Family & Relationships - 26 May 2007

I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years he is a really nice guy that looks after me and does everything for me , I live by myself in another country and I dont have anyone here just him. I went back to my country for holidays and I met another guy , I was with him for 3 weeks , I saw him every day ...everything was perfect!!! I came back to the country where I've been living for the last 7 years and the relationship with my boyfriend is not the same , I've been thinking so much in the other guy , talking everyday on the ph, chating etc...he wants to come here to live with me and he is trying tO do the papers to get the visa etc...I dont know what to do because with my boyfriend I have everything...with the other guy ...Im not sure I dont even know him properly I dont know if he is real or just want to come here and he thinks im gona help him to stay here...but I feel so much for this new guy that is scary ...I dont think I love my boyfriend ...I dont know what to do ?????

2007-05-26 23:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by chiqui 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, i've been talkin to this woman on-line, casually. A question i asked was what have you been doing for the last 10 years or so? So she told me what she had been doing. But also she added she broke up with her boyfriend. To me if i mentioned this to a woman, it probably put her off. But she said it briefly to me. any insights to what she's thinking?

2007-05-26 23:57:23 · 12 answers · asked by Stuart L 2 in Singles & Dating

...and my psychology assignment...
To all GUYS-***what would your dream girl be like***. Best answer will be the one with the most details on her looks to her personality!!
Thanks everyone!!!

2007-05-26 23:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently had an argument withmy ex and she has since been giving me the silet treatment, what is going on in her head, she doesn't return, reply to my teszt or calls, but I am told she saves my voicemails by her sister.

2007-05-26 23:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by Intellithug 3 in Singles & Dating

When i was younger i was always the ugly one of the bunch never had a boyfriend always picked on. Boy's wouldn't look at me. There was a boy i really liked and after 6 month i got the courage to ask him out and he laughed in my face. but i soon forgot him. I used to go to the gym and started to look better and feel better about myself and things started to look up for me.....
I recently started doing modeling and i am loving it but the men especially the lad i asked out have all started paying interest in me and i know its because of how things have turned out for me....
now I'm afraid to get with someone in case they are simply out for me because of how i look ....
What do I do i just want someone to want me for me???? Why is that so hard.?

2007-05-26 23:48:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the chances of achieving an orgasm (for a woman) through penetritive sex?.. When I have sex with my boyfriend I don't really get much stimulation or 'unbelievably wow' feelings when we're having sex. It feels good but not explosive like how one would anticipate or expect it to feel. I receive more pleasure from him using his fingers or mouth down there (sorry for being rather graphic).. I love having sex with him more for the closeness, the connection that we reach than the actual act itself. Do any of you ladies relate to what I am saying or am I sounding a bit strange and foreign?

2007-05-26 23:44:40 · 7 answers · asked by Expecting ... ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I know about India where wives worship their husbands. they fast on karwa chauth day each year to pray for him and express her love for him. I seek to know about similar practices around the world cultures

2007-05-26 23:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by Pawan M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw this girl in my class on a dating site and she is quite frankly the ugliest girl in the world.

She is literally begging for responses but my guess she is getting none. I feel sorry for her.

Do you feel pity for the ugly?

2007-05-26 23:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually bow down their when look at you?i dont think i m such a respectable or whatever person..i felt bad when someone does that to me?

2007-05-26 22:58:33 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your probably going to think that I'm really sad and a pathetic person.I have alway had problem when it came to having a relationship end. They've always left me. And as they were going I was still madly in love with each and everyone of them. I'm 46 years old now and live with four different men in my life that I love dearly. When the relationship is ending I not very good at letting go or excepting that it over.I cry ,plead and beg them not to leave me. Trying everything that I could possibly do and say to convince them to give me another chance. Hoping that they will realize how much I love them .I get so scared just like a little girl when she loose her mommy in a big department store. I can't began to explain how scared I fell. I become imobalized with my life.The cruel part is now I've been married for 5 years now and my husband has for the whole marriage has pack up, walk out on me once every 2 to 3 months saying that he was leaving me. Isn't that sad?

2007-05-26 22:15:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am deployed in Iraq, and I want to show my wife of 17 years, how much she means to me. It is difficult to write her everyday, and send her flowers, ect,ect. She means the world to me and I want her to know she is my life.

2007-05-26 21:48:45 · 7 answers · asked by stupid c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-26 21:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and i are both so stubborn and thats the only thing that we ever clash too. Do u guys think two people like that can stay togather?

2007-05-26 21:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to her for 3 years now, She has 3 kids, 18,13,10, not worked for about 15 years i believe. Am i being so wrong as to insist that she now gets a job? I was self employed a while back and so we got tax credits, when i started my new job earning okay money, the tax credits continued cos she 'forgot' to tell them.. Obviously its a year on now time to renew and I am not lying on no form. She uses the money to get the shopping each week as all my wages pays for the bills at end of month. So when the credits stop, and we start paying them back, we not going to have any money for shopping, so I am insisting that she goes back to work, but I am being unreasonable here? all i want is for her to go and do some bloody work! any ideas what she could do or if you think i am being unreasonable.???

2007-05-26 21:19:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she had picked me up at around 3:00 pm and we were set to go to the movies around 4:20. but as 4 o'clock approached she stated that she didn't want to go and that we should just hang out at her house and try to find people to come over. her efforts failed, she called nearly everyone she knew this past saturday night and yet everyone had plans. so around 9:30 (six hours had passed) and we went to funworks.we rode the go-karts and played golf. then i go online andread her bulletins on myspace. and she posted that she had just got home but she was bored and that she needed more fun than what she was having. i just don't get it. what exactly did i do wrong? am i that boring of a person?

2007-05-26 21:00:51 · 7 answers · asked by forapessemistimprettyoptimistic! 2 in Friends

I LIVE IN OHIO, WILL BE MARRIED IN NEVADA. WILL THE LICENSE BE VALID ONCE BACK IN OHIO?

2007-05-26 20:59:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am Brian. I am 17 years old. I went to the Tokyo Express Japanese cuisine restaurant around 9 PM.

I was ready to get a table and the next Waitress was a hot young sexy Latina girl. I kept smiling at her, staring at her and flirt with her. I must be a staring love weapon because me kept staring at her and smiling at her got her to smile at me and she striked up a conversation with me. I'm serious she talked to me and I told her it was my birthday (it really was) and I am now 17 years old. I liked her so much I even gave a 0.50 tip. I would give higher but why waste money on a girl that might not like me but if she likes me I am paying a way higher tip.

She smiled at me, was very nice, sweet, and she even asked what I was doing today like she likes to know what things I did today.

I like a girl named Ashley (blond hair) but I seem to be more in love with and wanna be with Latina girls. They make me feel so much love.

What makes them so HOT!! and makes them so attractive?

2007-05-26 20:58:58 · 11 answers · asked by BtAlex 1 in Singles & Dating

we are friends, but i want to have a deeper relationship with her. NOT INTIMATE. dont get the wrong idea. i need to tell her though, and i have to do it by monday. plus, im fourteen, so be realistsic. PLEASE, SOMEONE ANSWER ME!!!

2007-05-26 20:57:19 · 9 answers · asked by sanchito 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I borrow 20's out of my fiances wallet, and lately I use his credit card a lot. I think I might have over done it though because today went shopping with my friends and I used his credit card to buy a Coach handbag for $548, Chanel Allure fragrance for $95 and I paid for lunch for all my friends at Cheesecake Factory. The total cost of my day came to over $800.

I think I might have over done it spending that much and my boyfriend and I are sort of on a budget right now because we are saving up for our wedding and for a new car. Do you think he will be mad when he gets the bill? What should I do?

2007-05-26 20:54:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-26 20:54:02 · 5 answers · asked by SEREIN_549 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to hold his hand but we are both really shy. Like mega shy. I know he probably wont. But whenever we are alone it just feels weird. I love him of course I do its just that we are both so shy. Any advice Please!!! luv Bixy xxx

2007-05-26 20:51:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Think about it. We as humans spend so much time dealing with issues concerning intercourse, especially us men. Just go to college, it's full of guys spending some time studying, the rest of the time trying to land the next girl in bed.

So, if women evolved into more sexual creatures like men, it would make things easier for the both. And this may happen because the more sexual deviant women will end up having more offspring and spreading their genes more into the future generations, while the less sexual women will have fewer offspring and may eventually be wiped out.

What do you think? Here's to a future of slutty women who will have sex with just about anyone, just like us guys!

2007-05-26 20:37:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 20:33:16 · 21 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

My huspand and I separated a month ago I left him first but thats only because I thought I had no other choice and he didnt love me or I thought was putting his family first. Then he tells me he didnt see us ever working out because we didnt get along. However the week before that we got along great. Now hes giving me mixed messages he doesnt want anyone else or does he want me to be with anyone else, but yet he doesnt want us to get back together right now either help confused and heart broken!

2007-05-26 20:18:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-26 20:16:58 · 18 answers · asked by HONESTJOHN T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-26 20:16:08 · 8 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are very "active". When we are in public, she is not afraid to kiss and show affection. We share many sex jokes and talks (although some of my friends are very uncomfortable with that kind of topic) She gets "wild" in some cases, and my friends have told me that it bugs them. But whenever we are alone, we do things very differently, she gets very passionate and things slow down a lot. We sit, lay, or get other types of comfortable and start to have a good time. She gets this sweet side that she only shows when we are alone. We start calling each other nicknames (like sweetheart or teddy bear), barely making any sexual references. We do kiss and do other things a lot, but very slowly and passionately, very differently than we do in public. Is this bizarre behavior, or is it just me? I know she doesn't have split-personality issues or anything like that, but she acts very differently at various times.

2007-05-26 20:15:27 · 21 answers · asked by Orlando S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 20:10:25 · 9 answers · asked by bruce_eel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-26 20:04:45 · 33 answers · asked by uuummk 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have told my husband before that I consider talking secretly to the opposite sex on the internet and telephone cheating. Now I found out he has been talking to a woman with 25 phone calls and he says he did nothing wrong. Do you consider that cheating? Not to mention it was all long distance so there are charges for it.

2007-05-26 19:59:34 · 22 answers · asked by sherryliz 2 in Marriage & Divorce