well were still friends but he has been acting strange and i dont know what to say or do
2007-05-29 16:09:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say the direct route is the best route. Tell him what you think. That way there will be no mix ups or anything. If hes been your friend for that long, try and save your friendship.Lying doesn't help anything.
2007-05-29 16:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are best friends, you should be able to talk about anything and both should know you are not going to judge each other.
Tell him you are worried about him and ask him what is going on. If he won't talk now, let him know you are there for him. Tell him you know something is bothering him and see if he will open up. Tell him you are best friends and you care.
Maybe he is interested in a girl, or something totally different. I hope his family is ok. Tell him how your friendship means to you and how you value him as a person. Start the conversation with positives. See where the conversation leads. Give him a hug if he needs it, or even if he doesn't.
2007-05-29 16:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be friendly. You don't say how old your are, but as you grow older your friends change. I'm not saying that this is what is happening, but it is a possibility.
Some people have one friendship that has lasted from childhood to old age. But as you grow up, you meet and make new friends. It's not a bad thing, people have to grow and change and if they grow and change in different directions, it's natural for the frienship to drift apart.
Just play it cool, I wouldn't to talk to her or him about it right now. Just saying they are acting different will put them on the defensive. You have to accept friends just as they are, you can't ask them to change. Just be there for them and the odds are things will work out and things may go back to be the same.
2007-05-29 16:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's depressed, usually friends act strange when something is bugging them, just sit them down and ask them "Are you okay?" "Can I help?"
2007-05-29 16:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by LikeItorNot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange how? Sit down and have a talk with him.
2007-05-29 16:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dorothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him whats wrong.
Don't let it become more of a problem than it has to.
If they snuff you off give him his space. But what ever the problem is work on it. Do not let it become worse
2007-05-29 16:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by jenimiper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, permit's see...you're turning out to be bodily, hormonally, socially...it truly is common that at your age you have an pastime in the alternative intercourse. Your dad and mom are petrified of your growth & i'm particular are worried for you. Why no longer comprise your growth to comprise psychological growth by skill of first asking your dad and mom to allow you recognize a number of their concerns related to your friendship with this boy? pay attention to their concerns attempting to regulate a rebellious reaction. This boy has a diverse loss of journey himself on account that as you're saying, he published his domicile telephone sort on fb. that's between the classic techniques new child molesters earnings get admission to over the internet; by skill of a telephone sort they might somewhat get his handle...I won't flow extra on that undertaking...i'm particular you may think of from there. I say do no longer beat around the bush. I additionally say which you're the two somewhat plenty to youthful for something different than studying to talk easily & of course then studying the thank you to handle the outcomes. those are the instructions existence is attempting to show you in the present day. in case you study something in the present day it is going to be to examine who you're as a man or woman who continues to be bobbing up into an truthful, attractive youthful woman who's clever adequate to understand that there'll constantly be instructions to examine in existence & in case you do no longer study those instructions you will save repeating those blunders until you get them appropriate. Why no longer ask your dad and mom to allow you recognize who they controlled this time of their lives as against how they might such as you to regulate this occasion? growth is painful isn't it? puzzling & frightening. make valuable to ask different adults on your worldwide for his or her enter to boot. Write their responses down in a diary in case you will possibly desire to. study, be risk-free, and have confidence that people who love you will help to steer you on the path to adulthood & nicely previous. after all the place's the hearth?
2016-10-09 02:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As people grow up, their interests and personalities change. Sometimes you just outgrow friends.
2007-05-29 16:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by fedupwu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just confront him about it. Ask him if it is just you or if things are getting weird. I'm not sure why this would be happening, but talk to him about it.
2007-05-29 16:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by Bobert R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ask him/her whtz da probs?u must ask tht and only u hav da rite to ask it.and try to convince him how much u care and luv for him.i think i am too
going in this state.
2007-05-30 01:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by trio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋