashes). The reception is going to be at a country club and our room is surrounded by windows and a walk around patio. So you get a really nice view of the golf course. My flowers are going to be the hot pink and purple and the accent of the lime green. Any table color and setting ideas would be great! I don't know if I want the table cloth to be the bright pink or purple or should it be more sublte?

Thank you all in advance for your help. Greatly appreciate it!

2007-05-29 15:12:44 · 10 answers · asked by TJ 4 in Weddings

2007-05-29 15:09:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that people like to have it. I'd rather wait but I do think that if the time came that me and the person i love are ready to have it should we really wait till a ring is around our finger?

2007-05-29 15:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by alexissmilex3 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband left me 4 weeks ago and is now with someone else (though they say they are just friends, they DO go on dates). I'm getting better and better by the day. I'm happier, smiling more, and full out enjoying life! I still have my moments of weakness and sadness, but overall, I'm very proud of myself for taking is better than I ever thought I could. Part of me thinks maybe the reason I have taken it SO well, is beacuse I have this GUT feeling, this all-over feeling, that he WILL come crawling back to me. he still loves me, he still cares about me, and he wants to be friends, and do things together with our daughter (zoo, beach, aquarium...). He's not giving me false hope, because at the same time he says, it will NEVER work between us again. But I've prayed and prayed to God about it, and I get such a comfort each time that my prayers will be answered. Anyone else ever had a gut feeling about a spouse returning and it turned out to be right? Should I listen to my "gut feeling"?

2007-05-29 15:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-29 14:57:58 · 2 answers · asked by Britt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 14:56:49 · 15 answers · asked by belle o 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 14:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering what makes a guy want to decide a certain girl their with is the one they want to be with for the rest of their life's. Oh yeah, another question for u guys if u tell a female that they can honestly trust r u just lying or telling the truth? What qualities do u look for in ur partner? Thanks to all u guys who HONESTLY answer this question. Answer w/the truth not lies. PLEASE!!!!!!

2007-05-29 14:43:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 14:40:24 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-29 14:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by stepmom of 1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He says if we did get married his dad would probably be okay with it but his mother would have 'some objection'? Do you think this would work out or should I just give up on it now?

Also: Some people have concerns that he is just trying to use me for various reasons (like a green card etc). It is hard to know this for sure, but of course who wants to believe that about someone they are beginning to care about?

We have been taking the relationship really slowly, no sex is involve which I think is really important... but I don't know if this is going to make a difference in how serious he is about me or not, anymore... We have only been dating 4 months but we have been talking about becoming 'serious' for a little while now, we just consider ourselves very good friends right now, or boyfriend/girlfriend in our own way, not the traditional 'Western' way.

2007-05-29 14:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i cheated on my husband and he never found out... i ended that relationship. i am still with my husband but now i can't kiss him it's really hard i love my husband but i cant kiss him i panic and hyperventilating and sometimes get grossed out i figured it could be the bad breath so now i buy gum and give him a peace like if i was sharing to see if that would help..




any advise?

2007-05-29 14:38:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need to get this cleared up so please women dont feel ashamed or afraid to answer this question... first off.. do you women watch porn? if so how often? what do you have against it if your man watches porn? is it saying that there are women he finds more attractive than yourself which sort of lowers his value and yours? Also, i found lesbian porn on my sister's computer (nothing hardcore) but she's not a lesbian. explanations PLEASE!

2007-05-29 14:34:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wants a BABY, not a kid, we already have 2 kids, we are so broke, cant pay bills or afford food. She is so desperate to get pregnant, we have decent jobs, work 2 jobs each, she never takes care of the kids we have, just wants to spend more money on credit cards. Why are people like that? If I can't afford something, I dont get it, period. And this BS that kids dont cost much, yeah right. She has to have fertility treatments to help her get pregnant, that runs $1000 a month, which she charges! I really truly love her so much, but her attitude towards money sucks. And she hates kids, has no patience for them, just thinks babies are cute and wants one to look like her, so she can dress it up and show it off! I do all the hard work like diapers and stuff. We cannot afford a baby, period but if she doesnt have one, she says she will be depressed her whole life, like something is missing.

2007-05-29 14:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by Tim S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What kind of girl is she? Party girl or serious student. Sounds like a party girl to me. I don't know. Tell me. Does she have myspace?

2007-05-29 14:32:47 · 3 answers · asked by John R 1 in Singles & Dating

please dont mind my spelling its horrable.

2007-05-29 14:31:12 · 3 answers · asked by Elizibeth-Hope 2 in Singles & Dating

so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months. weve known eachother for about 2 or more years. i really love him, and a lot. he says he really loves me and it seems like it. but thing is, were almost in 9th grade and im not sure if thats too young for love. i believe that i really love him and that he loves me but everyone i talk to says im too young for it and hes just in it for the physical stuff. we makeout a lot but we didnt have our first kiss until a month after we had been dating. i told him i didnt want us to become a physical relationship and he said if i didnt want to be physical or whatnot he would be fine with it. but is he or am i just gullible?

2007-05-29 14:28:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know I read all that stuff in the magazines saying,ohh thats fine as long as you are confident.Lets get the real opinions!
When erect 12cm,I am good looking young man with good build body-I had no complex about it until now,its 3 month since my 3 year old relashionship with my ex is finsihed,I have new girl all around,but I haven't been with the other girls for 3 years,I am 25 now-even though before I met my ex-girlfriend I never had any relashionship,there was more one night stands,and short adventures.So I met this girl,she is gorgeous,she is lovely-and most of all she likes me too,its all going that direction but I am not sure that I will satisfy her that way scares me.What do you think ladies please,write!Honest answers!!!!

2007-05-29 14:27:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating