When i was younger i was always the ugly one of the bunch never had a boyfriend always picked on. Boy's wouldn't look at me. There was a boy i really liked and after 6 month i got the courage to ask him out and he laughed in my face. but i soon forgot him. I used to go to the gym and started to look better and feel better about myself and things started to look up for me.....
I recently started doing modeling and i am loving it but the men especially the lad i asked out have all started paying interest in me and i know its because of how things have turned out for me....
now I'm afraid to get with someone in case they are simply out for me because of how i look ....
What do I do i just want someone to want me for me???? Why is that so hard.?
2007-05-26 23:48:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, personally I would avoid the guy who laughed in your face. Obviously he is only interested in you for your looks. As far as the rest are concerned... Make friends. Don't jump into dating anyone until you have a good friendship and connection established with someone. See how these people talk about/treat other people aside from you. Do they make rude comments about other peoples' looks or body types? If so, I would say that they are more interested in your looks than you - as a person. Trust your instincts about people.
Good luck.
2007-05-26 23:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone you can just hang out with. Make friends with them first so know they like you, not just your looks. Avoid the ones that were especially rude to you before. One thing you might need to watch out for is make sure you don't start dismissing the less attractive men out of hand. Don't turn into what you hated. And if necessary show up for a date, not the first or second, but down the line, dressed really sloppy and without makeup. If the guy seems to lose interest really quick at that point you know he's after your looks.
Good luck
2007-05-27 07:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. But I know some guys who dated the girls who were just looks. It doesn't last if they don't have a personality. Whoever you're dating will have to look past the fact that you're pretty if they actually want to hang out and have fun with you. And don't give in to sex quickly, because if you think that the guys are after you for your looks, that won't be the only thing they're after. Good luck!
2007-05-27 06:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to find guys that ar einterested in stuff you are.. I was like you.. I was a late bloomer too.. just have fun.. don't take it so seriously.. try to pick the guys you like instead of letting the guys pick you.. be more assertive..
2007-05-27 06:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by JulianJules 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u should see people as friends 1st and foremost..u 'll know who is who sooner or later :)
2007-05-27 07:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋