What are the chances of achieving an orgasm (for a woman) through penetritive sex?.. When I have sex with my boyfriend I don't really get much stimulation or 'unbelievably wow' feelings when we're having sex. It feels good but not explosive like how one would anticipate or expect it to feel. I receive more pleasure from him using his fingers or mouth down there (sorry for being rather graphic).. I love having sex with him more for the closeness, the connection that we reach than the actual act itself. Do any of you ladies relate to what I am saying or am I sounding a bit strange and foreign?
2007-05-26 23:44:40 · 7 answers · asked by Expecting ... ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oral, anal, masturbation and penetrative work for me!
2007-05-27 01:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do some real research, you will find that most women who have orgasms, don't have them through intercourse. There is a percentage of women that have them vaginally, but they are not the majority. Unfortunately, even in our enlightened society, many women don't know the real deal when it comes to their bodies. That fun button that all women have, has to be stimulated, and stimulated right, in order to orgasm. There is nothing wrong with you. If you want to have an orgasm while he is penetrating you, don't be shy, give yourself a reach.
2007-05-27 07:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be a good "fit" to you. I went out with a girl that said it was impossible for her to have an orgasm during intercourse.. so don't expect it or feel like I didn't do something right... it is just not possible. Well, it was possible.. within a week she was having multiples. Blew her mind. After a while she brought it up and said it was the way it 'fit' and a prominent 'ridge' on the top.
Maybe you could use a French Tickler, ribber condom or something to get the extra sensation you need.
2007-05-27 06:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't have an orgasm from intercourse. I think it's something like 70% of women require clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm. So you're not alone in this. Just don't let him quit the stuff you like until you're done.
Good luck.
2007-05-27 07:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat as you. Don't mean to sound graphic but I found that I get the WOW feelings if he is moving his tush fast and going deep. Play around a bit. You'll find a way that works for you. Either way I get off better with his hands or mouth also.
2007-05-27 06:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I've never had an orgasm through intercourse. I love the closeness too. We're on the same page.
You have to maybe use a toy (vibrating) to stimulate your cl*t while having intercourse. maybe you'll get one this way. I haven't tried it yet :) Good luck!
2007-05-27 06:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya, i can only orgasm if im on top. and its explosive.
2007-05-27 09:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋