What is you definition of the perfect husband?

Answer 1

One that will listen to you. That cares about how you feel.One that will always protect you.He will place you first.One who cherishes and adores you.One that thinks you are and treats you special. One that will stick with you through the good and the bad.One that will do anything to make you happy.And will always be in love with you.

Answer 2

To start with, there is no such thing as the "perfect" husband; they only exist in romance novels and mushy chick flicks. The best you can hope for is to find a man who meets most of the basic parameters and who's faults are something you can live with. Here's a few "specifications" (in no particular order of importance) that you might use if you were in charge of a special R&D project to develop the perfect husband. The list is only illustrative in nature, and does not claim to be fully comprehensive.

Can hold a steady job/good provider (he can earn money faster than his wife can spend it).
He is not violent and is mentally stable.
He does have too many bad habits/vices.
Treats his wife with kindness, love & respect.
Good role model for the kids (if any).
He is capable of showing some emotion.
He has a good sense of humor.
He is, at a minimum, sufficiently attractive that she wouldn't be embarassed to be seen in public with him.
Buys her flowers (even when she isn't mad at him), or a gift, takes her out to a show or nice restaruant, etc.
He does romantic things; like leaving little love notes/poems where she will find them, or sends her cards even though it isn't any special occasion, etc.
He doesn't leave the toilet seat up!
He calls her from work just to tell her he is thinking of her.
Capable of empathy; [if he is able to know how the wife would feel about something he does ahead of time; he will be less likely to do something that will piss her off]. Note: at present, this is only a theory.
Has some interests in common with the wife.
Is attentive and notices when she's been to the beauty shop, got a new dress, etc; and says some kind of compliment.
He looks into the eyes of his wife, hold her hands in his, and can truely and sincerely say "I love you" and realizes this statment is more than just something you say to a woman to get her to have sex with you.
Actually remembers their aniversary; and plans something special for it!
Senses when she is having a bad day, and cuts her some slack.
Supports/congratulates when she does something to better herself (such as a better job or big promotion).
When lost, he is actually willing to stop and ask for directions!
Understands that sometimes his wife just wants to spend some time in the arms of a kind and loving man; she doesn't always want it to invariably lead to the act of copulation.
Assuming she is "in the mood", he does not fall asleep, like 30 seconds after finishing said act, but holds her close and whispers how much he loves her (and assorted other mushy stuff I will not go into here).
When the wife has had a rough day he is able to sit and just listen to her talk, without trying to offer solutions to her every problem.
He is willing to help out, at least a little, with the housework.
Gives his wife a kiss when leaving and coming back from work [I don't mean a brief peck on the cheek which says "I'm making the minimum acceptible level of effort"; but, he takes her in his arms, pauses a moment to look into her eyes, before giving a deep, passionate kiss that says "I love you" without the need for words; (although, he couldn't go wrong by saying it as well!)]
Does not act "married"; he treats his wife as if they were still courting, and he tries to win her love every day.
He is steadfastly loyal to his wife; [if he were ever in a situation where she wasn't around to keep an eye on him and a beautiful woman started coming on to him, he would have the willpower to resist her; saying something like: "You're a very lovely woman; I'm sure you would be a lot of fun to have a roll in the hay with, but I can't; my heart belongs to another; I just couldn't do that to my wife, she would be so hurt! We have such a wonderful relationship; I don't want to risk losing everything for a few moments of pleasure"

Answer 3

My husband is perfect. He is himself. Nothing more and nothing less. He is funny smart works hard on some days and lazy on others. Sometime he yells and sometimes he cries. He loves me for who and what I am. That is the perfect husband. One that is just him, nothing more.

Answer 4

just know there is no such thing.
one who takes care of me when I am sick,
helps cook n clean the house,
helps be the bad guy when the kids are out of control,
pumps my gas
crys at movies
hell lets me hold the remote
puts the toilet seat down all the time
doesnt fart under the covers


well mine isnt perfect but he does do a hell-a lot for me so I think Ill keep him ..at least for anotha 14 yrs

Answer 5

Faithful, Loving, Caring, Supportive, Financial stable.

Answer 6

There is no perfect husband or wife, but if there was it would be one who was loyal, kind, loving and attentive.

Answer 7

Perfect husband...honest, good dad, good sense of humor, loving, makes good $, supportive, fun, and encouraging

Answer 8

There is no perfect husband, nobody is perfect.

Answer 9

One who has found a perfect wife. Short of that, it is an oxymoron.

Answer 10

Rich and recently deceased...(just a joke I heard)